Stop looking outside for the permission to feel worthy.
If you've been searching for how to build unshakable self-belief, the answer isn't
an a thought, it's in your body.
I'm Martin, and with over ten million downloads, I've seen that true courage isn't the absence
of fear; it's the presence of somatic safety.
Today, we pivot from my hope to I am.
You are safe, you are here, and we are going to re-wire your subconscious self-worth together.
But first, find your quiet place today, where you won't be disturbed somewhere company,
you can sit all-I down, the choice is yours, and if you feel safe, close your eyes.
We'll begin with a vertical reset, where you're sitting or standing, I want you to feel
the length of your spine.
This is your postural feedback loop, signaling to your brain that you are alert and that you
are capable.
Inhale slowly, feeling the breath expand your chest and pull your shoulders back.
Hold, feeling the strength in your core, your somatic centre, and then exhale, and as you
release, just say internally, "I am grounded."
This is your nervous system anchoring.
We're moving out of the smallness of anxiety and into the expansive state of biological
confidence.
Inhale power, exhale out, I'm here for you.
Now focus all of your thoughts on the almost rhythmic hypnotic, rise and fall of every breath.
All the way your ribcage rises and expands, fill your lung with hope, dreams and visions,
and then on the space between the in and the outrest, allow all the negative thoughts that
hold you back to fill the space within your lungs so that as you exhale, you release them.
And like watching your breath on a cold winter's morning, when you see your breath is small,
tumbling, twisting, small, fluffy clouds, you now see the negative thoughts that hold you
back, the insecurities, the doubts, they drift away now, like a grey mist.
You watch as they to tumble and turn before they disappear from you, dissipating, disappearing
from thought and disappearing from memory, relax and unwind deeply and safely with every
outrest with every word I say, drifting further and further down, calm and relaxed.
Your spine straight, your thoughts focused, a new sense of clarity.
Breathe in, expanding your chest, hold and feel your core, relax, I am grounded.
Within this moment of mindfulness, we'll treat courage as a muscle, not a trait.
When you feel less than, your brain is likely stuck in its sub-threshold stress response.
You aren't lacking words, you are simply lacking the physiological safety.
By lengthening your breath and strengthening your posture, you are performing a manual
override.
You are proving to your nervous system that you have the capacity to take up space.
This is how we build embodied self-trust.
Within this moment of calm and in the beauty of your mind's eye, visualise these wonderful
powerful words allow them to sink past the logic and into the deep subconscious.
Repeat them as they are already the absolute truth of your life.
I am the primary guardian of my own peace and my own value.
I am worthy of respect and I am capable of setting micro boundaries that protect my
energy.
I am a masterpiece of resilience and I am growing stronger with every breath.
And still deeper and deeper, you feel your muscles unwinding, the tension melting away, evaporating
from the surface of your skin.
Feel the ground beneath you.
You are grounded, you are capable.
Relax now and then once more within the beauty of your thoughts, imagine and repeat.
I am the primary guardian of my own peace and my own value.
I am worthy of respect and I am capable of setting micro boundaries that protect my
energy.
I am the masterpiece of resilience and I am growing stronger with every breath.
Feel these words as a physical sensation, a warmth in your chest, a steadiness in your hands.
Now feel your breathing once more.
Feel your chest, your ribcage rise, hold for a moment and then sink deeply with every
out breath, deeper and deeper.
This gift of time to re-tune, to balance and to expand your horizons, to truly live, to
carry this self-belief into your day, use these three somatic triggers.
One, the power pours.
Before agreeing to something that rains you, take one, I am breath.
This is a micro boundary for your song.
Two, the vertical check.
If you feel intimidated, physically lengthen your spine, change your posture to change
your neurochemistry.
Three, the evident journal.
Tonight, write down one thing and say, "I am proud of this, build that courage muscle daily."
Now take a deep breath and now stretch out the muscles in your arms and legs.
Wiggle your fingers and toes and bring your awareness back into the room around you and then
open your eyes.
Thank you.
You've done incredibly well today.
You are worth the effort it takes to heal.
If this resonated, please do share it with someone who needs to reclaim their "I am"
and a full system nervous rewiring.
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Thank you.
Let's reconnect tomorrow, my friend.
And as always, be kind.