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♪ I had a vision like life ♪

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- What's up everybody?

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Welcome to For Cry Now Loud.

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And it's Friday.

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It's Friday.

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Woo, this is our, I think this episode,

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I'm pretty sure will mark,

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is this our last one of the month,

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our first month, or is there one more?

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There might be one more.

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- I think there's one more.

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Yeah, the 30th.

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- I can't believe it's like, it's almost July.

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What the hell?

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- It's crazy.

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- I feel like Natalia just got home not that long ago,

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so he just got home and it's already like July.

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And then Natalia goes back in August.

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I love having the kids home.

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It has been so nice.

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We, I've been making a lot of dinners.

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And of course, they're like, yeah, yeah,

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you guys want baked chicken?

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And then it's like, oh, I'm going out with my friends.

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I'll eat it later.

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I'm like, all right, then we have leftovers.

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And then it's like, what's for dinner?

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What's for dinner is the baked chicken I made

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two nights ago that you guys skipped out on.

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That's what's for dinner.

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- Right.

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- But it's been fun.

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Like, we've been cooking and having dinners together.

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And last night was the final game of the NBA playoffs.

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Or the, yeah, the NBA finals.

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And Sunny was watching it in the living room,

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which a lot of times he watches in his room

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or he was watching in the living room with me.

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And then Natalia came out and sat out on the couch

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and was like interested and asked

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and the two of them were talking basketball.

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I'm like, what is going on?

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I love this.

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- That's so cute.

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- And she went and had dinner with her dad last night,

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Sunday night, her dinner, which, okay,

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little peak behind the, she's, I'm like, oh, yeah, okay.

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So you're going out to dinner with your dad.

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So then I hear her like, I dad, oh, okay,

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pick you up in 20 minutes.

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Oh, at the old house.

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Okay, okay, bye.

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Like she's like, I'm gonna go pick up dad at the old house.

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What?

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I don't know.

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You can't eat, I don't know.

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I think she drove to dinner or I don't know,

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but like you can't come to my, he didn't want to come to my house

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to go to the old house.

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By the way, in the car that you bought her.

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- For the, you're paying for?

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- She's never.

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- She drove.

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- Interesting.

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- Yeah.

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But, yes, it's been nice having the kids home.

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There was a party like, one this, one family

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always has graduation parties, you know,

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every year they have parties and to summer parties.

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hey, welcome everybody home party

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because all the kids in the neighborhood are home from college.

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Sunny and Natali had both their friends,

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their group were going.

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He was like dressed.

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paying attention to what he's wearing.

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white t-shirt and like a button,

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it opened a button down, but it was open and sleeves rolled up,

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like corduroy, like shirt, thick shirt.

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that he just bought on his own.

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where's the same tennis shoes every year.

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It was a running joke that this kid

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wanted the same Adidas black walking shoes every Christmas

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and he'd wear them every day throughout the year

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and then by Christmas, there'd be like holes at the bottom.

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And it's like, did you want like cool shoes?

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Nope, just want those shoes.

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Finally he got like nice cool kicks.

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So it was cute.

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They went out to the party and had a good time

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Natali and all our friends were there.

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Natali's friends come, they spend the night and it's like,

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oh and I had to drive one of her friends home

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and I did a Patreon about one of these kids recently.

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But Natali is like, I gotta go,

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I gotta get to my, she had a hair appointment

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and she's like, can you drive my friend,

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call her Betsy?

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Can you drive Betsy up?

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Drop Betsy up.

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Betsy used to live seven minutes from her house.

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So it was like, sure, okay.

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And then I had something that I had to get to like in like an hour.

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And then so I'm like, I get in the car with Betsy

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and she's like, oh, I don't live at that house anymore

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where our family moved.

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And I was like, oh, where?

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And she's like, yeah, Al Tadina.

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Like deep, deep, deep.

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at three o'clock in the afternoon,

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bumper to bumper to bumper.

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That's too far.

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And it was deep far.

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And then I get off the freeway

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and it still says 10 minutes to the house.

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Oh, God.

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So I'm driving like up into the hills

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passing like the eaten fire, burnt lots and stuff.

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And I'm like, is your house safe?

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Like where is this house?

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You know, and she's like, oh, it's another seven minutes.

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And I'm like, oh my God, it took me, I was gone an hour.

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Oh my God.

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I'm like, oh my God, back.

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I had to get changed, get dressed and get to my appointment.

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So I'm like, thanks a lot, Natalia.

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For, oh, I forgot to tell you she moved.

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Anyway, yeah, it's been great having them all.

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It really is nice though.

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It is nice, yeah.

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And then you get, this is like your whole summer.

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My problem is I really need my kids to get jobs.

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And yes, yeah.

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It's hard, like we were saying before the show.

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It's hard for them to get hired

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when they're just gonna have to turn around

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and leave, you know, or go back to school.

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So I am, so Elby came into my room the other day.

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I was so pleased because I'm like,

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Elby, you have to get a job because she is doing tours

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for UCLA, but it's minimum wage.

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I'm like, there's not gonna be enough money

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to live on now, let alone have some money saved

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for when you go back to school.

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You know, when you go back at school.

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She's like, I know, I know.

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And I was like, you need to get a job

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hostessing at a restaurant.

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I was like, you get a job hostessing at like a fun restaurant,

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you know?

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So she came in my room the other day with her computer

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and she was like, okay, I wanna apply for jobs

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will you help me?

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And I was like, yes.

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'Cause that's where like our scrappiness comes in, right?

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Like where I'm like, okay, let's do this.

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Let's look up.

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So I was like, okay, let's look up restaurants.

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Oh, so there's this restaurant in Sherman Oak.

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So I'm sure you've heard of it.

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Have you heard of Bacchery?

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We love that restaurant.

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So it's a great restaurant.

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There's a few of them, I think.

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But I went to eat with my little Jewish moms group.

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Uh-huh.

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There's some non-Jewish ones in there,

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but we went there for a couple of birthdays.

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There are like the hottest waiters.

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Oh really?

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Like there's so many young, pretty people that work there.

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And I was like, what about a job there?

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And then she was like, oh my God, yes.

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There's so many hot guys that work there.

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And I was like, exactly.

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So then, but then, so she applied to that one online,

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but I was like, you gotta walk in.

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And the hand of your resume and say,

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hey, I applied online for a job,

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but I just wanted to introduce myself and like,

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give you a resume.

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I was like, that is the only way that you're gonna get hired.

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I guarantee you they're not going like,

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we should hire a host.

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Yeah, I know.

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Let's look online and see who's applied recently.

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Yes.

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No, they're gonna, it's, it's, those people are out of sight

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out of mind.

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You walk in and say like, hi.

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And our bubbly and they're gonna hire you.

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Right.

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But trying to get her to do that is a little difficult.

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But anyway, so she applied to some jobs.

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Sadie and Zander,

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like, haven't applied to anything.

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They're having the laziest summer.

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Oh, so this is what I was gonna tell you.

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So I went to a party yesterday.

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Mm-hmm.

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So I had the craziest weekend for somebody, my age.

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I know you're going to parties.

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I know.

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I had to go to this party.

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So my friend Ronnie Karam from Watch What Crappens,

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who our audience turned me on to that podcast

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and then Ronnie and I became friends

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and then I did Rose Pricks with him.

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So he had a party.

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So I went to his party.

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And I met, so our friend Meredith Lynch was there.

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Yes.

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Love Meredith.

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I'm so happy for Ronnie.

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So Ronnie, when I met him, he just had a little podcast.

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We had him.

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He'd been on our podcast

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and we helped them get like, grow their audience.

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Yeah, I remember.

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And then Ronnie and I started the podcast

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and he lived in this like studio apartment

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basically on Fairfax.

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Now he has like a big beautiful house in the hills.

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I'm so proud of that guy.

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That's amazing.

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Total scrappy self-made, like built that podcast up,

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like super hard worker.

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Yeah.

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But anyway, there was this woman there named Kiki Monique.

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Have you ever heard of her?

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She runs, she has a show on Bravo and on radio Andy.

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Serious. She has a show called Reality Check.

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Anyway, this is just what a mom brain I have.

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And I know you get it.

268
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Yeah.

269
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So they were talking, she was talking about,

270
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we were talking about her job and like all the stuff

271
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that this woman does.

272
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And Meredith was asking me like, how are the kids?

273
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Like how's Elby and I was like, she needs a job.

274
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I'm trying to figure out she needs to get a job

275
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like hosting at a restaurant.

276
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And then Meredith is like, well, Kiki

277
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could should text Tom Schwartz for you and get her a job

278
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hosting at Tom Tom.

279
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Oh.

280
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And I was like, that would be amazing.

281
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And then of course I had to try to bring it up

282
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like three more times because she was like, yeah, totally.

283
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I'll text them.

284
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And then I was like, okay, like, yeah, seriously?

285
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But like seriously?

286
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So then I talked to her a little bit before I left.

287
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And I was like, okay, but I'm really going to hit you up

288
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to like help my daughter out.

289
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Of course I showed pictures of her.

290
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Just Instagram thirst trap pictures.

291
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Yeah.

292
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Her and like a bikini.

293
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I was like, look, she could host it.

294
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Tom Tom, right?

295
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And she was like, yes, totally.

296
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She's perfect.

297
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You know?

298
00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:12,000
So I was like, okay, so now I have to text this woman today.

299
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You do?

300
00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:14,000
I got a text on it.

301
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Yes, you need to.

302
00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,480
I only have her Instagram, but like, I'll DM her.

303
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Yes, it's like great to see you.

304
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How's, how about my daughter?

305
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I feel so dumb about it.

306
00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:28,520
But like you miss all the shots you don't make.

307
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You don't have to have her.

308
00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:30,520
Exactly.

309
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However that sports go.

310
00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:32,520
Exactly.

311
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Yeah, you got it.

312
00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:34,520
You got it.

313
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You got to have.

314
00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,440
I like, even if you she doesn't get back to you,

315
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that's a great idea.

316
00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:43,040
Have Elby go in there and drop off her resume.

317
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And maybe say, hey, my mom, don't mean to come.

318
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Yeah.

319
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You know, he can unique referred me.

320
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Right.

321
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Right.

322
00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:52,720
She could.

323
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Yeah.

324
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I don't know.

325
00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,760
You know, I mean, if, if people get touched in the

326
00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:05,840
afterwards and said, hey, like a friend of mine's daughter is looking for a hostessing job,

327
00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,640
you know, he might just be like, yeah, have her ask for so and so or whatever.

328
00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:10,640
Exactly.

329
00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:11,640
Right, right, right.

330
00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:13,680
What if, how cool would that be though?

331
00:12:13,680 --> 00:12:17,040
I would work out like a Lisa Vanderpumper.

332
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You know, I would love that.

333
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And where is that restaurant?

334
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I have no idea.

335
00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,200
I have no idea.

336
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I have no idea.

337
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I think that it was in the Valley.

338
00:12:25,680 --> 00:12:29,040
No, I wish it was in the Valley.

339
00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,040
What's looking up?

340
00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,440
We don't have a K-Lin anymore.

341
00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:32,440
So we have to look up.

342
00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,440
Yeah.

343
00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:34,440
Tom, Tom's Tom's Tom's Tom's.

344
00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,760
I never watch any of those Vanderpum.

345
00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,200
It's in West Hollywood.

346
00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:39,440
That is in West Hollywood.

347
00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:40,440
Yeah.

348
00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,080
Well, it's okay right over the hill.

349
00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:45,200
She could take a can, you know, it's far.

350
00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,400
It's Santa Monica Boulevard in West Hollywood.

351
00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,520
It's going to be a pain in the ass to get to.

352
00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,840
But listen, she'll make bank.

353
00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:54,840
How about Jackson and Studio City?

354
00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,640
I mean, I pretty sure that's like a burger place, right?

355
00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:58,640
Yeah.

356
00:12:58,640 --> 00:12:59,640
Yeah.

357
00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:00,640
I don't know if they have hostesses there.

358
00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:01,640
Oh, they don't.

359
00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:02,640
It's pretty casual.

360
00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,600
Oh, I guess I have a casual bar.

361
00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,840
And what do I know?

362
00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:08,840
What do you know?

363
00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:10,480
Well, maybe the six.

364
00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,480
What about the six in Studio City?

365
00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:13,480
The six is cool.

366
00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,920
Yeah, there's a lot of good restaurants.

367
00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:20,000
There's so many restaurants she could go to for hostesses.

368
00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,400
I wish Sunny could be a hostess.

369
00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:23,400
She could be a host.

370
00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:24,400
She could be a host.

371
00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:25,400
Yeah.

372
00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:31,640
I feel like it's a good job because it doesn't probably require that much training.

373
00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,640
Yeah.

374
00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:36,000
And then if she goes when she's at school, she could do it on like breaks.

375
00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,000
Yes.

376
00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,000
Pick up a shift.

377
00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,000
Yeah.

378
00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,000
Yeah.

379
00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,000
It's a big enough restaurant.

380
00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,000
Right.

381
00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,000
Right.

382
00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,000
Yeah.

383
00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,000
Yeah.

384
00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,000
I'm just like, you need a job because she doesn't have any money.

385
00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:47,000
Yeah.

386
00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:48,000
At all.

387
00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:49,000
It all comes from me.

388
00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:50,000
Right.

389
00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:51,000
I know.

390
00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,000
And now Natalia has her job.

391
00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,000
Going.

392
00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,000
It's going.

393
00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,000
I mean, it's two days a week.

394
00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:57,640
She's there today.

395
00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,600
But she loves, but it's all day.

396
00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:07,040
And she, you know, when she was breaking it down, it was almost the same as when she was hostessing,

397
00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,480
like the hours worked out to be about the same.

398
00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,800
But it could go to another day a week.

399
00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:12,800
Oh, really?

400
00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:13,800
Yeah.

401
00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:14,800
But we'll see.

402
00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:15,800
We'll see.

403
00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:20,080
Because they hired these summer interns at the same time.

404
00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,520
So anyway, so she loves it.

405
00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:27,520
She's, you know, doing, she had to pick up Guillermo.

406
00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,880
She sends me a selfie of her and Guillermo in her car.

407
00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,960
And I'm like, she's like, I had to go pick them up for work.

408
00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:39,200
And she's like, and Guillermo does not live close by.

409
00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,880
He lives a good 45 minutes with traffic.

410
00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:43,880
Oh, wow.

411
00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:44,880
Yeah.

412
00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:46,000
So she went and picked them up.

413
00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,320
She didn't have to take them home.

414
00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:49,320
But yeah.

415
00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:50,320
Like things like that.

416
00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:51,320
She went and got lunch.

417
00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:53,560
She went, she goes and gets coffee.

418
00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,720
She cleans up, stalks the fridge.

419
00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:02,120
She's holding the microphone in the audience, you know.

420
00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:08,880
The thing is, is now it's a bummer because Sunny, Jimmy's gone now for the summer.

421
00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:09,880
Right.

422
00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,120
So now it's just going to be guest host.

423
00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:15,960
But I wonder how long because she doesn't, she doesn't go back.

424
00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,960
Oh no, she's back August.

425
00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,080
Like the week of like August 22nd, something like that.

426
00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:22,080
Okay.

427
00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:25,400
And I think he doesn't get back until like after Memorial Day.

428
00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,400
Oh, yeah.

429
00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:28,400
But that's okay, whatever.

430
00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,520
Like, it's not like she's hanging out with Jimmy.

431
00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,200
She's like running around.

432
00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,600
She's a production assistant.

433
00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,000
So it's good to get that experience though.

434
00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,000
Yeah.

435
00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,000
She's getting the door.

436
00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,000
Yeah.

437
00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,000
She really loves it.

438
00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,000
She really does.

439
00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,600
She was, did the man on the streets last week with Tony Barbieri?

440
00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:45,600
Oh my God.

441
00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:46,600
I know.

442
00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:47,600
I know.

443
00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:53,760
Robin and I were just remembering how much we, how much we flipped over him when he emceed

444
00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:58,600
that gala and how I was like, you got to get him to come on our show.

445
00:15:58,600 --> 00:15:59,600
Oh, that's right.

446
00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:00,600
That gala there.

447
00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:01,600
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

448
00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,720
He was so freaking funny.

449
00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,840
Like my, our stomachs hurt.

450
00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:10,300
Remember what I told you that he was just making all these like subtle jokes that people

451
00:16:10,300 --> 00:16:11,300
weren't really getting.

452
00:16:11,300 --> 00:16:13,240
But Robin and I were crying laughing.

453
00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:14,240
Yeah.

454
00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:15,240
Yeah.

455
00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,120
Like people like going, is anybody else with me on this?

456
00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,560
Like he is being so funny and dry.

457
00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:21,560
Right.

458
00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:22,560
Right.

459
00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,160
And like there, then there was like one guy behind me who was like totally laughing and we

460
00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:26,160
made eye contact.

461
00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:27,160
Yeah.

462
00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:28,160
Yeah.

463
00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,160
Yeah.

464
00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:30,160
He is hilarious.

465
00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,960
And, and she's like, yeah.

466
00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:36,920
And I mean, she's known Tony since she was little, little kid.

467
00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:41,240
And she's like, it's just so, it was like so cool to be out there with Tony on the street,

468
00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:42,240
you know?

469
00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,520
And she's like, and he's so fucking funny.

470
00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:45,520
I go, I know.

471
00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:46,520
And she goes, he's funny.

472
00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,600
Not when he's not on camera when he's just talking.

473
00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:50,600
He's funny.

474
00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,880
I go, I know he's Tony Barbieri.

475
00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:54,240
He's hilarious.

476
00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:55,240
So yeah.

477
00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,040
You know, she's, she's having a, she's, she's enjoying it.

478
00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:01,280
Like she's doing really, she really likes it.

479
00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,840
And you know, Sonny's taken a sweet time.

480
00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,920
But I'm like, you find a job yet.

481
00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:09,640
The only thing like I could think of is there's the grocery store in our neighborhood where

482
00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:17,880
I know the, I've known the, the manager, the store manager for 40 years since high school.

483
00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:21,720
And he happens to be at my store.

484
00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,520
But he hasn't been there recently.

485
00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:24,760
So I don't know.

486
00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:29,120
But, and now he's, Sonny's driving my car.

487
00:17:29,120 --> 00:17:33,920
So maybe they're, he wants to do like a delivery job, like driving around.

488
00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,280
Well, then what are you driving?

489
00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,600
I mean, if he could do it like the days, they say like,

490
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,800
some door dash drivers make their own hours and stuff.

491
00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,040
So I don't know.

492
00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:48,080
You could do it on the days that I don't need my car, you know?

493
00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,040
Or I use an Italian car on the day she's not at work.

494
00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,280
Like we could figure it out.

495
00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,280
So I don't know.

496
00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,320
We'll see.

497
00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,520
It's hard, man.

498
00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,880
It's, it's hard and it's also, it's different than when we were kids.

499
00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:03,880
Yeah.

500
00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:09,320
Because when I wanted to get a job when I was 16, I just went, you just go around the

501
00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:10,320
way.

502
00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:11,720
This isn't go, can I have an application?

503
00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:12,720
Yes.

504
00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:13,720
I love that.

505
00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:17,280
You fill it out and then they either, they're like, yeah, we're actually hiring right now.

506
00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:21,420
Go talk to the, yeah, it was, it was, it was better that way.

507
00:18:21,420 --> 00:18:26,600
Now everything is online, which you're right, like nobody's looking online and usually if

508
00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:31,200
they are an opening at the place of your business, the other people working there, I'll

509
00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:32,920
go, hey, my sister needs a job.

510
00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:33,920
You know, yeah.

511
00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,640
They're not going online looking at applications.

512
00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:37,640
I agree.

513
00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:38,640
I don't feel like they're not.

514
00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:39,640
I don't know.

515
00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,480
Depends on the place.

516
00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:45,680
Except that me, the, the way I'm seeing it in my head is like, you fill out the application

517
00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:50,000
online, then you find out who knows somebody because that's what Elbe is doing with one

518
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,600
of the places she applied to.

519
00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:57,600
Her friend worked there last summer and that girl is like, oh, I'll talk to my friend who's

520
00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,560
the person I got the job from and you can use her name.

521
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:05,880
But then I'm like, you still need to go in there and feel, hi, I'm so and so's friend

522
00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:09,440
and I filled out an application online.

523
00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,440
I just wanted to drop off my resume.

524
00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,440
Yeah, but it's, oh, that's such bad news to Elbe because she's got that social anxiety.

525
00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:15,840
And I didn't give a fuck.

526
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:22,000
Like I cannot tell you in my life how many times because I waited tables until I was 28

527
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:23,000
years old.

528
00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,920
And I got fired all the time or quit, quit because there wasn't enough money.

529
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:31,960
So then I would like, when I lived in Santa Monica, I would go walk down the Santa Monica

530
00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:36,280
promenade, go into every like restaurant and be like, can I have an application?

531
00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:37,280
Right.

532
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:38,280
Yeah.

533
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,280
Of course, that was young and cute.

534
00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:40,280
Like in like 20s.

535
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:41,280
Yeah.

536
00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:45,040
So you'd have like a male, whoever the male manager was, you know, he like, hi, are you

537
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,120
looking for servers?

538
00:19:46,120 --> 00:19:47,120
And I had experience.

539
00:19:47,120 --> 00:19:48,120
Right.

540
00:19:48,120 --> 00:19:51,320
And they'd just be like, sure, fill out an application.

541
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,640
Then they'd interview you right there and then they can you start today?

542
00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:55,640
Yes.

543
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:56,640
Can you start Monday?

544
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,920
And you know, usually the person, the first person you're talking to is probably the

545
00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:03,800
person that's like, we got to fucking hire somebody, you know?

546
00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,160
So like, oh, so and so walked in.

547
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:07,160
Here's our resume.

548
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:08,160
Let's get on it.

549
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:09,160
Let's hire, you know, right.

550
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:12,400
Usually that's the, that's the person that wants help.

551
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:13,400
Right.

552
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:14,400
Yeah.

553
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:20,520
I also feel like in though, I feel like in those days, a lot of places were always hiring.

554
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:25,360
Whereas I feel like it's harder to get a job because there's so many more people that

555
00:20:25,360 --> 00:20:26,360
want jobs.

556
00:20:26,360 --> 00:20:27,360
Yeah.

557
00:20:27,360 --> 00:20:31,960
I mean, that even like a shitty job, like working at a restaurant, yeah, are sought after.

558
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:32,960
Right.

559
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:37,080
Like it's like, oh, I mean, I told, we've talked about this many times now, but like Trader

560
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:38,240
Joseph's like impossible.

561
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,240
It's like the freaking mafia.

562
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:40,240
Yeah.

563
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,240
Yeah.

564
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,240
You really have to be in a family.

565
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:43,240
Yeah.

566
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:44,240
You know what I mean?

567
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,680
You got to be somebody's like twin brother to get the job there.

568
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:48,680
Yes.

569
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:49,680
Yeah.

570
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:50,680
Yeah.

571
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:51,960
I told you, those people were like, no, it was really hard.

572
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:56,640
Like I knew somebody like my friend worked here, but also I had to come in every day and

573
00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:57,640
like asking.

574
00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:58,640
Yeah.

575
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:03,280
Also, I think if you notice the Trader Joe people, they they're older people.

576
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:08,000
Like I think that it pays, I think Trader Joe's is very good to their employees.

577
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,400
Probably pays really well.

578
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:15,040
Probably has great vacation and healthcare and all that because I think those kind of,

579
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:19,200
if you look at the people, it's not a lot of teenagers and I don't see.

580
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:24,120
I see a lot of teenagers at mine, but I also see a lot of people that I've seen there for

581
00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:25,120
the 20 years.

582
00:21:25,120 --> 00:21:26,120
I've lived in my house.

583
00:21:26,120 --> 00:21:27,120
Yeah.

584
00:21:27,120 --> 00:21:28,120
I think they don't leave.

585
00:21:28,120 --> 00:21:29,120
Yeah.

586
00:21:29,120 --> 00:21:30,120
You have to kill them.

587
00:21:30,120 --> 00:21:31,120
Yeah.

588
00:21:31,120 --> 00:21:32,120
To create a job over.

589
00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:33,120
Right.

590
00:21:33,120 --> 00:21:34,120
Right.

591
00:21:34,120 --> 00:21:35,120
Shhh.

592
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593
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605
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606
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612
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613
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614
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615
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Yeah.

616
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,920
So we don't go totally broke.

617
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:54,920
Yes.

618
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Yes.

619
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:56,920
Supporting their lifestyle.

620
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:57,920
Yeah.

621
00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,400
Going out all the time.

622
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaking of which, Sadie and Zander have ever since, and I, I talked a little bit about

623
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:13,120
this on our Patreon, but ever since they were in Greece, they have this group of friends

624
00:23:13,120 --> 00:23:15,640
and they are always busy.

625
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:20,680
And it's really night, like it makes me happy.

626
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:25,400
And they're new, or since because they met them because of Greece.

627
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:31,400
Well, they knew these kids, but they didn't necessarily have a reason to be in a, in a

628
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,400
place.

629
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,080
Greece made their friendship become like an actual friend group.

630
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,080
Yeah.

631
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,080
They were all acquaintances.

632
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,080
Right.

633
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,480
And now they're like kind of a tight knit group.

634
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:44,440
And they're always doing stuff, planning stuff.

635
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:49,120
And I've never seen my kids more like, oh, tonight we're going to this party or they were

636
00:23:49,120 --> 00:23:50,120
doing this.

637
00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:51,120
That is so nice.

638
00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:52,120
And then, yeah.

639
00:23:52,120 --> 00:23:57,920
And then, Zander had his, you know, he had two gigs in a row and he's trying to book another

640
00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,520
gig.

641
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,920
I feel like I might want to try to be like their manager.

642
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,240
Yeah, maybe you can get paid doing these gigs.

643
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:10,200
I was, well, so there's, there's some places like, you know, Corbin Bull.

644
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,200
Yes.

645
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,640
Sure has been around since your kid.

646
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:13,640
Oh, yeah.

647
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,280
Many times been to Corbin Bull.

648
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:16,280
Okay.

649
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,680
Well, Corbin Bull has this little kind of divy bar in it.

650
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:20,920
Do you know what I'm talking about?

651
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,560
There's like a room you go in and there's a bar and they have like musical act.

652
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:25,560
Oh, they do.

653
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:26,560
I haven't been there in years.

654
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,320
I have a feeling they don't pay.

655
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,160
I have a feeling they give you like a percentage of the door.

656
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,160
Oh, really?

657
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,160
Right.

658
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,960
If you go and say you're here to see this band and they charge you like a cover charge,

659
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:37,960
I'm guessing.

660
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:38,960
Yeah.

661
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:44,560
So I think I want to call them for Zander's band and just be like, hey, what's the deal?

662
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:45,560
Yeah, I know.

663
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:46,560
I know.

664
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:47,560
I should start booking his band.

665
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,040
Why don't you be a mom and your.

666
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,040
I should.

667
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,040
Yeah.

668
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:52,040
Right?

669
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,040
Yeah.

670
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:54,040
Why not?

671
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,040
Yeah.

672
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:56,040
A percentage.

673
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,040
I need another gig.

674
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,040
Yeah.

675
00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:59,400
Start booking him in like around town.

676
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,240
I'm going to do it.

677
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:07,520
You know, I mean, there's got to be a niche for like, like, like Patrick's party.

678
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:12,120
Like to have like a kid band play, but not kid, but like teenagers play.

679
00:25:12,120 --> 00:25:13,120
Yeah.

680
00:25:13,120 --> 00:25:14,120
Kids love that.

681
00:25:14,120 --> 00:25:18,640
Well, like I said, Patrick said he said, hey, would they be interested in doing a birthday

682
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,680
party next week?

683
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:21,680
And like, hello?

684
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:22,680
Okay.

685
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:27,800
So he wrote, he wrote, our guy line are available to play a birthday party next week.

686
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:28,800
And I wrote, really?

687
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,200
Who's when?

688
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,960
And he goes, give me a minute checking.

689
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:32,960
Okay.

690
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:33,960
Two days ago.

691
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:34,960
Yeah.

692
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,480
So then I just yesterday and then yesterday in the morning, I wrote, hi.

693
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:38,480
Nothing.

694
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:44,720
I think Patrick doesn't get back to people a lot very quickly, but he will.

695
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:45,720
He probably will.

696
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,720
I should just be like, what's the address?

697
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,720
The kids are in the neighborhood.

698
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:51,720
Where are they going?

699
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,440
We've got all the equipment.

700
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,960
Watch, I'm going to have to get like a partridge family like bus.

701
00:25:58,960 --> 00:25:59,960
Yeah.

702
00:25:59,960 --> 00:26:02,960
So I was going to ask you what driving the bus?

703
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,960
What equipment did they have to bring there?

704
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,440
They brought their instruments and then they brought amps.

705
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:09,440
Okay.

706
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,280
But Patrick had the microphones.

707
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:12,680
Well, I should.

708
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,520
Excuse me.

709
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:15,520
Okay.

710
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:16,520
Edit that.

711
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,520
Yeah.

712
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:18,520
So I don't know.

713
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:19,520
That's what Zander's doing.

714
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:20,520
But meanwhile, I'm like, get it.

715
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,520
You also need a job.

716
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:22,520
Yeah.

717
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,520
Yeah.

718
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,520
I know.

719
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:25,520
I mean, they're not that interested in working.

720
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:26,520
Shockingly.

721
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:27,520
Why would they?

722
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:35,520
I mean, they all have it so easy.

723
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:40,840
But they really kind of don't because I swear to God, I don't give them money.

724
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:45,520
But maybe it's because when they go to Starbucks, they use my credit card.

725
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:46,520
Yeah.

726
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,800
It's not like they're buying their own like coffee.

727
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:49,800
Yeah.

728
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,960
But they don't really spend money.

729
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:52,960
That's a thing.

730
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,240
Sunny is not a spender like Natalius.

731
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,000
She needed to have job.

732
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,000
Yeah.

733
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:01,080
Sunny is bare minimum.

734
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,360
It lives off as a allowance pretty much.

735
00:27:04,360 --> 00:27:10,440
So when our kids were younger, I think Natalia and Elbe were both like kind of mall rats.

736
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,600
Elbe loved to go shopping, but of course she made her own money.

737
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,840
So she was constantly buying clothes.

738
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:16,840
Yeah.

739
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:20,480
You know, we talk about how they have like a hundred different types of tank tops.

740
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,480
Yeah.

741
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,600
She'd have the same urban outfiters tank top, but in like four colors.

742
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:26,600
Right.

743
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:27,600
Because she could.

744
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,280
So now she doesn't, but she still really does like clothes.

745
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:36,040
And I have seen her in some new clothes and I don't know how she got them.

746
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:40,400
I suspect she put it on her credit card and is hoping to at some point, I don't know.

747
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,000
Somebody will pay it up, but Sadie only shops like at thrift stores.

748
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,000
Yeah.

749
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:46,000
Yeah.

750
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,000
Yeah.

751
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:51,720
That's the nice thing about thrift stores, but yeah.

752
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,760
I told Sadie, you should apply it like Shake Shack.

753
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,360
There's a Shake Shack right by our house.

754
00:27:56,360 --> 00:27:59,560
It's basically fast food, but I think it's a little cooler, you know?

755
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:00,560
Yeah.

756
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,600
I don't know if I want to work like in food.

757
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,600
Yeah.

758
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,360
What do you mean you don't feed?

759
00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:08,240
I don't know if I wanted work in food.

760
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,640
Like, I was like, yeah, I don't know if I want to wait tables.

761
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,480
Like then I would have starved to death.

762
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,480
Right.

763
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:18,080
What about for her like Sally's what's it called?

764
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,080
Sally's beauty supply.

765
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:20,080
Yeah.

766
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,080
She lives at that place.

767
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,080
That would be perfect.

768
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:27,520
Except that every time you go in there, there's like one, two employees at the most and

769
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:28,680
they just look dour.

770
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,200
It doesn't look fun.

771
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,040
Yeah, it looks to work there.

772
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,560
She'd only be working there for the employee discount.

773
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:35,560
Yeah.

774
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,360
And then my big idea was for her to work at Ulta.

775
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:39,360
Yeah.

776
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:45,440
Like Ursula Fara, but for an Ulta wants you to have a year of retail experience.

777
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:51,000
Like they want, this is what I'm saying like for to make minimum wage, they want you

778
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,200
to like have had career training.

779
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:54,200
Yes.

780
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:55,200
Right.

781
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,200
Where do you intern?

782
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,200
You know what I mean?

783
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:58,200
Well, that's the other thing.

784
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,200
Yeah.

785
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,200
Like where's they want a resume?

786
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,200
Like what resume?

787
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:02,200
Right.

788
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,080
There's nothing to put on the resume, you know, at this point.

789
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,440
Like for even like my friends and her kids are in high school in their senior year.

790
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,200
It's like, you know, they're looking for jobs too.

791
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,120
You know, I say, like I got it.

792
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,680
This is what I just thought of too.

793
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:16,960
Like a next door app.

794
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:21,000
I always see as I love watching crazy's on next door app.

795
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,080
Like, look out for the coyotes.

796
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,760
Like, right.

797
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:32,240
But like I see sometimes like anybody's kid in the neighborhood that wants a part time

798
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:33,240
job.

799
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,600
I need a part time help at the house or my grandmother could use help.

800
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:41,840
Like there is like little part time jobs here and they're on next door out in the next

801
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:42,840
time.

802
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:43,840
That is true.

803
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:44,840
That is true.

804
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,480
And then I also see moms putting on there like, hey, my son is available or my daughter's

805
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:53,440
available for the summer of any part time jobs kind of thing.

806
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:54,960
That is true.

807
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:55,960
I could do that.

808
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,440
I can't post standards, but a band on there.

809
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,960
I want them to get like a real job though.

810
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:01,960
Yes.

811
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:02,960
Like with hours every week.

812
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:03,960
Right.

813
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,000
That's not just like babysitting.

814
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,000
Yes.

815
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,720
You know, that's like a job because I think it's a right of passage.

816
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,200
I think it teaches them responsibility and absolutely.

817
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,240
And it gets them out of their comfort zone a little bit.

818
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,240
Right.

819
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:17,240
You know, I agree.

820
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:18,240
I think it really helped.

821
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,240
I'll be a lot.

822
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:21,240
Uh-huh.

823
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,240
I mean, she was kind of irresponsible at home.

824
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,760
But when it came to her job, she was like, on it.

825
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:26,760
Yeah.

826
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:27,760
Yeah.

827
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,080
So I want that for them, but I agree.

828
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,400
Working in a place.

829
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:37,360
Zander wants to, and he is going to signing up for a stand up comedy class.

830
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:41,240
Oh, I thought he was doing improv this summer.

831
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,600
No, no, he did it last summer.

832
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,600
Maybe the summer before he was doing groundlings.

833
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:48,600
Oh, wow.

834
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:50,520
He's kind of too old for it though.

835
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,040
He doesn't want to do teenage glasses.

836
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:54,040
Yeah.

837
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,040
He's almost 18.

838
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,040
Oh, my God.

839
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,040
I know.

840
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,520
We'll be 18 in November.

841
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:03,920
So he's like, a lot of times they attract that stuff attracts younger people.

842
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,920
Yeah.

843
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,000
He was doing it when he was 14 and then they thought it was super cool when there were 16

844
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,000
year olds.

845
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,520
But now he's 17 and a half.

846
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:18,040
He's like, I, so actually, we checked with this UCB sketch writing thing and they said

847
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,240
they would take him even though he's not 18 if we signed like a waiver.

848
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,240
Oh.

849
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:27,800
But there's another natural stand up class that he's going to, that he's probably going

850
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,480
to sign up for, that's adults.

851
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,200
Oh, that's nice.

852
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:36,920
But a friend of mine who was on drunkish was like the, the, the Letterman.

853
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:37,920
Really?

854
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:38,920
Yeah.

855
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:39,920
He just has to refer.

856
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:45,240
So it's like a class like for adults out in the valley or in, no, it's in Santa Monica

857
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,720
in a, to drive his ass to Santa Monica.

858
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,920
Oh boy.

859
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:50,760
He still doesn't have his permit yet.

860
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,640
Well, he's got a sister.

861
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,720
I know.

862
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,240
He's just a passenger princess.

863
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:00,240
Yeah.

864
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,240
Yeah.

865
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:06,080
Like how you, I mean, he really does.

866
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,320
He's just like, Sadie, can you take me and then it'll be somewhere super far?

867
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,800
Like you, that's how he would be.

868
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,840
He'd be like, can you drive my friend?

869
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:14,840
Right.

870
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,440
And she'd be like, in fucking Altadena.

871
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:17,440
Yeah.

872
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,840
Yeah.

873
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,240
She's like, all right.

874
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:27,680
I mean, imagine now if they go into Jamie Foxx's parties, if he is, you know, oh, yeah, this

875
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,320
time you have Sadie to drive, right?

876
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,320
She would never.

877
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,880
She would want to drop us off.

878
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,160
No, she probably want to drink.

879
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:36,680
Oh, that's true.

880
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:37,680
Yeah.

881
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:38,680
Yeah.

882
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:44,400
These kids, man, I want to harken back to something that is just funny to me now, which

883
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:51,000
was how, how in denial we all are as moms when our kids first start like experimenting and

884
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,000
stuff.

885
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:57,800
I mean, when you found the white claw in your yard and you're like, no, but Natalia said,

886
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:02,240
like, some hikers threw it up into our yard and I was like, Linette.

887
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,200
And I'm like, no, I don't see why she would make that.

888
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:06,200
It makes sense.

889
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,600
And I was like a year and a half ahead of you with the oldie.

890
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,400
I'm like, all right.

891
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:12,400
Yeah.

892
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,400
Yes, exactly.

893
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,400
No, I know.

894
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:21,200
You know, like now that they're, my kids are 19 and you know, they do, like sometimes they

895
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,800
will have like pregame or whatever.

896
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:28,480
You know, the thing that I don't get is these other houses that have parties that are, they

897
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,760
know the kids are drinking.

898
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,040
Don't they feel like that's a liability?

899
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,040
You would think.

900
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:36,040
I know.

901
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,680
That's what I don't get.

902
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:43,640
So some of the ones that my kids have told me about is like the parents know the kids

903
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,920
are drinking, but they're not supplying the alcohol.

904
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,160
But like, but what's the difference really?

905
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,080
It's like they're just kind of looking the other way.

906
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,080
Right.

907
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,080
I get it.

908
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,120
But not even really looking the other way.

909
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,440
Like they absolutely know and come and talk to the kids.

910
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:05,760
But then part of my brain at this point, and I know this is going to feel scandalous

911
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,920
to a lot of people.

912
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:14,120
But part of me is like, well, if the kids are sleeping over, my big thing is drinking and

913
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,120
driving.

914
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:16,120
Yes.

915
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,960
That is where I'm like, and I've told my kids zero tolerance.

916
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:19,960
Right.

917
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,240
Just because I did it all the time when I was a teenager.

918
00:34:22,240 --> 00:34:23,240
I could have died.

919
00:34:23,240 --> 00:34:29,120
Like, and there's no excuse for it now because you have a cool mother who will know questions

920
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,120
asked come get you.

921
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,120
Exactly.

922
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:35,480
Even if you take the car and you decide, hey, I know I took the car, but I feel like having

923
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:36,480
a drink.

924
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,480
Yeah.

925
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:38,480
And you do it.

926
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,480
You just need to tell me like, hey, I need you to come get me.

927
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:41,480
And I will.

928
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,480
Yeah.

929
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,480
I told my kids that too.

930
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:44,480
Like, no questions ask, I'll come get you.

931
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:48,560
And the time is like, why when I have an Uber, I don't need to have you come get me.

932
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:49,560
Right.

933
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,040
Well, that's what I'm saying.

934
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:56,400
Now that there's Uber, there's no excuse for getting behind the wheel of a car.

935
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,280
Or getting in a car with somebody who's been drinking.

936
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,080
That's so part of my brain goes, okay, so let's say you have a group of kids at your

937
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:04,360
house.

938
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:09,560
Now, this is not, I'm not speaking for myself because I wouldn't, I would not allow drinking

939
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,200
at my house for teenagers.

940
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,200
Yeah.

941
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,800
But I'm saying, if they're at someone else's house and that parent feels that these, they're

942
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:21,200
going to look at these kids are drinking, but they're all safe and they're all sleeping

943
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:22,200
over.

944
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,200
Right.

945
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,200
That's one thing.

946
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:31,760
I just don't like, I, in my neighborhood in our, like, the culture that is in our

947
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:36,360
neighborhood, the sports parents, there's this parent, there's all these different, and

948
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:42,720
then there's always these same couple houses that have the graduation party where they have,

949
00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:48,120
they'll have them have champagne before they go to prom and they put them in the sprinter

950
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:52,200
vans for prom and send them up, but they'll, they'll give them shit.

951
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:58,000
Like I'm always like wondering like, aren't these parents afraid, you know, because if

952
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:02,080
there was ever drinking in my house, I did not, I didn't, I wasn't aware.

953
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:05,840
It wasn't like, hey, is it cool that we have like a kegger?

954
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:11,420
No, I would be like, they were down by the, the horse trail, you know, that's where I would

955
00:36:11,420 --> 00:36:13,080
see the white claws.

956
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:17,560
And I didn't know that, but like, but there's actual parents that like serve alcohol at

957
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,520
these parties.

958
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:24,480
And they're, I, I guess they trust that all the kids are going to be ubering and stuff

959
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,200
or walking.

960
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:27,200
But I don't know.

961
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:32,600
I don't, I just don't, I wouldn't feel comfortable like having, oh, mean, these parties and some

962
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,760
of them serve alcohol.

963
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:39,160
There's some of them that have, you know, they have older brothers and sisters who are in

964
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:46,600
college, but are in over 21, but then they also have a 19 year old sibling at home.

965
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,560
And then their friends come over.

966
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:52,520
So they're cool with them going and hanging out with the older siblings in the, you know,

967
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:57,680
guest house where there's alcohol knowing that the older kids are drinking, but then their

968
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,520
siblings come around with their friends hanging out with them.

969
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,720
Like, don't they, they must know that those kids must be, of course, drinking too.

970
00:37:04,720 --> 00:37:05,720
I don't know.

971
00:37:05,720 --> 00:37:08,920
It just seems like I know what a liability.

972
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:14,800
I know my kids go to a party at one kid's house that's first year of college.

973
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,280
And there's a whole, it's a guest house situation.

974
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,880
They're not allowed in the main house.

975
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:23,040
But every time they go there, there's, they say there's tons of booze.

976
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:24,040
That's so weird.

977
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,640
And this girl's probably 18 or 19.

978
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,640
Yeah.

979
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:28,640
Yeah, it is.

980
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,720
I mean, it's weird, but like, how did we get it when we were that age?

981
00:37:32,720 --> 00:37:36,040
Well, I go to Valley Ho liquor store.

982
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:41,920
It used to go Valley Ho liquor store.

983
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:48,400
It was like on Balboa and Van Owen and, and we would just, yeah, we, well, for, and

984
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:53,520
also Dawn, my girlfriend, Dawn looked a lot older and she had a fake ID.

985
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,320
So there was us with the fake IDs or we would just go and go, hey, can you get us some

986
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,600
booze to some, some guy walking in?

987
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:05,160
And then we get, we get our, our drinks that way.

988
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,840
But also didn't you go to keg parties?

989
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,560
Because I went to keg parties all the time.

990
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:14,200
And I don't know it, there had to have been some parents involved in like getting that

991
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:15,360
keg delivered.

992
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:20,000
Because you'd get they'd get a keg, it would be on the back of a pickup truck.

993
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:24,600
You drive into the woods, they'd set up the keg and then we'd all be there with our red

994
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:25,600
solo cups.

995
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:26,600
Yeah.

996
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,400
Getting hammered.

997
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,400
Keg parties.

998
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:33,640
I can't, I think they came along later after I was 21.

999
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,800
I mean, we did definitely have parties with kegs.

1000
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:42,120
But as kids, my friends, I don't remember them having kegs.

1001
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,280
Oh, that was my whole high school.

1002
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,040
Ninth grade, ninth, 10th, 11th, 12th.

1003
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:53,240
Well, when I lived in Spokane, Washington, that's all we, that's every weekend and we called

1004
00:38:53,240 --> 00:38:54,600
it choir practice.

1005
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:55,920
And it was there was a park.

1006
00:38:55,920 --> 00:39:01,000
There was upper Manitou Park and lower Manitou, but there was also woods.

1007
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:05,800
You would drive off some road and it would literally be like, you'd be in the woods and you'd

1008
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,640
find that party off some road.

1009
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,840
And then they, and there would be like, I see.

1010
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,560
A hundred kids hanging out.

1011
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:14,560
Right, right.

1012
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,560
Yeah, we didn't have, we didn't have the woods.

1013
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,640
We had a school parking lot that was staying out in.

1014
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:25,360
But that was just my little group of friends too.

1015
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:26,360
Yeah.

1016
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:32,200
Like high school because I was my, my parents never let me like, like they did not want me

1017
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,920
spending the night out at houses and stuff.

1018
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:39,560
And then finally, like when my mom and dad got divorced, then I was like, well, fuck this

1019
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:43,560
shit.

1020
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:44,560
I'm going to do what I want to do.

1021
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,560
But when I was in junior high, I had to come home all the time.

1022
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,560
I wasn't allowed to go out very often.

1023
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:53,560
I wasn't even allowed to go with the next door neighbor that was going camping with, you know,

1024
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,880
with the kids in the neighborhood.

1025
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,400
They just wouldn't let me go anywhere.

1026
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,600
But then I got, when I was in high school, I was like, fuck this shit.

1027
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:05,040
And then I went to high school all the way across town from where I grew up.

1028
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,040
Right.

1029
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:11,880
And, you know, and then I would just end up sleeping there all the time, you know, but near

1030
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:12,880
me, huh?

1031
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:13,880
Yeah, yeah.

1032
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:14,880
Near where I was.

1033
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:15,880
Yeah.

1034
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:16,880
Yeah.

1035
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,880
Because you go to people's houses that lived closer to where like your school, right?

1036
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:20,880
Right.

1037
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:21,880
Right.

1038
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:22,880
Right.

1039
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:23,880
Right.

1040
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:24,880
Right.

1041
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:24,880
Yeah.

1042
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:25,880
Yes.

1043
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:26,880
That's where I would hang out.

1044
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,880
My friend Pam, who was a no getter.

1045
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:28,880
That's my mom's called her.

1046
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,880
And she lived in the house.

1047
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:34,960
She lived right off of Balbo and what a, I don't know.

1048
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:36,480
And she didn't see no avenue.

1049
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:41,520
But anyway, she lived right there and then I would go and spend the whole weekend.

1050
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,040
And then I wouldn't even want to come home on Sunday night.

1051
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:48,160
I would spend the whole week there going to school with her, walking to school and coming

1052
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,160
home.

1053
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,120
I was, I was the, I was the mobile muffin at Pam's house.

1054
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:53,120
Right.

1055
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,080
Now that I think about it, right?

1056
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:59,240
You know, as her, her mom was feeding, feeding me.

1057
00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,240
Oh, yeah.

1058
00:41:00,240 --> 00:41:03,000
I was the mobile muffin at my friend Michele's house.

1059
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,000
Yeah.

1060
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:09,760
And then I'm like, how did I get money to eat lunch during the day?

1061
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,840
I can't remember how that came about.

1062
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,000
Like, if I never went, I remember my dad would give me lunch money the night before.

1063
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,600
But if I was at Pam's house, how was I eating lunch?

1064
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:20,600
I don't remember.

1065
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:21,880
She was probably feeding you.

1066
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:22,880
Yeah.

1067
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,120
I guess I wouldn't eat at school.

1068
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,280
I wouldn't have money for school.

1069
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:32,440
I mean, I didn't, I didn't really have money either, but somehow I remember oftentimes

1070
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,520
going to McDonald's and being only able to afford like split fries.

1071
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:37,520
Yes.

1072
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,800
Someone like scrounging up like $2.

1073
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,840
I don't know, maybe babysitting.

1074
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:42,840
Yeah.

1075
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,720
Yeah, there was some McDonald's across the street from our, from our school.

1076
00:41:46,720 --> 00:41:51,000
And we would, I would like save up money to get the McRib.

1077
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,520
And then me and my friend, Omely, would like, Wednesday is going to be McRib Day.

1078
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,440
We loved the McRib.

1079
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,200
And then we would split fries because we couldn't eat you forward.

1080
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,600
And then we would go across the street and get the McRib and then we would hide because

1081
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:05,600
people would mooch.

1082
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,400
They go, whatever, you walked on campus with McDonald's.

1083
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:09,960
Oh, you're a fucked.

1084
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,000
They're knocking the shit out of your hand.

1085
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,320
They're spitting in it so they can eat it.

1086
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:15,960
They're grabbing it out of your hand.

1087
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:21,800
Guys were so mean like, yeah, there was assholes like you had McDonald, you had to go hide.

1088
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:27,160
And we had every Wednesday during McRib season and have the McRib.

1089
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:28,160
Yeah.

1090
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:29,160
Haven't had it since.

1091
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,160
Funny, our kids are so spoiled now.

1092
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:36,480
I would come meet Zander after school if he was staying after school for some activity.

1093
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,160
And he'd be like, can you bring me something to eat?

1094
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,480
And it was his Starbucks order.

1095
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,080
I had to go drive through Starbucks.

1096
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:44,080
You know.

1097
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:45,080
Yes, you do the thing.

1098
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,080
I know.

1099
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:47,320
Okay, what do you want Jersey mics?

1100
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:53,160
Okay, so you know, you roll up with like his mocha, whatever, whipped cream on it and

1101
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,960
his spinach sandwich or whatever.

1102
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:56,960
Yeah.

1103
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:57,960
Kids are like, damn.

1104
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,960
I know, right?

1105
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:04,800
Other kids are like, I ball in you with that.

1106
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:05,800
Yes.

1107
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:06,800
So that's Starbucks.

1108
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:07,800
Yeah.

1109
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:08,800
Damn.

1110
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:09,800
All right.

1111
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:17,800
Well, before we wrap up, like we should mention the fact that yes, I fucking know that Karen

1112
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,800
Reed is innocent.

1113
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:20,800
All right.

1114
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:21,800
Let it go.

1115
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:22,800
No.

1116
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,880
Look, listen, were the cops very corrupt?

1117
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:27,880
Yes.

1118
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,160
Everything weird went down.

1119
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:34,720
Do I still think that she hit John O'Keefe?

1120
00:43:34,720 --> 00:43:37,120
Yes, she 100% did.

1121
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:41,440
Would I, if I was in the jury, be able to like find her guilty of like killing him?

1122
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,200
No, I'm sure I would not have been able to.

1123
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:51,040
But even the, I've read some quotes from some of the jurors and they have said that, yeah,

1124
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:54,760
she probably, she probably did clip him, but they don't believe that she killed him.

1125
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:56,080
And there's too many holes.

1126
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,080
Oh, really?

1127
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:58,080
Yeah.

1128
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:03,560
The only juror, I only saw one juror, I think I saw two, I saw one on TMZ who didn't talk

1129
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:04,560
very much.

1130
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:10,000
Kind of gave like one, you know, like a very quick answers.

1131
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:16,120
But then I saw the same girl that was on a lot and she was like got like her, she was studying

1132
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:21,960
to be an attorney in Brazil and she doesn't think that she was hit.

1133
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:26,560
But then she did say that there was other people in the jury room that did initially think

1134
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:27,560
that.

1135
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:31,120
And then they had, but they had to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt.

1136
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:32,120
Yeah.

1137
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:33,120
And that was the problem.

1138
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,800
Um, so what do you think about P Diddy?

1139
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,600
If you're going to go free?

1140
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,240
Oh my God.

1141
00:44:39,240 --> 00:44:43,800
I hope not, but no, him, I don't want going free.

1142
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:49,880
But I heard that the case might be over by the end of this week at TMZ.

1143
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,760
I watch Harvey Levin to his wrap up right every day almost.

1144
00:44:53,760 --> 00:45:01,320
And he said on Friday that they think that by mid week, the defense could rest and then

1145
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,800
that it could be in the hands of the jury by the end of this week.

1146
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:11,760
I'm just worried because I've been down there like every day with my free P sign.

1147
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,400
And like is it going to be all for not?

1148
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:20,120
Like, if they find him guilty, there's a lot of those people at the courthouse.

1149
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,120
There are.

1150
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:22,120
Yeah.

1151
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:23,120
Oh yeah.

1152
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:29,840
There's a lot of free, diddy, free P.

1153
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,320
They, um, yeah, no, I don't know.

1154
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:33,120
I, there's a thing.

1155
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:40,520
I think that they, I think they have them on transportation across state lines, that charge.

1156
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:44,360
But the, the real charge is going to put them away for a long time.

1157
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,920
Is the racketeering, I think, right?

1158
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:47,400
The Rico charges.

1159
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:48,400
Yes.

1160
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,400
Yes.

1161
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:50,400
And I, it is.

1162
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:51,400
It's kind of a toss up.

1163
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:57,000
I see these analysts on the news talking about it, but it's kind of a toss up because the

1164
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:03,880
defense had done a pretty good job in saying like a lot of these people, you know, saying a

1165
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:11,200
lot of their, his girlfriends, not just Cassidy, but the other girls that testified that said,

1166
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:17,080
basically like, you know, we, we, we said we would go along with it because we loved

1167
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,080
him.

1168
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:23,400
And this one girl that wasn't Cassidy, she was, she was like, Jane, though, whatever.

1169
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:29,640
She, her testimony was so sad because this was like, she met, she met him and he loved

1170
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:35,480
Bomter and he thought that she was going to be P did these only girlfriend, even though

1171
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,240
he said like, you know, I, I don't have one girlfriend.

1172
00:46:39,240 --> 00:46:40,240
I have multiple girlfriends.

1173
00:46:40,240 --> 00:46:41,240
Right.

1174
00:46:41,240 --> 00:46:44,680
And it wasn't Jane friends with his other girlfriend.

1175
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,280
I think, yes.

1176
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:51,240
Like, there was so like testimony saying like he says, Oh, we're going to go to Miami or

1177
00:46:51,240 --> 00:46:55,160
we're, we're going to go on vacation and it's just going to be the two of us.

1178
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:56,240
And she was excited.

1179
00:46:56,240 --> 00:46:57,800
And then she'd get there.

1180
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:01,480
And then he'd be like, you know, down for a freak off tonight.

1181
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,320
And she'd be like, well, what the fuck, P?

1182
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,120
I thought it was just going to be me and you.

1183
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:10,880
Now, it's me, you and the punisher, you know, like, you know, it's sad.

1184
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:15,080
Like, you know, so there was a lot of like wishing and hoping that they were going to

1185
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,720
be together if they would just do the freak out.

1186
00:47:17,720 --> 00:47:21,440
If so there's a lot of text messages going, yeah, I loved it.

1187
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:22,440
I loved it.

1188
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:23,440
No girl loves a freak off.

1189
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,360
I'm telling you that right now.

1190
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:29,240
You know, so I hope there's more women on that juror than there are men because, you know,

1191
00:47:29,240 --> 00:47:32,880
especially with the UTI and stuff that testimony about with Cassidy.

1192
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:36,320
Ain't no woman loves a freak off.

1193
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:37,320
Okay.

1194
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:41,280
The more you know, yeah.

1195
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,720
No, sounds very, very painful.

1196
00:47:43,720 --> 00:47:44,720
Yeah.

1197
00:47:44,720 --> 00:47:51,720
So the thing is is I don't know if they're going to be able to really close that loop and showing

1198
00:47:51,720 --> 00:47:59,040
that there was coercion, there was, you know, um, bribing and, you know, like threatening

1199
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:03,760
that they're going to, but, but there has to be also that there was other minions working

1200
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,360
for him that we're doing this on his behalf.

1201
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:07,360
Blah, blah, blah.

1202
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,360
So I don't know if they have that, that, that yet.

1203
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,440
And the defense really doesn't have to do much, but just poke holes.

1204
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:18,400
So that's why they think they're thinking the defense is not going to go on for weeks,

1205
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:23,520
calling witnesses because, hey, they probably don't have a lot of witnesses to call, but

1206
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:28,600
b, all they have to do is just poke holes and be like, well, you have a message saying,

1207
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,360
you love your freak offs with him, you know?

1208
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:32,360
Right.

1209
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,600
So I don't know.

1210
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,200
I don't know what's going to happen.

1211
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:41,800
I just, I found that like the thing with, with Cassidy's mom, did you hear about that?

1212
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:49,720
Like him telling her, you know, like one of Cassidy's friends called her mother and said,

1213
00:48:49,720 --> 00:48:51,160
you got to help your daughter.

1214
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:52,800
She's getting beaten.

1215
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:58,080
She's getting, you know, you know, um, threatened by deep, diddy with these tapes.

1216
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,760
And so the mom was like, I guess then he found that out.

1217
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:08,720
And then I think he like, ride the mom 20 grand, like you need to pay me 20 grand just to

1218
00:49:08,720 --> 00:49:14,600
show he's got power over her because she did, she had to like, you know, get a lender, get

1219
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,960
the 20 grand, she had to pay it in him.

1220
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,840
And then he paid it back because 20 grand a p to do is nothing.

1221
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,680
So he only did it just to show power and like, I have control.

1222
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,480
Look, I have control of this situation.

1223
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:32,480
So if they could show more of like that kind of stuff, that I think would help, I don't

1224
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,320
know, but they rusted, right?

1225
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,440
Yeah, they didn't ask me to help.

1226
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,600
So I, why did they not ask?

1227
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:39,600
I don't know.

1228
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:40,920
I was, I heard our show.

1229
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,440
I know, I know.

1230
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:46,960
I mean, they could have like, ten, he could have put in a good word for me.

1231
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:47,960
Ten, he garragos.

1232
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:48,960
Yeah.

1233
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,960
We're neighbors.

1234
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,160
Yeah, I don't know.

1235
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,960
I was waiting.

1236
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,840
Um, have you watched anything good?

1237
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,000
Hmm, because I'm looking for something to watch.

1238
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,360
I heard there's some new documentary, but I can't remember what it's called or what it's

1239
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:06,360
about.

1240
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:07,360
So that's not going to help you.

1241
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:08,360
Did you watch the Titan stuff?

1242
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:09,600
I haven't watched it yet.

1243
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,480
I brought it up to John and he was like, that sounds really depressing.

1244
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,320
And I was like, yeah.

1245
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,840
And I know he won't want to watch the, what is it?

1246
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:18,840
Gilligo, Gilgoth.

1247
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:19,840
No, no, yeah.

1248
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:20,840
Yeah.

1249
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:21,840
Yeah.

1250
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:22,840
There's serial.

1251
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:25,760
The Ohio State documentary.

1252
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:26,760
That's okay.

1253
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:27,760
That's so funny.

1254
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:28,760
I watched it last night.

1255
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,480
It's not hilarious that you brought it up, but these people that I was talking to at the

1256
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,520
party at Ronnie's house said they watched it.

1257
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:40,680
The problem was they were like the guy who was telling me there's a couple was like, yeah,

1258
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,280
I totally cried.

1259
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:43,920
It was really sad.

1260
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,680
It was really heartbreaking.

1261
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:52,720
And they really never got any, I don't think got justice for it.

1262
00:50:52,720 --> 00:50:53,720
Spoiler alert.

1263
00:50:53,720 --> 00:50:55,240
Well, I don't know.

1264
00:50:55,240 --> 00:50:57,680
I mean, you got to watch it.

1265
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:04,080
But like, the thing is is that they, it took a lot for these boys to come for, well, they're

1266
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:07,520
men to come forward about what happened.

1267
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,280
And a lot of it happened on the wrestling team.

1268
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,160
And then what happened was is like, and I'm not going to spoil it, but there's one thing

1269
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:18,280
like people are like, oh, yeah, are you trying to tell me an Ohio State wrestler?

1270
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:24,760
You know, couldn't, couldn't stop this old man from the last, well, you got to watch it.

1271
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,720
But like, you know, so it is a sad story.

1272
00:51:28,720 --> 00:51:30,240
That's depressing.

1273
00:51:30,240 --> 00:51:35,600
The Titan was kind of depressing, but it was more like this guy got away with literally

1274
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:36,600
murder.

1275
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:37,600
Yeah.

1276
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:44,920
But, but yeah, the, the Ohio, the Ohio doc, it's on HBO Max.

1277
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:45,920
Yeah.

1278
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:47,520
And it's called, I don't know.

1279
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:49,960
I'm not going to be with Ohio State University.

1280
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:50,960
Yeah.

1281
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,760
I need something like fun to watch the cheerleaders, the cowboy cheerleaders.

1282
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:56,760
That's back, right?

1283
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:57,760
Yeah.

1284
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,600
I haven't watched it yet.

1285
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:01,360
But that I think would be fun.

1286
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:02,360
Yeah.

1287
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,360
You know what's funny is our friend, our friend Mark Wahlberg.

1288
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:07,360
Yes.

1289
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,240
With no age in his last name.

1290
00:52:11,240 --> 00:52:17,120
My kids were super impressed that because, okay, so Mark Wahlberg was at Patrick Kikies,

1291
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:21,440
the party Lynette and I went two, two days ago.

1292
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:25,360
And my kids were like, your friends with the host of Temptation Island?

1293
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:26,360
Oh.

1294
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:27,720
And I was like, yeah.

1295
00:52:27,720 --> 00:52:31,600
And then Elby got super impressed that she was happy.

1296
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,840
She had a whole conversation with him and he was being like, really sweet to Elby.

1297
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:35,840
Oh.

1298
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:40,200
And told Elby she could come on his bonfire podcast and talk about like guy problems.

1299
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:41,200
Yeah.

1300
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:42,200
Whatever.

1301
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:43,200
But she was like, my God.

1302
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,200
It's the host of Temptation Island.

1303
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,080
And then Xander was like, Mom.

1304
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,360
How come you never told me that?

1305
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:49,360
And I was like, I don't know.

1306
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,040
He's like, it's like one of the biggest shows on Netflix right now.

1307
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:53,040
Yeah.

1308
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,040
Yes.

1309
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:55,040
I know.

1310
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,160
And then Suzanne sitting there and she's like, who's that?

1311
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:58,640
I go, Mark Wahlberg.

1312
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:05,040
Like, Mark Wahlberg, I go, this poor guy, if I have to go through it, what a match and he

1313
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:06,040
goes through.

1314
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:07,040
And that's that.

1315
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:08,040
I go, did you watch Temptation?

1316
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:09,040
No.

1317
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,040
Okay.

1318
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,040
Never mind then.

1319
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:12,040
Yeah.

1320
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:13,040
Did you watch Antique's Road Show?

1321
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,040
No.

1322
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:15,040
No.

1323
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:16,040
I don't.

1324
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:22,640
I thought a few episodes, well, the Mark Wahlberg show and syndication from like 1998 and see

1325
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:23,640
it.

1326
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,640
I know.

1327
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:25,640
I feel so bad for him.

1328
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:26,640
I know.

1329
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:32,440
I told you when at the poker thing that I went to what and like, he's just like, this is

1330
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:33,440
just my life.

1331
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:34,440
He goes, it's so bad.

1332
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:36,800
I was like, have you ever thought maybe you should just change your name?

1333
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:38,800
He's like, well, it's too late for that now.

1334
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:39,800
No.

1335
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:40,800
No.

1336
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:41,800
It is too late.

1337
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,320
He's like, I've been in the business a long time.

1338
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:45,320
Yeah.

1339
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,200
I've got the other one changes name.

1340
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:48,200
I know.

1341
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,040
How about he get as a middle initial?

1342
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:52,040
I know.

1343
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,920
He's kind of an asshole too, the other one.

1344
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:54,920
Yeah.

1345
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:55,920
I'll go ahead.

1346
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:57,080
It's called him Marky Mark.

1347
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:58,080
How about that?

1348
00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,280
Which I feel like they do.

1349
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:00,280
Yeah.

1350
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:01,280
Yeah.

1351
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,360
But still, there's no getting over Mark Wahlberg.

1352
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:04,360
Yeah.

1353
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:06,320
Anyway, this has been super fun.

1354
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:10,720
And we again did not say hi to our fabulous people yet.

1355
00:54:10,720 --> 00:54:12,200
Not yet, but we got Ashley.

1356
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,000
She's so chic and Stephanie is a stinker.

1357
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,760
Athena is a great dancer.

1358
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,040
Sandra is green around the gills.

1359
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:20,520
Jennifer fell.

1360
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,120
Erin is a dirty Sanchez.

1361
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:23,680
Leslie is still coughing.

1362
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:24,680
Alicia.

1363
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:25,680
Escalante.

1364
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,840
From the city of El Monte.

1365
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:31,440
Kelly Brandt is going to guess up her van and take you.

1366
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:32,440
Yeah.

1367
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:33,440
She's going to put a diaper on.

1368
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,480
We just, we should just escalate that.

1369
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,240
Rebecca Lubin is she going to put her in my pocket.

1370
00:54:39,240 --> 00:54:40,240
Esha on Vajpe.

1371
00:54:40,240 --> 00:54:41,240
Oh, hi.

1372
00:54:41,240 --> 00:54:44,200
I'm going to ask you what?

1373
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,800
Missy and Gabby up to no good as always.

1374
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:48,800
Katarina.

1375
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,240
Girl, please get to the dentist.

1376
00:54:51,240 --> 00:54:53,200
Valerie Bubba Finwick.

1377
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:54,560
Paulie, we love your pancakes.

1378
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:58,920
Rita's rocking that bass yet with all the Elizabeth Williams since 25 kids.

1379
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:00,400
Nikki call your girl Kelly.

1380
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,920
Lani, Dick is probably king.

1381
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,840
And only one more.

1382
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:07,920
We got Adam.

1383
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:09,800
Adam Learner will get you a car.

1384
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:10,800
Got me a car.

1385
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:12,000
But Adam's got a car.

1386
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:16,880
And also our friend Kelsey is Furn candle is her business.

1387
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,360
And she's going to get you a candle.

1388
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:19,360
Michelle five.

1389
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:20,360
They smell delicious.

1390
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,360
They smell delicious.

1391
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:26,240
And they last a long time because of the soy wax, which is better for the environment.

1392
00:55:26,240 --> 00:55:29,840
They just make a really fabulous gift.

1393
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,040
You could get it with a whole kit for somebody.

1394
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,960
If you were doing like a housewarming, you could do like a little wit cutter.

1395
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:35,960
Yeah.

1396
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:36,960
Little gold wit cutter.

1397
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:37,960
And it's you.

1398
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:38,960
Yeah, it's really nice.

1399
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:40,960
And it's like Furn candle.com.

1400
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:41,960
All right.

1401
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:49,120
Guys, listen to drunkish because this week's episode, which I forgot to promote on Tuesday,

1402
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:54,400
is a friend of mine who was on our podcast a long time ago named Kathleen Wilhoid.

1403
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:59,560
She's an actress and she's going to be in the Murdoff murders when they're doing the

1404
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:00,560
hulu.

1405
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:01,560
Oh, documentary.

1406
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:02,560
A couple episodes.

1407
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:03,560
Really for that.

1408
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:04,560
Yeah.

1409
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:05,560
In October.

1410
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:06,560
Anyway, she's in that.

1411
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:07,560
And she's an actress.

1412
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:08,560
And she's a singer.

1413
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,520
She came to our show and she's saying a song for us and she's amazing.

1414
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:13,000
I love her.

1415
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,400
And she has, it might be my best episode.

1416
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:17,400
Oh, really?

1417
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:18,400
I'm drunkish.

1418
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:19,400
Oh, my gosh.

1419
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:20,400
So that's this week.

1420
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:21,400
So go check it out.

1421
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:22,400
Okay.

1422
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:23,400
All right.

1423
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:24,400
All right.

1424
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:25,400
You're a parent now.

1425
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:26,400
Don't eff it up.

1426
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:27,400
It's good.

1427
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,400
I'm a day letting go.

1428
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,980
(upbeat music)

1429
00:56:32,980 --> 00:56:35,640
(upbeat music)