1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,880 ♪ Made a decision on me ♪ 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,480 ♪ I'll face the sunny sun ♪ 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:09,680 ♪ What on a head of vision ♪ 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,680 ♪ What is life be like? ♪ 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,120 What's up everybody? 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,800 It's Friday. 7 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:18,560 We're happy you're here. 8 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,800 Really happy you're here. 9 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:21,640 Thank you for listening all these years. 10 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:22,680 Yes. 11 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,200 Listen to our best dogs, our old school episodes. 12 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:27,320 They're pretty damn funny. 13 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:27,960 Yeah. 14 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:32,200 We went pretty far back a bunch of the most recent ones. 15 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,560 Well, the "Objected and Plain Site" is from 2019, 16 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,000 but that's six years ago. 17 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,840 Yeah. 18 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,680 And then a bunch of them are from seven years ago. 19 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:41,960 No. 20 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,720 Eight years ago. 21 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:45,560 You have the one where I talked to the dad 22 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:46,400 about the Christmas? 23 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,760 Yes, I think that one is this Thursday, 24 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,280 'cause I moved that one back a week 25 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:52,040 so that I could put, 26 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,040 'cause I had found the "Objected and Plain Site." 27 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,760 Well, Randy May has helped us find it. 28 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,800 Thank you, Randy. 29 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:57,880 Yeah. 30 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,000 Yeah. 31 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,600 I want to play that episode for Natalia. 32 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,080 Oh my God, it's really funny. 33 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,840 'Cause I told them the story many times, 34 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,400 but I think they'll get a kick out of it. 35 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:08,240 Yeah. 36 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:09,400 Oh, yeah, especially now. 37 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,360 Right. 38 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,120 She's still friends with that girl. 39 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,560 She is? 40 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,360 Yeah, the girl who's dad hates me. 41 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:17,200 Yeah. 42 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,040 They talk. 43 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:19,040 Oh my God. 44 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,040 Yeah, they grew up together. 45 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:20,880 Went to school together. 46 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:21,760 That's so funny. 47 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:22,920 Yeah. 48 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,560 All the way through high school. 49 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,760 It's amazing when our kids, you know, 50 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,640 I mean, my kids have had such a different experience 51 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,040 than my childhood, you know, 52 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,720 I moved so many times as a kid. 53 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,400 And my kids have never moved. 54 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,120 They were born and raised in their house 55 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:40,520 in their neighborhood. 56 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,800 Your kids have pretty much, like, 57 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,000 since second grade. 58 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,520 Yeah, but they are in LA. 59 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,120 So even friends that they knew from earlier than that, 60 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,600 they could still be in touch with you. 61 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,440 Yes. 62 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,160 But it is amazing for them to have friends that they've had, 63 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,720 well, since they didn't zander not as much as Elby, 64 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,120 because with Elby, I became friends with those parents. 65 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,960 Right. 66 00:01:59,960 --> 00:02:01,640 And I'm still friends with those parents. 67 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,520 So yeah, it's nice. 68 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,520 Yeah, they have friends that they grew up with 69 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,960 and they're still friends with to this day. 70 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,800 They keep in touch. 71 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,200 It was little Buddhist birthday. 72 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,320 The KM East birthday, a couple days ago. 73 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:13,160 Oh. 74 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,280 Natalia, you know, called and wished her happy birthday. 75 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:15,960 Yeah. 76 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,320 She moved away, but she's great. 77 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:19,320 So cute. 78 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:20,480 Oh, you know what I meant? 79 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,600 You know, on Tuesday's episode, 80 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,440 and maybe people have figured this out by now, 81 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:30,440 but I was promoting the drunkish episode. 82 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:33,200 And I promoted that Meredith was on Wednesday, 83 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,200 but you know who's on the Tuesday episode? 84 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:36,800 Lisa Lampanelli. 85 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:38,240 Oh my gosh, really? 86 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:39,080 Yeah. 87 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,080 I love her. 88 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:40,920 Oh. 89 00:02:40,920 --> 00:02:41,760 I know. 90 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,280 She was, remember how much fun we had with her? 91 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:45,120 All we did. 92 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:45,960 Yeah. 93 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,520 So she went to rehab for food addiction. 94 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:51,360 Oh, really? 95 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:52,200 So we talked about that. 96 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,680 Yeah, she's not sober, but I don't think she drinks. 97 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:55,200 Yeah. 98 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:59,040 But she for food and she is, she's just, she's just funny. 99 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:00,280 And she's so warm. 100 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,800 She is very warm. 101 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:02,960 I love that about her. 102 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:03,960 Yes. 103 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,960 She was always so nice to me. 104 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,960 Yeah, even though she was the queen of mean. 105 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:07,960 Yes. 106 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,280 She was like ruthless rooster of the year. 107 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,560 A lot of them are like that Jeff Ross is the sweetest guy, so sweet. 108 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,120 And he's the roast master. 109 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:17,120 Yeah. 110 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:18,120 And he can't take it though. 111 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:23,080 I mean, he, if you, like they've played pranks on him and he like almost wants to cry. 112 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,080 You know, there was that dancing with the stars. 113 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,560 I was saying, they tell you, I've told you that one. 114 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,160 I sort of remember it remind me. 115 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,240 I'll just, it's a funny story. 116 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,760 So they, he was on dancing with the stars. 117 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:42,120 And what happens is is whoever gets kicked off that day will end up on Jimmy Kimmel live. 118 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:48,320 So Kimmel show knows early on who's going to get kicked off, but the, but like Adam knew 119 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,360 he was going to get kicked off that time. 120 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:52,560 They told him. 121 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:56,720 But Jeff Ross, so Sal and Jeff Ross prank each other and play jokes on each other all 122 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:57,720 the time. 123 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:58,720 So Sal was working at Kimmel. 124 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:03,480 He knew that Jeff was going to be kicked off, but he told Jeff you're safe. 125 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:04,680 You're going to be fine. 126 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,680 So that night when he got up there and he was in the bottom two or whatever, you can see 127 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,360 him like whispering to his dancer going, it's, it's, I know that we're okay. 128 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,920 I know we're okay. 129 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,200 And they kicked them off. 130 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,160 Oh, that is a mean prank. 131 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,760 That's definitely beyond prank. 132 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:20,760 That's just cruel. 133 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:21,760 I know. 134 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:25,000 He didn't talk to Sal for like a year. 135 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:31,680 And then Tom Cruise showed up at Jimmy's house for football one year and like brought them 136 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:35,960 together and tab them like makeup because they didn't, he didn't speak to Sal for like 137 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:36,960 a year. 138 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:37,960 Yeah. 139 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,080 And Tom Cruise knew they were having a fight. 140 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,800 And Jimmy was like, okay, when you come, I'm going to tell you what happened. 141 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:42,800 He filled them in. 142 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,840 He's like, I want you to be like the, you know, the mediator and all the guys are like 143 00:04:46,840 --> 00:04:47,840 surrounded. 144 00:04:47,840 --> 00:04:50,680 And he's like, so he went and talked to both of them in front of everybody. 145 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,680 And then they made up. 146 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,680 Yeah. 147 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,680 That's stupid story. 148 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,920 That's so funny. 149 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:01,000 You know, you just reminded me of even though it's too late for anybody to watch it, but my 150 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,720 friend, Bonnie McFarlane is on the tonight show tonight. 151 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:04,880 Oh, she is. 152 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,720 But this is today's Monday. 153 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:07,720 So you guys missed it. 154 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:11,920 But you could go, yeah, you can go on YouTube, go on YouTube and check out Bonnie McFarlane. 155 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:15,560 Yeah, she was just on the tonight show, Jimmy Fallon. 156 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,320 Oh, I love Jimmy Fallon. 157 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:18,320 Yeah. 158 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:19,320 He's really talented. 159 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:20,320 That's great. 160 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:21,320 Yeah. 161 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,320 I like to watch it. 162 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:23,320 Good for her. 163 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,320 Yeah. 164 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:28,240 Well, I have, we have so much to get to in this episode. 165 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,240 Okay. 166 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:30,240 Okay. 167 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:35,920 Like, I feel like on the one hand, we might be done talking about Amy Bradley, but then 168 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:41,400 on the other hand, I came across this article, I like, I like to hear this shit. 169 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:42,400 Okay. 170 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:48,040 So I pretty much have decided that she went overboard. 171 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:49,200 She's not sex trafficked. 172 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:50,200 I maintain that. 173 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:51,200 Yeah. 174 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,440 And then I found this a little confirmation bias. 175 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:59,680 I found this article by, it's not Jeremy Renner. 176 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,800 I think is not that is not an actor. 177 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:02,800 Yes. 178 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:03,800 Well, it's named Renner. 179 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:04,800 Okay. 180 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,200 Well, he's a like a journalist. 181 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,200 Yeah. 182 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:09,200 He's a like a journalist. 183 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,200 He's a like a journalist. 184 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:14,960 I only printed out, I didn't print out like the, the head whatever. 185 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:15,960 Okay. 186 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:16,960 I think this is from Daily Mail. 187 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:17,960 Okay. 188 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:18,960 Okay. 189 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,960 Here we go. 190 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:26,200 In 30 years after 23 year old Amy Bradley vanished from a Caribbean cruise, a small but overlooked 191 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:31,040 detail may hold the key to her disappearance and expert claims. 192 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,760 Amy vanished in the early morning hours of March 21st, 1998. 193 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:35,760 Okay. 194 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:36,760 We know. 195 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:37,760 We know. 196 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:38,760 We know. 197 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:45,040 Oh, author James Renner, who has spent years researching her unexplained disappearance 198 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,800 believes there may be an overlooked explanation. 199 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:48,800 Mm-hm. 200 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:49,640 This is good. 201 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:55,000 The true crime addict author even when as far as suggesting the three part Netflix series 202 00:06:55,000 --> 00:07:00,840 released on July 16th omitted important details about the missing woman quote, in the 203 00:07:00,840 --> 00:07:05,240 facts of the case, there's a small detail that doesn't seem to mean anything, but it 204 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,240 might mean everything. 205 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:08,240 Don't. 206 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:09,240 Don't. 207 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:10,240 Don't. 208 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:15,040 They make a big point of saying that the balcony door was a jar in the morning, but they 209 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:19,840 also suggest that Amy then left the room without telling anybody. 210 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:25,440 Renner, who has interviewed cruise staff and studied internal briefings, shared after 211 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,440 the FBI investigation. 212 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,240 Oh, he's stuck. 213 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,240 Well, it doesn't matter. 214 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:35,720 Pointed out the safety feature most cruise passengers may overlook. 215 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,880 If you've ever been on a cruise ship, you know that there are warning plaques in your room 216 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,760 that say do not open the cabin door when the balcony doors are open. 217 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,160 He explained because the hallway is pressurized. 218 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:52,760 So if you open the cabin door, it creates a wind tunnel and it often causes the cabin door 219 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,760 to slam shut hard. 220 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Uh-huh. 221 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:56,760 Interesting. 222 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,760 You cannot quietly leave a cabin room with the balcony door open. 223 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,280 It would have woken everybody up. 224 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:07,960 Instead, Renner suggests the answer lies outside on the balcony itself. 225 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:13,720 While searching her seaside room, investigators discovered Amy's palm prints on the balcony 226 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,720 railing and her footprints on the glass door. 227 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,720 Oh. 228 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:19,720 On the glass door. 229 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:20,720 On the glass door. 230 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:26,520 It appears she was sitting on the balcony with her feet against the glass. 231 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:32,120 Renner suggested adding it's possible she kicked off and when she did, the door opened 232 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,240 a little bit. 233 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:40,760 He believes what happened may have been a tragic example of Lapeu du Vide, the French phrase 234 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:42,360 for the call of the void. 235 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:43,360 What the fuck? 236 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:47,240 She had a really tough night or really rough night. 237 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,440 She'd been drinking and she had a very big decision to make when she got home. 238 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:56,640 Does she live her life openly as a gay woman or does she live a lie to maintain her close 239 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,440 relationship with her family? 240 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:03,880 Renner said sitting alone on the balcony, Renner theorizes Amy may have experienced a moment 241 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:08,280 of emotional overwhelm and acted on impulse. 242 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,960 That voice inside you sometimes comes up and says what if? 243 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:17,920 I think she's sitting on that balcony thinking what if and by pushing off, she causes action. 244 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,240 Once overboard, Renner notes survival is rare. 245 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:25,440 There's only about a 20% chance you're going to survive in the open sea long enough to 246 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:26,840 be rescued. 247 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:31,760 He said, Renner's theory stands in contrast to the widely circulated belief that Amy 248 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,040 was abducted and sex trafficked. 249 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:38,360 The unproven theory gained traction in the years following her disappearance and has 250 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:44,120 even drawn attention from aspiring lawyer and mega celebrity Kim Kardashian. 251 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:49,200 Renner, however, dismisses the trafficking theory as improbable. 252 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:53,520 There is no verified account of a Caucasian woman being abducted and trafficked in the 253 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:54,960 Caribbean, he said. 254 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,360 A white woman is going to stand out in Grenada. 255 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,200 It's not worth the risk for the people that do this. 256 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,200 They have plenty of women from the Dominican Republic or Colombia who can go there and 257 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:08,760 make more money than their family could in a year. 258 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,920 Renner's forthcoming book, A Cruise to Know Where, Explores the Dynamic Case. 259 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,480 For me, I've narrowed down what happened to Amy Bradley. 260 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,680 I don't believe she ever came off that balcony, he said. 261 00:10:18,680 --> 00:10:23,040 I think it's highly likely she is responsible for whatever took place there. 262 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:26,040 And then that's it. 263 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:33,040 So her footprints were on the sliding glass door and her hand prints were on the 264 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,640 opposite on the balcony. 265 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:40,520 And when she pushed off the door, slid open, is that what he's saying? 266 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:41,520 It makes sense. 267 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:45,480 And also, you know, the table was pushed up against the railing. 268 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,120 So either I agree with him. 269 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:54,600 I think either she stood on the table, took her shirt off, so she didn't puke on it. 270 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:55,600 Yeah. 271 00:10:55,600 --> 00:11:00,760 And then leaned over the railing, standing on a table and was drunk and fell over for 272 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,000 this theory. 273 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:09,440 Either way, I just don't buy any of the leaving somehow getting off the ship, 274 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,640 right, being smuggled off the ship. 275 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,480 I mean, that is way too much work. 276 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:19,040 And it does make sense that, you know, a Caucasian woman is a risk. 277 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,040 And big risk. 278 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,440 Who would go through all that? 279 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:22,440 Yeah. 280 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:31,920 And even what's his name, to catch a predator, Chris, Chris Hanson. 281 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,280 Yes, was on Daily Dose of Donna. 282 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,280 We're like Chris Harrison. 283 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,920 Chris Hardwick, all the Chris's. 284 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:45,040 He was on her show and he, he, they brought that story up and he said that, that, that the 285 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:46,920 trafficking doesn't work that way either. 286 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,680 Like, no, she probably, well, he would know. 287 00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:50,680 Right. 288 00:11:50,680 --> 00:11:51,680 Yeah. 289 00:11:51,680 --> 00:11:53,360 He's doing a bunch of documentaries about all this stuff too. 290 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:54,360 Oh, really? 291 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:55,360 Yeah. 292 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:56,360 He's like on True Blue Network. 293 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:57,880 You can go watch it. 294 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:05,080 They've, he's continuing catching predators and he's doing a documentary on, um, Roblox 295 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,120 and how they can lure kids. 296 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:08,120 Oh, shit. 297 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,120 Yeah. 298 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:10,120 Yeah. 299 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:11,120 Very, very interesting. 300 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:15,920 And then he's doing another one, sex extortion, sex extortion, which is, we've talked about this 301 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:22,600 before where across the world somewhere, they're, they're like targeting teenage boys pretending 302 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:27,520 to be catfishing them, pretending to be beautiful teenage girls and like, start talking with 303 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,920 them and chatting them up and like, you show me, I'll, I'll show you mine. 304 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,880 I'll show you show, and then they send a picture of themselves and then they start to get 305 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:35,880 extorted. 306 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:39,480 Like, we're going to send this picture to your parents, to all your friends and these kids 307 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:40,480 have committed suicide. 308 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,720 There's been a lot of kids in our country. 309 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:43,720 Yeah. 310 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:49,120 And, and Michigan, like around in our country, like a, a handful of them have committed suicide 311 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,440 because they don't think there's any way out. 312 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,520 They don't want to tell their parents, you know? 313 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,080 So he's doing a documentary about that. 314 00:12:56,080 --> 00:13:01,440 Yes, he wouldn't know and he, he agrees that she fell over. 315 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,640 I need to see that documentary immediately. 316 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:04,640 Right. 317 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:05,640 A row blocks one. 318 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:06,640 A row blocks one. 319 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:07,640 I don't know when it's out. 320 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:08,640 I think he's working on it. 321 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:09,640 It's going to come out soon. 322 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:10,640 Roblox. 323 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:11,640 Roblox, road to ruin. 324 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:12,640 There you go. 325 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:16,600 Just trying to help get ahold of them. 326 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:17,600 Reach out to him. 327 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:18,960 We reach out on social media. 328 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,560 I, I, I need your documentary. 329 00:13:21,560 --> 00:13:22,560 You're well. 330 00:13:22,560 --> 00:13:23,560 You need a subtitle. 331 00:13:23,560 --> 00:13:24,560 I got you. 332 00:13:24,560 --> 00:13:25,560 There you go. 333 00:13:25,560 --> 00:13:26,560 Yeah. 334 00:13:26,560 --> 00:13:27,560 Yeah. 335 00:13:27,560 --> 00:13:29,720 He said the row blocks thing is crazy. 336 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:33,000 They, they go into these, it's the chat rooms. 337 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,000 Yeah. 338 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:38,920 I mean, I remember reading about that back when my kids were on the row blocks and then I 339 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:42,520 was like, do people ever reach out to you and try to like talk to you on row blocks? 340 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,760 And they're like, no, never. 341 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:50,160 But they don't do it in such a way that they're in like row blocks chat rooms or whatever. 342 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:51,160 Right. 343 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:55,120 I think that you can just set it up where you're just talking to your friends in your 344 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:56,120 contacts. 345 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,120 I don't know. 346 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:58,120 I don't know. 347 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,120 I think that's what that they did. 348 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:00,120 The underused you. 349 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,120 Yeah. 350 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:02,120 Or you could be public. 351 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,360 And I think that's the one that gets you and, you know, can be dangerous. 352 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:05,360 Right. 353 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,720 I just don't think my kids were ever really looking for friends like that. 354 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:09,720 Yeah. 355 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:17,600 But there was something that Zander did where, but they couldn't reach out to him specifically 356 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,160 but where they chat and he was getting even like a little bit bullied. 357 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,160 Like some of these kids are just weird. 358 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:24,160 Yes. 359 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:25,160 Yeah. 360 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:30,680 It is a weird and it's for that age too where they're young boys and they want to fuck with 361 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,160 you, you know, yes. 362 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,560 Like, hey, let's get online and fuck with other kids and bully them and stuff like that. 363 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,360 But then it's also assess pool for weirdos. 364 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,080 The pretend to be young kids. 365 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,080 Right. 366 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,680 But there are ways to do it safely. 367 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:46,840 Like I said, when I talk to my kids, they're like, no, nobody, the way there is was set 368 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:48,440 up, nobody can like talk to them. 369 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:49,440 Yeah. 370 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:50,440 That's good. 371 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,680 Because I remember there were some alarmists that were like, your kids should never 372 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:54,680 play roadblocks. 373 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:55,680 They're getting sex trafficked, you know? 374 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:56,680 Right. 375 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:57,680 And I was like, well, slow down. 376 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:58,680 Yeah. 377 00:14:58,680 --> 00:14:59,680 Like, right. 378 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:04,280 You know, yeah, not that I'm on top of everything perfectly. 379 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:05,480 Right. 380 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,320 I, I watched the Delphi murder. 381 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:09,320 They on Hulu. 382 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,320 Okay. 383 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,880 It's like four or three or four episodes. 384 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,840 And you know, we've, I've seen it the story before and I know that they caught somebody. 385 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:22,040 But this Hulu documentary kind of focuses on is this the really, is this really the 386 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:23,040 guy? 387 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,480 The thing a lot of people do not think that was the guy. 388 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:26,480 No. 389 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:31,600 And this, if it's not, it's really sad because this guy was married. 390 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,360 He had grown children. 391 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:37,280 He was just a hard working guy, you know, kind of looked apart. 392 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:41,500 The reason why they, they thought it was him because he went to the police very beginning 393 00:15:41,500 --> 00:15:44,800 when he found out that those girls were on that bridge. 394 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:48,280 He called the police and said, I was there that morning. 395 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:49,280 And I don't know. 396 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:51,080 I don't remember if he saw the girls or not. 397 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:52,800 But he said, I was there. 398 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,240 And if you need any help, like, I'm here to help or something like that. 399 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,160 And then at first they were like, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 400 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:02,280 But then years went by and then they were like, well, let's go back to this guy. 401 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,360 And there was a bullet that was, didn't fire. 402 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:10,160 It was like as if he racked the gun and a bullet would come out like to scare them. 403 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,600 So there was a bullet found near their body. 404 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,520 And apparently that bullet matched one of the guns they found. 405 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:20,000 They rated his house, matched that it could, could be. 406 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:23,640 His defense attorney were on this documentary and they were like, really? 407 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,160 That could be anything or whatever. 408 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:28,480 It's like, that's the only thing they had. 409 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:29,480 They had no DNA. 410 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:31,240 They had nothing else. 411 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:33,920 He just kind of looked like it. 412 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:39,240 And he was just this guy that was married and if he's innocent, it's horrible. 413 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:43,320 Because you see him throughout the years in jail and he lost all this weight. 414 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,680 And then when he was in jail, his wife was sticking by him. 415 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:47,680 She was hysterical. 416 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,680 She was upset. 417 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:54,920 High school, sweethearts, they were on the, she was on the phone while he was in prison. 418 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:56,640 And he said, I did it. 419 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:57,640 I did it. 420 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:58,640 She's like, no, you did it. 421 00:16:58,640 --> 00:16:59,640 No, you did it. 422 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,320 He was, no, I killed Libby and Abby. 423 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:04,440 And she's like, no, you didn't. 424 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:10,120 And then the defense attorney said he was in solitary confinement for months. 425 00:17:10,120 --> 00:17:13,680 And like, you're not, there's only supposed to be in there for a short amount of time. 426 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:15,360 They kept him in solitary confinement. 427 00:17:15,360 --> 00:17:17,760 They didn't give him his medication that he needed. 428 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,880 He was going a little crazy. 429 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:23,640 And that's, you know, they, and then they 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Okay. 493 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:29,640 So I was watching this documentary about, you remember that story at a Boston where the guy 494 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:30,960 had a pregnant wife? 495 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:31,960 I was watching that. 496 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:32,960 You watched that too? 497 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,960 I just was watching that. 498 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:34,960 Yes. 499 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,920 It was out a while ago, but maybe they just started recommending it again. 500 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:42,920 Well, because I started watching the yogurt murders and it was only one episode. 501 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,840 And now I'm like, okay, I want to watch another and I've forgotten. 502 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:50,280 You were talking, I thought about you because I know you've brought it up before way a long 503 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:51,280 time ago. 504 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:52,280 A long time ago. 505 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,280 Success with that case. 506 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:54,280 Yes. 507 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:58,000 So then I started watching it and oh my gosh, it's a great documentary and really interesting. 508 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:05,480 And so speaking of people giving false confessions, the guy who killed his wife was like, it was 509 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,480 a black guy. 510 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:07,480 Right. 511 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:13,080 So they went down into this neighborhood projects and they just started like rounding up 512 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,840 like black guys for nothing. 513 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:16,840 Right. 514 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:21,880 And then they got one guy and they scared him so bad and he was pretty young and they just 515 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:27,980 told him he's not going home and they got him to rat out somebody else. 516 00:21:27,980 --> 00:21:31,700 And then that guy had committed a crime. 517 00:21:31,700 --> 00:21:37,440 So even eventually, so the guy who actually had his wife killed himself. 518 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:38,440 Yes. 519 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,980 Well, the brother ended up telling on him. 520 00:21:39,980 --> 00:21:40,980 Right. 521 00:21:40,980 --> 00:21:42,500 That was incredible documentary. 522 00:21:42,500 --> 00:21:43,820 And then that guy jumped off a bridge. 523 00:21:43,820 --> 00:21:46,140 Yeah, he jumped off the bridge before they could arrest him. 524 00:21:46,140 --> 00:21:47,140 Yeah. 525 00:21:47,140 --> 00:21:52,460 So then rather than let the guy out of jail, they're like, well, you did something else anyway. 526 00:21:52,460 --> 00:21:53,460 Right. 527 00:21:53,460 --> 00:21:57,260 So they fucking tried him for something else, which is just like, it's so fucked up. 528 00:21:57,260 --> 00:21:58,260 You know what else is fucked up? 529 00:21:58,260 --> 00:22:03,120 I watched the Katrina documentary on Hulu because it's like the 20 year anniversary of Katrina 530 00:22:03,120 --> 00:22:04,320 this month. 531 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,460 And I, there's like five episodes. 532 00:22:06,460 --> 00:22:08,060 I think I got through three. 533 00:22:08,060 --> 00:22:13,140 But the thing that really upset me is the news when it happened. 534 00:22:13,140 --> 00:22:15,020 They were like, violence happening. 535 00:22:15,020 --> 00:22:17,060 There's rape at the super dome. 536 00:22:17,060 --> 00:22:18,420 A little girl was getting raped. 537 00:22:18,420 --> 00:22:20,140 There's people getting shot at the super dome. 538 00:22:20,140 --> 00:22:21,740 There's people looting blah, blah, blah. 539 00:22:21,740 --> 00:22:26,140 First of all, the people looting are people that were stuck with no electricity, no food, 540 00:22:26,140 --> 00:22:27,660 no help on the way. 541 00:22:27,660 --> 00:22:29,160 There was nobody coming to help them. 542 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:30,860 They were out on their own. 543 00:22:30,860 --> 00:22:31,860 They haven't eaten in days. 544 00:22:31,860 --> 00:22:33,860 They're going to go get food. 545 00:22:33,860 --> 00:22:36,220 So they make it look like it was chaos. 546 00:22:36,220 --> 00:22:37,900 They interviewed people in the super dome. 547 00:22:37,900 --> 00:22:41,380 There was one guy that had a video camera throughout the whole thing. 548 00:22:41,380 --> 00:22:43,820 And he went to the super dome to get shelter. 549 00:22:43,820 --> 00:22:44,820 And he had his video care. 550 00:22:44,820 --> 00:22:46,300 And there was no rape. 551 00:22:46,300 --> 00:22:48,500 There was no fucking violence. 552 00:22:48,500 --> 00:22:50,340 It was just people suffering. 553 00:22:50,340 --> 00:22:52,180 It was hot as hell in there. 554 00:22:52,180 --> 00:22:55,380 It was just you, so when you watch the documentary now. 555 00:22:55,380 --> 00:23:00,460 And then the FEMA guy was like, I got to go to dinner first before I can come and answer 556 00:23:00,460 --> 00:23:01,460 your email. 557 00:23:01,460 --> 00:23:03,460 It was just so corrupt. 558 00:23:03,460 --> 00:23:05,060 And then this one guy was great. 559 00:23:05,060 --> 00:23:11,060 He was like the head of the Louisiana, US, Navy, whatever. 560 00:23:11,060 --> 00:23:15,180 He comes in and he starts fucking getting shit together. 561 00:23:15,180 --> 00:23:19,100 And he's like, and he's like, this guy's taken the guy ahead and FEMA is going to take a break. 562 00:23:19,100 --> 00:23:21,060 He's like, I haven't slept in days. 563 00:23:21,060 --> 00:23:22,060 And he was great. 564 00:23:22,060 --> 00:23:24,060 It's a great documentary. 565 00:23:24,060 --> 00:23:25,300 It's really interesting. 566 00:23:25,300 --> 00:23:26,300 It's on HBO. 567 00:23:26,300 --> 00:23:27,300 It's on Hulu. 568 00:23:27,300 --> 00:23:28,300 It's called Katrina. 569 00:23:28,300 --> 00:23:29,300 Yeah. 570 00:23:29,300 --> 00:23:30,300 Okay. 571 00:23:30,300 --> 00:23:31,300 Yeah. 572 00:23:31,300 --> 00:23:32,300 I'm sure people have seen it by now. 573 00:23:32,300 --> 00:23:34,300 Yeah, it's really good. 574 00:23:34,300 --> 00:23:35,300 Okay. 575 00:23:35,300 --> 00:23:41,420 I watched, like more stuff I watched, but then I also have a podcast. 576 00:23:41,420 --> 00:23:42,740 Should I talk about the podcast first? 577 00:23:42,740 --> 00:23:43,740 Yeah. 578 00:23:43,740 --> 00:23:44,740 Okay. 579 00:23:44,740 --> 00:23:45,740 I think you'll find this interesting. 580 00:23:45,740 --> 00:23:52,620 So I found this podcast and it was, I think, okay, hold on. 581 00:23:52,620 --> 00:23:56,620 I have to look at my podcast app to tell you exactly what it's called. 582 00:23:56,620 --> 00:23:59,380 And it's called bad, bad thing. 583 00:23:59,380 --> 00:24:04,180 So I read on Reddit, like somebody recommended this podcast. 584 00:24:04,180 --> 00:24:05,340 So I listened to this. 585 00:24:05,340 --> 00:24:07,460 So there's two different seasons of this. 586 00:24:07,460 --> 00:24:10,380 I think there's two seasons and they're both good. 587 00:24:10,380 --> 00:24:14,940 So the first season I listened to is about this woman named Jenner. 588 00:24:14,940 --> 00:24:15,940 Jenner. 589 00:24:15,940 --> 00:24:16,940 J-E-N-N-A-I-R. 590 00:24:16,940 --> 00:24:18,700 Did you listen to this podcast? 591 00:24:18,700 --> 00:24:20,580 I think I know this story. 592 00:24:20,580 --> 00:24:22,580 I hear Gerardo. 593 00:24:22,580 --> 00:24:23,580 Okay. 594 00:24:23,580 --> 00:24:26,140 It's this woman. 595 00:24:26,140 --> 00:24:28,020 She's married to this guy named Mark. 596 00:24:28,020 --> 00:24:29,020 Yeah. 597 00:24:29,020 --> 00:24:30,020 I know the story. 598 00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:31,020 Okay. 599 00:24:31,020 --> 00:24:32,020 It's so crazy. 600 00:24:32,020 --> 00:24:34,420 I remember I think I heard this documentary. 601 00:24:34,420 --> 00:24:36,180 Well, so it's not a show though. 602 00:24:36,180 --> 00:24:37,180 It's a podcast. 603 00:24:37,180 --> 00:24:38,180 Right. 604 00:24:38,180 --> 00:24:40,580 I think I listened to this podcast a while ago. 605 00:24:40,580 --> 00:24:42,860 So and then there was like a 2020 on it. 606 00:24:42,860 --> 00:24:43,860 Oh, okay. 607 00:24:43,860 --> 00:24:44,860 I'm sure there was. 608 00:24:44,860 --> 00:24:45,860 Yeah. 609 00:24:45,860 --> 00:24:47,460 All these things have like a 2020. 610 00:24:47,460 --> 00:24:52,660 But like this thing had a lot of episodes because there's a lot of tape. 611 00:24:52,660 --> 00:24:54,140 So this, okay. 612 00:24:54,140 --> 00:24:56,660 So he's married to this woman named Jennifer. 613 00:24:56,660 --> 00:24:59,660 He starts having an affair with somebody he works with. 614 00:24:59,660 --> 00:25:00,660 Yeah. 615 00:25:00,660 --> 00:25:01,900 He's married to Jenner. 616 00:25:01,900 --> 00:25:02,900 He's married to Jenner. 617 00:25:02,900 --> 00:25:05,180 He starts having an affair with this other woman. 618 00:25:05,180 --> 00:25:06,180 I forgot. 619 00:25:06,180 --> 00:25:07,180 I'm like forgetting her name. 620 00:25:07,180 --> 00:25:08,180 Yeah. 621 00:25:08,180 --> 00:25:09,180 It's color like Kristen. 622 00:25:09,180 --> 00:25:10,180 Okay. 623 00:25:10,180 --> 00:25:13,460 So Kristen is like this woman he works with. 624 00:25:13,460 --> 00:25:16,020 No, listen, is this guy like a great guy? 625 00:25:16,020 --> 00:25:17,020 No. 626 00:25:17,020 --> 00:25:18,820 You know, he's cheating on his wife. 627 00:25:18,820 --> 00:25:24,620 He cheated on his wife before one time before and he's, and he starts like cheating on Jenner. 628 00:25:24,620 --> 00:25:27,260 But he, but Jenner starts to suspect it. 629 00:25:27,260 --> 00:25:29,380 But Jenner is batshit crazy. 630 00:25:29,380 --> 00:25:30,380 Right. 631 00:25:30,380 --> 00:25:32,100 Definitely borderline personality. 632 00:25:32,100 --> 00:25:34,820 She starts suspecting something she asks him about it. 633 00:25:34,820 --> 00:25:37,580 He gets gas lady and he's like, no, what are you talking about? 634 00:25:37,580 --> 00:25:38,580 That's crazy. 635 00:25:38,580 --> 00:25:39,580 No. 636 00:25:39,580 --> 00:25:46,100 But she starts putting recording devices in his clothes, tracking device on his car. 637 00:25:46,100 --> 00:25:52,140 And she eventually finds like gets her recording of him like, like, with his girlfriend, 638 00:25:52,140 --> 00:25:54,940 and they're like, like, making little moaning noises. 639 00:25:54,940 --> 00:25:57,100 So she's like, the fuck? 640 00:25:57,100 --> 00:25:58,100 She gets really mad. 641 00:25:58,100 --> 00:25:59,100 Okay. 642 00:25:59,100 --> 00:26:00,940 And is it she video taping herself? 643 00:26:00,940 --> 00:26:01,940 Yes. 644 00:26:01,940 --> 00:26:03,740 So she starts making all these days. 645 00:26:03,740 --> 00:26:07,180 Yeah, this video diary, which is so crazy. 646 00:26:07,180 --> 00:26:08,180 Yeah. 647 00:26:08,180 --> 00:26:13,820 And she's just like, I'm just nothing without Mark and like, how can he do this to me? 648 00:26:13,820 --> 00:26:20,420 And I feel like shit about myself and like, okay, well, it's not really a spoiler because 649 00:26:20,420 --> 00:26:21,620 you pretty much find this out. 650 00:26:21,620 --> 00:26:23,380 I think episode one. 651 00:26:23,380 --> 00:26:29,140 But she ends up killing his girlfriend and then killing herself. 652 00:26:29,140 --> 00:26:30,140 Right. 653 00:26:30,140 --> 00:26:31,140 To make him miserable. 654 00:26:31,140 --> 00:26:32,140 Yes. 655 00:26:32,140 --> 00:26:37,860 Now, the crazy thing about this podcast is that a lot of people are like, yeah, fuck him, 656 00:26:37,860 --> 00:26:39,380 he's a narcissist. 657 00:26:39,380 --> 00:26:42,940 But if you really listen to the podcast, you're like, I know. 658 00:26:42,940 --> 00:26:43,940 I know. 659 00:26:43,940 --> 00:26:44,940 I know. 660 00:26:44,940 --> 00:26:52,260 And a lot of us would, if you, if you, if you were cheating on somebody, a lot of us, 661 00:26:52,260 --> 00:26:56,140 and you were married to somebody who's absolutely out of their fucking mind, who you know is going 662 00:26:56,140 --> 00:26:57,140 to. 663 00:26:57,140 --> 00:26:59,020 And I listened to all the bonus episodes. 664 00:26:59,020 --> 00:27:00,780 They have him talking to a therapist. 665 00:27:00,780 --> 00:27:01,780 Yes. 666 00:27:01,780 --> 00:27:07,780 And they're basically like, he acknowledges like, she's not a person that you can tell stuff 667 00:27:07,780 --> 00:27:09,580 to that's going to really hurt her feelings. 668 00:27:09,580 --> 00:27:10,580 Yes. 669 00:27:10,580 --> 00:27:13,020 And it's pretty glen-close in fatal attraction. 670 00:27:13,020 --> 00:27:14,020 Yes. 671 00:27:14,020 --> 00:27:16,900 And he tried, I think like, tried to make her happy. 672 00:27:16,900 --> 00:27:22,940 Like before he had the affair, he was really good to her and she was just kind of crazy. 673 00:27:22,940 --> 00:27:27,700 And I did feel bad for him after it was all said and done because now he's living with 674 00:27:27,700 --> 00:27:31,700 this, this death sentence that his wife killed his girlfriend. 675 00:27:31,700 --> 00:27:33,900 You know, she broke into her house or whatever. 676 00:27:33,900 --> 00:27:34,900 Yeah. 677 00:27:34,900 --> 00:27:36,900 But like, and they're both gone. 678 00:27:36,900 --> 00:27:37,900 Yes. 679 00:27:37,900 --> 00:27:39,860 He wasn't that hateable of a guy. 680 00:27:39,860 --> 00:27:40,540 No. 681 00:27:40,540 --> 00:27:43,660 And what, she was more of a narcissist than him. 682 00:27:43,660 --> 00:27:44,820 It like insane. 683 00:27:44,820 --> 00:27:45,820 Right. 684 00:27:45,820 --> 00:27:46,820 But then, okay. 685 00:27:46,820 --> 00:27:48,820 So go listen to that one. 686 00:27:48,820 --> 00:27:49,820 That's like season one. 687 00:27:49,820 --> 00:27:50,820 That's a good one. 688 00:27:50,820 --> 00:27:53,180 But then so season one ends, right? 689 00:27:53,180 --> 00:27:57,540 And I'm like, oh, that was a pretty good podcast that I hadn't known about before. 690 00:27:57,540 --> 00:27:59,500 And it's really, they do a deep dive. 691 00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:00,500 They have so much audio. 692 00:28:00,500 --> 00:28:01,500 Yeah. 693 00:28:01,500 --> 00:28:05,860 And the only thing that made me mad was that they're like, you know, he was such a narcissist. 694 00:28:05,860 --> 00:28:06,860 It's like, okay. 695 00:28:06,860 --> 00:28:07,860 Right. 696 00:28:07,860 --> 00:28:08,860 I get it. 697 00:28:08,860 --> 00:28:09,940 He should have told her like, it's over. 698 00:28:09,940 --> 00:28:14,180 But he also just felt really bad and wasn't sure he wanted it to be over. 699 00:28:14,180 --> 00:28:15,180 And he was kind of a dick. 700 00:28:15,180 --> 00:28:16,780 He wanted to like keep both things going. 701 00:28:16,780 --> 00:28:17,780 Right. 702 00:28:17,780 --> 00:28:18,780 Right. 703 00:28:18,780 --> 00:28:24,260 And the girlfriend started to be a little bit crazy too, even though she was better. 704 00:28:24,260 --> 00:28:26,900 But he was like, maybe I need a break from both of you. 705 00:28:26,900 --> 00:28:28,260 Like he didn't know what he wanted. 706 00:28:28,260 --> 00:28:29,260 So you get it. 707 00:28:29,260 --> 00:28:30,260 Okay. 708 00:28:30,260 --> 00:28:37,420 The next podcast though in this on this bad, bad thing is about this woman named Jill 709 00:28:37,420 --> 00:28:38,820 Blackstone. 710 00:28:38,820 --> 00:28:40,820 So have you ever heard of her? 711 00:28:40,820 --> 00:28:41,820 Okay. 712 00:28:41,820 --> 00:28:45,820 So this woman was a producer, like a reality producer. 713 00:28:45,820 --> 00:28:48,500 This is called the blackstone sisters. 714 00:28:48,500 --> 00:28:49,500 Okay. 715 00:28:49,500 --> 00:28:50,500 Okay. 716 00:28:50,500 --> 00:28:56,940 So this woman, Jill Blackstone is a reality producer. 717 00:28:56,940 --> 00:29:01,300 She did a bunch of like, she was a producer on the Dr. Drew show. 718 00:29:01,300 --> 00:29:02,300 Oh, really? 719 00:29:02,300 --> 00:29:03,300 Yeah. 720 00:29:03,300 --> 00:29:08,460 She produced on a bunch of shows that like, I have to get John to ask his friend. 721 00:29:08,460 --> 00:29:12,340 John has friends that he's pretty sure have worked with her. 722 00:29:12,340 --> 00:29:13,340 Uh-huh. 723 00:29:13,340 --> 00:29:15,940 Like VHW and reality TV and stuff. 724 00:29:15,940 --> 00:29:18,140 Not VHW and shows more talk shows. 725 00:29:18,140 --> 00:29:19,140 Okay. 726 00:29:19,140 --> 00:29:24,500 But Dr. Drew like, Mori Povitch, way back in the day, I think. 727 00:29:24,500 --> 00:29:28,580 And then like, I don't know, but like some fairly big shows. 728 00:29:28,580 --> 00:29:35,780 Anyway, she's got a sister living with her who's disabled named Wendy. 729 00:29:35,780 --> 00:29:39,100 Well, this story is so freaking crazy. 730 00:29:39,100 --> 00:29:46,900 So this woman, at first, the whole, the story is basically that her sister is like blind 731 00:29:46,900 --> 00:29:49,620 and pretty much, pretty much almost blind. 732 00:29:49,620 --> 00:29:55,660 She's got some genetic condition where her eyesight started going when she was younger. 733 00:29:55,660 --> 00:29:56,940 And then it got worse and worse and worse. 734 00:29:56,940 --> 00:29:57,940 She's almost blind. 735 00:29:57,940 --> 00:30:00,820 Um, and then she was kind of going deaf. 736 00:30:00,820 --> 00:30:03,580 And she was unable to like get around very well. 737 00:30:03,580 --> 00:30:06,100 And she lives with her sister with Jill. 738 00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:07,620 Okay. 739 00:30:07,620 --> 00:30:10,420 And then she died. 740 00:30:10,420 --> 00:30:12,700 She basically, it's okay. 741 00:30:12,700 --> 00:30:14,500 And this part is really, really sad. 742 00:30:14,500 --> 00:30:16,260 So I don't want to be triggering to anybody. 743 00:30:16,260 --> 00:30:19,700 But the girl who died also had a bunch of dogs. 744 00:30:19,700 --> 00:30:20,700 Wendy. 745 00:30:20,700 --> 00:30:21,700 When dogs died too. 746 00:30:21,700 --> 00:30:22,700 Wendy. 747 00:30:22,700 --> 00:30:26,060 The dogs died too from carbon monoxide poisoning. 748 00:30:26,060 --> 00:30:27,060 Okay. 749 00:30:27,060 --> 00:30:28,060 Wow. 750 00:30:28,060 --> 00:30:29,060 Yeah. 751 00:30:29,060 --> 00:30:32,540 Well, so then you have all these interviews. 752 00:30:32,540 --> 00:30:39,140 So Jill also, um, seemed to be maybe poisoned by carbon monoxide. 753 00:30:39,140 --> 00:30:41,420 She was found outside on her front lawn. 754 00:30:41,420 --> 00:30:42,780 This is in Studio City. 755 00:30:42,780 --> 00:30:46,460 So you know how we love stuff that takes place like locally. 756 00:30:46,460 --> 00:30:47,980 It's like right around the block. 757 00:30:47,980 --> 00:30:50,260 This is what literally walk there. 758 00:30:50,260 --> 00:30:51,260 Yes. 759 00:30:51,260 --> 00:30:52,260 Walk to where this woman was living. 760 00:30:52,260 --> 00:30:53,260 Wow. 761 00:30:53,260 --> 00:30:54,260 I'm not kidding. 762 00:30:54,260 --> 00:30:55,260 I think it was on like landale street. 763 00:30:55,260 --> 00:30:56,260 Wow. 764 00:30:56,260 --> 00:30:57,260 Yes. 765 00:30:57,260 --> 00:30:58,260 Right by here. 766 00:30:58,260 --> 00:30:59,260 Right by here. 767 00:30:59,260 --> 00:31:00,260 Yeah. 768 00:31:00,260 --> 00:31:01,260 Um, so anyway, but as you listen to it, you're going to be like, you know, I'm going to 769 00:31:01,260 --> 00:31:04,580 as you listen to it, you're going to just be like, what? 770 00:31:04,580 --> 00:31:05,580 Okay. 771 00:31:05,580 --> 00:31:10,380 So then they start interviewing her after this happens and they're like, and first of all, 772 00:31:10,380 --> 00:31:11,380 she's fine. 773 00:31:11,380 --> 00:31:14,860 Like she's not carbon monoxide poisoned, surviving one, right? 774 00:31:14,860 --> 00:31:19,420 And she's like, I don't remember what happened, but then they start talking to her and they're 775 00:31:19,420 --> 00:31:22,420 like, yeah, so, so what do you do? 776 00:31:22,420 --> 00:31:26,700 And she's like, this is the an hour after like a half hour. 777 00:31:26,700 --> 00:31:31,900 Like she calls 911 and then or someone else calls 911. 778 00:31:31,900 --> 00:31:32,900 Yeah. 779 00:31:32,900 --> 00:31:37,620 She called like her friend and then the friend came over and then the friend was like, uh, 780 00:31:37,620 --> 00:31:40,300 Wendy's dead and then called 911. 781 00:31:40,300 --> 00:31:44,700 So they bring her into the station and she's like, they're like, so where do you work? 782 00:31:44,700 --> 00:31:47,100 And she's like, Oh, I'm a TV producer. 783 00:31:47,100 --> 00:31:49,900 And they're like, Oh, like, what have you worked on and stuff? 784 00:31:49,900 --> 00:31:51,940 And she's joking around. 785 00:31:51,940 --> 00:31:58,520 She's just like, Oh, I go way back like Mori Povitch or whatever and, you know, Montel 786 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,300 will and they're like, Oh, really? 787 00:32:00,300 --> 00:32:03,180 And they're kind of stroking her ego a little bit. 788 00:32:03,180 --> 00:32:05,100 She's like, yeah, I didn't even go to college. 789 00:32:05,100 --> 00:32:10,300 Like I just like started and you're like, are you freaking kidding me? 790 00:32:10,300 --> 00:32:11,700 That's bizarre. 791 00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:16,300 So then and there's a lot of audio of her too. 792 00:32:16,300 --> 00:32:17,780 And she's crazy. 793 00:32:17,780 --> 00:32:24,980 So then it's just kind of funny because while I'm listening to this, I have this friend, 794 00:32:24,980 --> 00:32:29,540 I won't say her name because I'm going to redo a text that I had with her. 795 00:32:29,540 --> 00:32:30,580 But let's call her Tina. 796 00:32:30,580 --> 00:32:31,580 Okay. 797 00:32:31,580 --> 00:32:36,420 So I have this friend named Tina who, oh, because this woman worked on divorce court. 798 00:32:36,420 --> 00:32:37,420 Uh-huh. 799 00:32:37,420 --> 00:32:39,620 So I have a friend who also worked on that show, Tina. 800 00:32:39,620 --> 00:32:40,620 Okay. 801 00:32:40,620 --> 00:32:44,180 So I texted Tina and I was like, okay, wait, I have to find, I have to find the text 802 00:32:44,180 --> 00:32:45,180 record. 803 00:32:45,180 --> 00:32:46,420 I was on divorce court when I was young. 804 00:32:46,420 --> 00:32:47,420 Really? 805 00:32:47,420 --> 00:32:48,420 That's an episode. 806 00:32:48,420 --> 00:32:50,140 I was like playing a kid. 807 00:32:50,140 --> 00:32:51,140 Yeah. 808 00:32:51,140 --> 00:32:52,140 I intended to be so a teenager. 809 00:32:52,140 --> 00:32:53,140 I'm pretending to be so a teenager. 810 00:32:53,140 --> 00:32:54,140 I honestly don't remember. 811 00:32:54,140 --> 00:32:59,940 I was like a teenager and I think I just had to like get up on the stand and say a couple 812 00:32:59,940 --> 00:33:00,940 of lines. 813 00:33:00,940 --> 00:33:05,820 Yeah, because my parents were getting a divorce and they were arguing. 814 00:33:05,820 --> 00:33:06,820 Oh, okay. 815 00:33:06,820 --> 00:33:08,820 So it was your parents. 816 00:33:08,820 --> 00:33:09,820 Oh, that's so funny. 817 00:33:09,820 --> 00:33:10,820 Yeah. 818 00:33:10,820 --> 00:33:11,820 Those things are all scripted. 819 00:33:11,820 --> 00:33:12,820 I know. 820 00:33:12,820 --> 00:33:13,820 They totally. 821 00:33:13,820 --> 00:33:14,820 Yeah. 822 00:33:14,820 --> 00:33:15,820 Yeah. 823 00:33:15,820 --> 00:33:20,540 So I also worked on like Judge Joe Brown, which she would just tell me crazy stories about. 824 00:33:20,540 --> 00:33:23,180 Apparently he was like, not very smart. 825 00:33:23,180 --> 00:33:24,180 Oh, really? 826 00:33:24,180 --> 00:33:25,540 But this one, this woman is really funny. 827 00:33:25,540 --> 00:33:31,540 So I just wrote, hey, I wrote, hey, I'm listening to this crazy older podcast about the blackstone 828 00:33:31,540 --> 00:33:34,980 sisters and I'm thinking you must have crossed paths. 829 00:33:34,980 --> 00:33:40,540 And she wrote, hi, luckily I've never had the misfortune of working for Jill. 830 00:33:40,540 --> 00:33:44,580 And then she names another producer friend of hers, Adam. 831 00:33:44,580 --> 00:33:45,780 Adam has horror stories. 832 00:33:45,780 --> 00:33:47,660 And then she does, does everyone else who ever worked for her? 833 00:33:47,660 --> 00:33:48,660 She was a real cunt. 834 00:33:48,660 --> 00:33:49,660 Oh, my God. 835 00:33:49,660 --> 00:33:53,660 That she goes, let's just put it this way. 836 00:33:53,660 --> 00:33:57,540 When the news came out that she killed her sister, no one was surprised. 837 00:33:57,540 --> 00:33:58,540 Wow. 838 00:33:58,540 --> 00:34:01,740 And I was like, oh my God, it seems so obvious. 839 00:34:01,740 --> 00:34:08,740 And then she used to have a podcast where she talked about like reality TV. 840 00:34:08,740 --> 00:34:13,020 And I said, did you, I said, this is so insane. 841 00:34:13,020 --> 00:34:16,300 I said, did you talk about her basically when you were doing your podcast? 842 00:34:16,300 --> 00:34:20,460 And she goes, I didn't talk about her because she hadn't been sentenced yet. 843 00:34:20,460 --> 00:34:24,340 Also that was at a time where you really couldn't talk about other people in the industry, 844 00:34:24,340 --> 00:34:29,100 even if they were murderers, because it would make it look like you would turn on your boss. 845 00:34:29,100 --> 00:34:33,340 And all these unscripted executive producers were horrid, as you know, so they didn't want 846 00:34:33,340 --> 00:34:37,260 to hire anybody who would talk about the horrible treatment they got while working for 847 00:34:37,260 --> 00:34:38,260 them. 848 00:34:38,260 --> 00:34:43,380 Anyway, then she tried to tell me that this woman was out of jail. 849 00:34:43,380 --> 00:34:47,660 And I was like, there's no way she just got sentenced in 2022. 850 00:34:47,660 --> 00:34:49,820 So that is a spoiler alert. 851 00:34:49,820 --> 00:34:51,340 She is in jail for this. 852 00:34:51,340 --> 00:34:52,340 Okay. 853 00:34:52,340 --> 00:34:55,020 But she didn't get very, she only got like eight years. 854 00:34:55,020 --> 00:34:56,020 Really? 855 00:34:56,020 --> 00:34:57,020 Yeah. 856 00:34:57,020 --> 00:35:01,020 And like I said, Tina thought she was out of jail, but I went, then I was, I'm at the gym. 857 00:35:01,020 --> 00:35:02,540 And I'm like Googling like crazy. 858 00:35:02,540 --> 00:35:04,980 And then I was like, no, she is not out of jail. 859 00:35:04,980 --> 00:35:05,980 She's still in jail. 860 00:35:05,980 --> 00:35:06,980 She is. 861 00:35:06,980 --> 00:35:07,980 Okay. 862 00:35:07,980 --> 00:35:11,460 Now, but another freaking crazy part, I want to listen to that. 863 00:35:11,460 --> 00:35:14,300 I'm going to totally, so it's called bad, bad thing. 864 00:35:14,300 --> 00:35:15,300 Yeah. 865 00:35:15,300 --> 00:35:16,300 Yeah. 866 00:35:16,300 --> 00:35:17,300 Wow. 867 00:35:17,300 --> 00:35:18,300 I highly recommend that one. 868 00:35:18,300 --> 00:35:19,780 You know what else we highly recommend? 869 00:35:19,780 --> 00:35:20,780 Yes. 870 00:35:20,780 --> 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918 00:37:51,820 --> 00:37:52,820 Okay. 919 00:37:52,820 --> 00:37:53,820 Yeah. 920 00:37:53,820 --> 00:37:55,460 I think I've watched all of five. 921 00:37:55,460 --> 00:37:56,460 Okay. 922 00:37:56,460 --> 00:37:57,460 Okay. 923 00:37:57,460 --> 00:38:02,300 Then I heard, like, I don't know if it was really a spoiler, but basically it says it ends 924 00:38:02,300 --> 00:38:04,300 on a cliffhanger and then I was annoyed. 925 00:38:04,300 --> 00:38:05,700 Is it going to end on a cliffhanger? 926 00:38:05,700 --> 00:38:07,900 No, you're going to find out what happened. 927 00:38:07,900 --> 00:38:08,900 Okay. 928 00:38:08,900 --> 00:38:11,180 It ends where, not a cliffhanger. 929 00:38:11,180 --> 00:38:12,660 It'll be, it'll be solved. 930 00:38:12,660 --> 00:38:13,660 You'll know what happened. 931 00:38:13,660 --> 00:38:19,300 But it does end where they're like, like, alluding to they can be season two. 932 00:38:19,300 --> 00:38:20,300 Okay. 933 00:38:20,300 --> 00:38:21,300 Yeah. 934 00:38:21,300 --> 00:38:22,300 What do you think? 935 00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:25,100 I mean, it was really campy and stupid. 936 00:38:25,100 --> 00:38:26,100 Yeah, right. 937 00:38:26,100 --> 00:38:30,460 And yeah, but it was like, you know, I was watching it at night when I was falling asleep, 938 00:38:30,460 --> 00:38:32,620 so it took me a while to get through all of them. 939 00:38:32,620 --> 00:38:39,500 But I mean, it was just, some of it was just like way over the top kind of stuff, but, 940 00:38:39,500 --> 00:38:43,460 but the storyline was kind of interesting because there are a lot of twists and turns. 941 00:38:43,460 --> 00:38:45,180 Like, you're like, okay, I think this guy did. 942 00:38:45,180 --> 00:38:50,500 Then I think this, but it gets really good and it is satisfying the way it ends. 943 00:38:50,500 --> 00:38:51,980 I'll tell you that. 944 00:38:51,980 --> 00:38:59,140 I was, I thought it was very interesting because, oh, well, first of all, I should say that 945 00:38:59,140 --> 00:39:01,340 I was doing other, I was watching it. 946 00:39:01,340 --> 00:39:02,340 I was doing laundry. 947 00:39:02,340 --> 00:39:06,340 I'm doing other things and John walks in the room and he's like, are you watching porn? 948 00:39:06,340 --> 00:39:08,020 I, that's the other thing. 949 00:39:08,020 --> 00:39:09,020 There was a lot of that. 950 00:39:09,020 --> 00:39:10,420 And I was like, all right. 951 00:39:10,420 --> 00:39:14,660 Like, how many times do we have to watch this two chicks make it out? 952 00:39:14,660 --> 00:39:17,100 Nothing wrong with it, but like, it was a lot. 953 00:39:17,100 --> 00:39:18,540 It was really over the top. 954 00:39:18,540 --> 00:39:21,260 Two chicks making out and eating each other. 955 00:39:21,260 --> 00:39:23,620 A lot of eating, eating out. 956 00:39:23,620 --> 00:39:24,620 Yes. 957 00:39:24,620 --> 00:39:25,620 What are eating out? 958 00:39:25,620 --> 00:39:28,460 Yeah, not just the two chicks, but like the older lady with the young guy. 959 00:39:28,460 --> 00:39:29,460 Yes. 960 00:39:29,460 --> 00:39:31,740 And like, John's like, this is like lady porn. 961 00:39:31,740 --> 00:39:32,740 I know. 962 00:39:32,740 --> 00:39:35,100 I guess it's like porn with a story. 963 00:39:35,100 --> 00:39:36,100 Right. 964 00:39:36,100 --> 00:39:39,780 That's why I watched it late at night because sometimes the kids will walk in my room and 965 00:39:39,780 --> 00:39:42,300 I want sunny walking my room going, what the fuck are you watching? 966 00:39:42,300 --> 00:39:43,300 I know. 967 00:39:43,300 --> 00:39:47,140 So like, once everybody's in bed, that way I can just fall asleep to it. 968 00:39:47,140 --> 00:39:48,140 Yeah. 969 00:39:48,140 --> 00:39:51,420 So funny because I have that too with Sadie. 970 00:39:51,420 --> 00:39:56,620 So the room is like, you have to be very, very intentional to come into our bedroom because 971 00:39:56,620 --> 00:39:58,380 it's off the kitchen now. 972 00:39:58,380 --> 00:40:01,060 But sometimes Sadie will just, I don't keep the door like closed. 973 00:40:01,060 --> 00:40:02,060 Yeah, me either. 974 00:40:02,060 --> 00:40:04,860 Sadie will just walk in and for no reason just be like, hey, mom. 975 00:40:04,860 --> 00:40:05,860 Yes. 976 00:40:05,860 --> 00:40:07,620 I don't need two women eating each other out. 977 00:40:07,620 --> 00:40:08,620 Right. 978 00:40:08,620 --> 00:40:10,220 Sunny will walk in my room like, where's Phil? 979 00:40:10,220 --> 00:40:13,300 Cause Phil's always with me and he wants to pet Phil and say hi to Phil. 980 00:40:13,300 --> 00:40:14,300 Like, at night. 981 00:40:14,300 --> 00:40:17,460 So I'm like, okay, I can't have this on. 982 00:40:17,460 --> 00:40:22,780 But while sunny walking in or Natalia for that matter, it was way over the top. 983 00:40:22,780 --> 00:40:23,780 Yeah. 984 00:40:23,780 --> 00:40:24,780 Yeah. 985 00:40:24,780 --> 00:40:26,060 So I had to make sure everybody was done for the night. 986 00:40:26,060 --> 00:40:27,900 My door was closed. 987 00:40:27,900 --> 00:40:33,180 I did find it interesting that be like good character kind of, right? 988 00:40:33,180 --> 00:40:34,180 Mm-hmm. 989 00:40:34,180 --> 00:40:35,340 Okay, I wanted to know what you thought about this. 990 00:40:35,340 --> 00:40:37,500 So there's a character. 991 00:40:37,500 --> 00:40:44,380 I don't really think this is too much of a spoiler, but there's the kind of innocent blonde 992 00:40:44,380 --> 00:40:45,380 Yes. 993 00:40:45,380 --> 00:40:47,700 Girl who's out of her element fish out of water. 994 00:40:47,700 --> 00:40:49,300 She's around all these Southern women. 995 00:40:49,300 --> 00:40:50,300 Yes. 996 00:40:50,300 --> 00:40:51,300 She moved from Boston. 997 00:40:51,300 --> 00:40:52,300 Yeah. 998 00:40:52,300 --> 00:40:55,900 But doesn't she get corrupted like pretty fast and easily pretty quick? 999 00:40:55,900 --> 00:40:57,500 So she's like, oh, I don't drink. 1000 00:40:57,500 --> 00:41:01,540 I'm sober, you know, because she'd been in like a drunk driving accident. 1001 00:41:01,540 --> 00:41:02,540 Right. 1002 00:41:02,540 --> 00:41:05,740 Well, like at the first opportunity, the first time someone's like, yeah, but you should 1003 00:41:05,740 --> 00:41:06,740 have a shot. 1004 00:41:06,740 --> 00:41:07,740 She's like, all right. 1005 00:41:07,740 --> 00:41:08,740 All right. 1006 00:41:08,740 --> 00:41:09,740 I know. 1007 00:41:09,740 --> 00:41:10,740 I got that too. 1008 00:41:10,740 --> 00:41:11,740 I would. 1009 00:41:11,740 --> 00:41:12,740 I think it didn't take long to get her corrupted. 1010 00:41:12,740 --> 00:41:13,740 I know. 1011 00:41:13,740 --> 00:41:14,740 Right. 1012 00:41:14,740 --> 00:41:15,740 Pretty fast. 1013 00:41:15,740 --> 00:41:23,420 And then she's doing a lot of stuff that I was like, okay, like I get that you've like relapsed 1014 00:41:23,420 --> 00:41:24,660 and now you're drinking. 1015 00:41:24,660 --> 00:41:32,700 So your morals are not really, you maybe operating beneath your moral compass, but like pretty 1016 00:41:32,700 --> 00:41:34,220 bad, pretty fast. 1017 00:41:34,220 --> 00:41:40,260 Like if I was married to her, I'd be, I wouldn't be like, oh, no, yes, I'd be like, what 1018 00:41:40,260 --> 00:41:41,260 the fuck? 1019 00:41:41,260 --> 00:41:42,260 Yes. 1020 00:41:42,260 --> 00:41:43,260 Absolutely. 1021 00:41:43,260 --> 00:41:45,700 I don't know if I'm a flashback of her in college yet. 1022 00:41:45,700 --> 00:41:46,700 No. 1023 00:41:46,700 --> 00:41:47,700 Okay. 1024 00:41:47,700 --> 00:41:52,260 So there's a flashback that kind of explains why she is how she is kind of thing. 1025 00:41:52,260 --> 00:41:53,260 Oh, yeah. 1026 00:41:53,260 --> 00:41:54,260 What is it? 1027 00:41:54,260 --> 00:41:55,260 Why is she that way? 1028 00:41:55,260 --> 00:41:56,540 I don't want to spoil it. 1029 00:41:56,540 --> 00:41:57,540 Okay. 1030 00:41:57,540 --> 00:41:58,540 Yeah. 1031 00:41:58,540 --> 00:41:59,540 Okay. 1032 00:41:59,540 --> 00:42:00,540 Yeah. 1033 00:42:00,540 --> 00:42:06,220 Coming up, if you're on five, it ramps up and gets, it starts to move fast and it is satisfying. 1034 00:42:06,220 --> 00:42:09,540 I will tell you this, there's already been a death. 1035 00:42:09,540 --> 00:42:12,140 So that's how far I am. 1036 00:42:12,140 --> 00:42:15,220 It's already happened and now they're trying to solve, okay. 1037 00:42:15,220 --> 00:42:16,860 They're trying to solve a murder right now. 1038 00:42:16,860 --> 00:42:17,860 Yeah. 1039 00:42:17,860 --> 00:42:18,860 Okay. 1040 00:42:18,860 --> 00:42:19,860 Yeah. 1041 00:42:19,860 --> 00:42:20,860 All right. 1042 00:42:20,860 --> 00:42:23,340 So I mean, they are introducing a lot of characters. 1043 00:42:23,340 --> 00:42:26,140 Like you really have to be like, you can't be playing threes on your phone. 1044 00:42:26,140 --> 00:42:27,140 Oh, you got pay attention. 1045 00:42:27,140 --> 00:42:28,140 Who's who? 1046 00:42:28,140 --> 00:42:29,140 Yeah. 1047 00:42:29,140 --> 00:42:32,980 I have been watching so much stuff. 1048 00:42:32,980 --> 00:42:33,980 Okay. 1049 00:42:33,980 --> 00:42:39,980 So John and I started watching, oh my god, what's the, what's the show? 1050 00:42:39,980 --> 00:42:45,540 going to kill me, leave striver is the narrator of it. It's about the NFL season. They 1051 00:42:45,540 --> 00:42:53,740 do it every year. Oh, oh, oh, oh. Uh, I was sunny was telling me about it. Uh, training 1052 00:42:53,740 --> 00:42:58,800 camp training guests hard knocks hard knocks. Yeah, Oh, my God. Thank you. Yeah. You know 1053 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:03,980 what, we really don't need Kalen. I know. I got sunny in my brain. It's all he talks about, 1054 00:43:03,980 --> 00:43:11,660 so we used to watch hard knocks like years ago and love it back in the day when they had 1055 00:43:11,660 --> 00:43:15,220 a lot more money in it and they had a lot more camera crews and they could follow a lot 1056 00:43:15,220 --> 00:43:22,900 more stories. Right. And now it just feels like, like marketing. Yeah. Like a big long commercial 1057 00:43:22,900 --> 00:43:30,820 right. I haven't seen it. Sunny talks about it. So what he watches, but, um, so I've been 1058 00:43:30,820 --> 00:43:35,300 playing games on my phone. Watch it with john's like, do you want to watch hard knocks? And 1059 00:43:35,300 --> 00:43:38,780 I'm like, okay. And he's like, are you going to play on your phone? And I'm like, yeah, 1060 00:43:38,780 --> 00:43:45,060 pretty much. Yeah. I'm like, in my defense, you know, just, yeah. Right. I was looking 1061 00:43:45,060 --> 00:43:49,980 for documentaries to watch it. And I was like on Facebook, like, you know, best documentaries. 1062 00:43:49,980 --> 00:43:55,060 And the one that kept coming up was the keepers. And I never watched that one. And I don't 1063 00:43:55,060 --> 00:44:00,020 think I've watched really. It came up so, oh my God, the keepers is the best keepers. 1064 00:44:00,020 --> 00:44:04,500 Up there with, um, is it about the Catholic church? I think it has something to do with that. 1065 00:44:04,500 --> 00:44:08,300 Yeah. Okay. And I do think that I have seen it about many years ago. I wouldn't remember. 1066 00:44:08,300 --> 00:44:12,660 I don't know the story. I just know that there's a none or whatever on the picture. Yeah. 1067 00:44:12,660 --> 00:44:18,580 That's how I know. But it comes up so much in these Facebook pages that are all about documentaries. 1068 00:44:18,580 --> 00:44:25,140 So I'm going to watch it. Okay. Yeah. I could watch that one too. I always think like, I 1069 00:44:25,140 --> 00:44:29,540 got to give Lynette some, like if I'm watching something, I kept meaning to make you listen 1070 00:44:29,540 --> 00:44:33,300 to this podcast so you can talk about it. See if you knew this lady, right? Right. Right. 1071 00:44:33,300 --> 00:44:38,660 The Joel Blackstone lady. But then, you know, I forget. Yeah. Sorry. But I knew the Jenaer one. 1072 00:44:38,660 --> 00:44:45,220 Yes. I knew that. But I'm going to listen to the Blackstone sisters. It's so weird when, um, 1073 00:44:45,220 --> 00:44:51,460 like this happened with the Karen, whatever story. Oh, Karen read, there's an update about that. 1074 00:44:51,460 --> 00:44:59,380 What? Well, there's, there's a lot going on. So Alan Jackson, her lawyer is going to be 1075 00:44:59,380 --> 00:45:05,060 representing her in the civil trial because she's getting sued by the O'Keeves. But apparently, 1076 00:45:05,060 --> 00:45:11,460 it's he's he was interviewed on some talk show and the lawyer you know is this Greek lawyer. 1077 00:45:11,460 --> 00:45:16,180 He's really cute and he's on YouTube and he breaks, he's a lawyer. So he breaks down, he broke down, 1078 00:45:16,180 --> 00:45:22,660 Karen, read everything. Um, and he said in that it looks like they found so much corruption 1079 00:45:22,660 --> 00:45:28,020 from the commissioner all the way through all the cops. There's a lot of dirty stuff that happened 1080 00:45:28,020 --> 00:45:35,540 and there looks like they might sue the Norfolk County, whatever for, you know, for what they 1081 00:45:35,540 --> 00:45:41,220 for like corruption, basically. And there's like, there's emails like the commissioner 1082 00:45:41,220 --> 00:45:47,220 changed his email to a private email, talking about the Karen Reed case, talking about, you know, 1083 00:45:47,220 --> 00:45:52,580 the witnesses and blah, blah, blah. And it looks like they're going to they have a strong case 1084 00:45:52,580 --> 00:45:57,860 to go after them against the police department. Yeah. The box is like the, 1085 00:45:57,860 --> 00:46:06,020 the, yeah, the county, whatever. Yeah. The commissioner, the judge. I believe it. Yeah. 1086 00:46:06,020 --> 00:46:11,380 I still think she hit him, but I sorry everybody. Oh my God. But there is definitely believed there 1087 00:46:11,380 --> 00:46:16,980 was major corruption. Yes. And there is a YouTube video. There's this clip, this guy called 1088 00:46:16,980 --> 00:46:21,860 micro dots that does a lot of, I'm sure a lot of Karen Reed people know what I'm talking about. But 1089 00:46:21,860 --> 00:46:29,620 it's a YouTube channel and he visually breaks down shit and he just put out a 45 minute doc 1090 00:46:29,620 --> 00:46:36,260 about the corruption and how it goes way back before Karen Reed, how one of those Albert brothers 1091 00:46:36,260 --> 00:46:42,180 killed somebody drunk driving and they covered that up quickly. Oh. All the way to yes. So there's 1092 00:46:42,180 --> 00:46:46,820 a lot you see all how like people are like, how did everybody get involved? Like, oh, how did 1093 00:46:46,820 --> 00:46:52,420 there so many people would have to been blah, blah, blah, you know, but they explain how it started 1094 00:46:52,420 --> 00:46:57,780 deep before Karen Reed. Okay. What's this called? It's called micro dots on YouTube and it's a 1095 00:46:57,780 --> 00:47:03,380 fort, it's the recent video they put out 45 minutes. Okay. It's really worth watching. It's really 1096 00:47:03,380 --> 00:47:12,660 interesting. All right. Yeah. But should I tell you this thing this, it's not even like that 1097 00:47:12,660 --> 00:47:17,380 exciting and it's not something I'm watching, but it was this parenting article that I read. It's 1098 00:47:17,380 --> 00:47:24,260 just really quick. Yeah. Yeah. Actually. Yeah. Okay. So it's just kind of funny. Let me find it. 1099 00:47:24,260 --> 00:47:29,780 All right. This was in people magazine, but it's why one mom refuses to live by son's 1100 00:47:29,780 --> 00:47:38,180 nap schedule, by trending baby products in protest of quote, modern parenting. And I just don't like 1101 00:47:38,180 --> 00:47:45,860 stuff like this. And she can't mean because it's like, it's not that groundbreaking to not buy a 1102 00:47:45,860 --> 00:47:52,740 bunch of trendy baby stuff. Right. And then also they always pick one battle that you're like, 1103 00:47:52,740 --> 00:48:00,820 okay, I'll tell you. Okay. When Aubrey, Matthews, Mathesius found out she was, okay, 1104 00:48:00,820 --> 00:48:05,540 pop up ad hope. I hate that. Expecting her first child. She was immediately overwhelmed, 1105 00:48:05,540 --> 00:48:10,740 not by morning sickness or cravings, but by the intense hyper curated routines of modern 1106 00:48:10,740 --> 00:48:16,820 motherhood she saw in TikTok. So this is like a fight back against TikTok. Okay. The constant pressure 1107 00:48:16,820 --> 00:48:23,540 to be perfectly scheduled, endlessly stimulated and always on made her question whether she even wanted 1108 00:48:23,540 --> 00:48:29,380 to become a mother. Okay. So far, I get it. I get like, this is something that you and I fight 1109 00:48:29,380 --> 00:48:36,340 against. Let's be no getters. Instead of succumbing to the anxiety, the 27 year old from Glendale, 1110 00:48:36,340 --> 00:48:43,140 Arizona turned to the older women in her life. Us seeking wisdom from a time before she felt 1111 00:48:43,140 --> 00:48:48,900 parenting became a performance. Their grounded, simple advice helped her embrace what she now calls 1112 00:48:48,900 --> 00:48:56,420 the low maintenance mom mindset. Okay. Sounds good so far, right? Like you're like, okay, yeah, 1113 00:48:56,420 --> 00:49:02,340 like you don't have to overdo it. Like, you know, the thing that's that's that's that's that's that I 1114 00:49:02,340 --> 00:49:07,460 it's kind of glaring to me. She's 27 years old. She's on TikTok and that's giving her a lot of 1115 00:49:07,460 --> 00:49:11,780 pressure. That's poisoning her brain, right? Well, all these like perfect. She's not watching the 1116 00:49:11,780 --> 00:49:16,260 right ones. I watch mothers on TikTok that don't give a fuck. They're like us. Go join the, I don't 1117 00:49:16,260 --> 00:49:22,660 care. Yes. There you go. Okay, but here's where, okay, so blah, blah, blah means cutting out excessive 1118 00:49:22,660 --> 00:49:28,020 baby products, not over complicating simple tasks. Yes, yes, yes. I'm with you on this. Okay. 1119 00:49:28,020 --> 00:49:36,420 She says, due to the hormonal, whatever, I was adapting or adopting the anxious attachment style 1120 00:49:36,420 --> 00:49:44,340 parenting that most millennial and Gen Z moms live by. Okay, still with you. However, she learned that 1121 00:49:44,340 --> 00:49:50,740 like the older women's, the older moms way is better than the modern way. So I adopted their principles 1122 00:49:50,740 --> 00:49:56,180 and found mental, physical and spiritual freedom for myself and the baby. Okay, but here's the problem. 1123 00:49:56,180 --> 00:50:05,940 So she says whether, okay, she's talking about her, her new things whether it was the importance of 1124 00:50:05,940 --> 00:50:11,700 transitioning a baby to their own crib or being comfortable with trusted babysitters. The advice 1125 00:50:11,700 --> 00:50:17,620 help prevent the kind of overdependence that can overwhelm both both mom and child. Okay, so she 1126 00:50:17,620 --> 00:50:25,780 goes on, but then here's her big things. Her non-negotiables are clear. She like and basically she's all 1127 00:50:25,780 --> 00:50:32,100 about sleep training. Okay, not I'm trying to find this one that was like the most annoying. 1128 00:50:32,100 --> 00:50:40,180 Sleep training is a must in her home. Unnecessarily unnecessary baby products and then she says basically 1129 00:50:40,180 --> 00:50:46,260 that she won't give in to like if her kids want a nap at a certain time, like no, like she's 1130 00:50:46,260 --> 00:50:50,180 going to live her life and her kids can like sleep in the stroller or whatever while she's out at 1131 00:50:50,180 --> 00:50:57,300 coffee with her friends. And so I'm reading this and I'm like, well, that's all that is easy when you 1132 00:50:57,300 --> 00:51:04,900 have an easy baby. Exactly. Or one that can look. Right. Good luck. Thank you. So then, oh yeah, 1133 00:51:04,900 --> 00:51:10,420 one of the best examples of her approach is refusing to let her baby's nap schedule dictate 1134 00:51:10,420 --> 00:51:18,020 every part of her day because because you know, she wasn't going to miss out on life because a 1135 00:51:18,020 --> 00:51:23,860 nap was scheduled in 30 minutes, keeping her stuck at home. Instead, she created a flexible routine. 1136 00:51:23,860 --> 00:51:29,460 Blah, blah, blah, blah. Teaching my child to be adaptable gave everyone freedom. Well, first of all, 1137 00:51:29,460 --> 00:51:35,940 ever met like an autistic kid. I mean, I love these people that are like, why is everybody 1138 00:51:35,940 --> 00:51:42,340 working so hard when like, it's so easy, you guys joke son, you guys, because it's so much simpler. 1139 00:51:42,340 --> 00:51:48,740 Okay. So the comments though are very funny. Oh my gosh. But here's what she says due to her 1140 00:51:48,740 --> 00:51:55,620 amazing parenting. Her son is adaptable, confident, and enjoys being with others. He sleeps a solid 1141 00:51:55,620 --> 00:52:01,140 eight to 10 hours each night. And more importantly, both she and her child live free from the constant 1142 00:52:01,140 --> 00:52:07,540 anxiety and fear that comes with modern parenting. I can still love my kid and have boundaries. 1143 00:52:07,540 --> 00:52:12,180 She says, just because I don't co-sleep with my child doesn't mean I don't love my child. 1144 00:52:12,180 --> 00:52:18,180 Anyway, she's just still sorry for her child really padding herself on the back. And she's 1145 00:52:18,180 --> 00:52:24,100 really encouraging moms to basically do what she does. Well, it sounds, yeah, it sounds great. 1146 00:52:24,100 --> 00:52:29,940 But it's not reality. Your kid is going to have to sleep when they want, when they want to sleep, 1147 00:52:29,940 --> 00:52:33,300 what are you going to do? Smack them, keep them up because you want to go on a lunch date. 1148 00:52:33,300 --> 00:52:40,020 What the, I mean, I mean, I remember learning this really the hard way, which was my whole book, 1149 00:52:40,020 --> 00:52:44,980 "City Cups" or not for Shardinay was about like, fuck all the advice. Right. Like you have to do what 1150 00:52:44,980 --> 00:52:49,540 works for you. So you could have all the advice in the world about breastfeeding if it's not working 1151 00:52:49,540 --> 00:52:53,940 for you, it's not working for you. Exactly. Right. Don't allow yourself to feel like you're 1152 00:52:53,940 --> 00:53:00,340 poisoning your child with formula, you know, that kind of thing. But yeah, this is kind of to me the 1153 00:53:00,340 --> 00:53:05,940 opposite of that. But then so the advice is somebody wrote, who cares? Please stop using TikTok. 1154 00:53:05,940 --> 00:53:11,780 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Get off a TikTok poisoning you. This person wrote, she's clearly 1155 00:53:11,780 --> 00:53:17,220 never dealt with collic for months with a baby that's nursing every 90 minutes. All those added 1156 00:53:17,220 --> 00:53:24,900 comforts aren't just for the baby. Coast sleeping lasts for different amounts of time of time based on 1157 00:53:24,900 --> 00:53:31,940 culture. She's pretty narrow-minded. And then, yes, she is. And then this one writes something kind of 1158 00:53:31,940 --> 00:53:38,820 more sad, but hold on, there was wonderful. And then these people are like, this person goes, dang, 1159 00:53:38,820 --> 00:53:46,500 you shifted nap time by 30 minutes, how unscheduled of you. And sleep training too. You're an unscheduling 1160 00:53:46,500 --> 00:53:57,140 pro. I thought that was really funny. That is funny. Yeah. Anyway, most people were just like, 1161 00:53:57,140 --> 00:54:01,140 what are you talking about? Like, do what works for you? Yeah. Don't lecture other people. 1162 00:54:01,140 --> 00:54:07,460 And most people magazine doing interviewing is not case. Social media. Yeah. You know how it is. Yeah. 1163 00:54:07,460 --> 00:54:15,140 All right. Listen, we have a couple more shout outs to do. Adam learner, Adam's got a car. 1164 00:54:16,180 --> 00:54:22,820 Probably already have my car by the time you're listening to this. 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