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♪ Made a decision on me ♪

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♪ I'll face the sunny sun ♪

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♪ And on a head of vision ♪

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♪ What is life be like? ♪

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- Hey, Ray, what's happening?

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I hope everybody had a good Labor Day weekend.

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- Oh my gosh.

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I, well, we could tell people the truth.

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- Yeah, we're recording on Sunday evening.

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And the reason why is because,

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oh, oh my, I'm Jumom's.

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One of my Jumom's is having a party for Labor Day.

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And I believe that I couldn't go last,

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or we recorded in the morning,

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and then I had to go really late.

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So I was just like, you know what?

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- Yeah. - What if we recorded,

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'cause we don't have Kaelin to tell us

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boss us around?

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- Right.

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- I was like, "We're gonna do whatever the fuck we want."

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- That's right.

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- So we decided we were gonna record on a Sunday night.

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- Yeah, so we're here.

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- Labor Day Eve.

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- Labor Day Eve in Patrick is having a little party

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for the kids outside.

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They're running around.

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- No, you know what they're doing?

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They're having swim lessons.

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- Oh, is that what's going on?

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- So he hired a swim teacher.

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This is our Patrick.

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And all of these families, he said there's 12 kids

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where are coming staggered times and doing a swim lesson.

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- Oh.

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- And it went from like a 1030 to like five.

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- Wow.

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It's been going all day.

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- Yeah, water safety, man.

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That's so nice of him.

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- I know.

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- That's smart.

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Patrick loves to entertain him and his wife, Shuri.

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They are entertainers.

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- They really do love it.

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- They do.

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- Yeah, so if you hear little kids in the background.

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So happy birthday.

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It was just your birthday.

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- Thank you.

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(laughing)

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- If you listen to our page, we just made,

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I just had a breakthrough on Patreon

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and realized why I resent having to like,

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to celebrate people's birthdays, my birthday,

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but that is that aside.

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I hope you had an amazing birthday.

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What'd you do?

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- Okay, so yeah, I mean, it's just,

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I forget sometimes it's my birthday, you know, whatever.

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But so Natalia, tech, so we moved her in last weekend

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and then my birthday was on a Tuesday.

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So she that weekend, she was like,

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oh, you know, your birthday's coming up.

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What are you gonna do?

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And I was like, I don't know.

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I haven't really thought about it.

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And she's like, why don't you drive up on Tuesday

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and we'll have dinner, you know?

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And I was like, okay, she's like dinner on me

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'cause she made a little cheddar over the summer break.

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- Oh yeah!

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- Yeah, she had a job.

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So she's like, dinner on me.

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Yeah.

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So I was like, okay.

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And then of course she's like, do you want to invite

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like all my roommates or,

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I don't like, just let's bring, you know,

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her best friend, her one roommate that she's close with,

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like, you know, Shelley.

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Well, just bring her, you know,

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so the three of us, 'cause I really like her.

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She's been in my house a lot this summer.

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She's really sweet, blah, blah, blah.

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She's like, okay, cool, cool, cool.

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- Did you say as long as your friend gets me a gift?

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Like, what you gonna get me?

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- No, no, no.

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So I registered on Amazon.

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- Right, right.

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- For you, Gels.

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- Yeah, no, that's not, I'm not like that.

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- That's not how you roll.

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- No, no, no.

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But, okay, so then Tuesday, okay, so Tuesday comes Tuesday morning,

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and you inspired me to go to the gym more,

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so I've been going to the YMCA,

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but I can't fucking take this, do a treadmill,

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takes forever.

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It's like, you're in my brain going,

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oh my God, it's only been eight minutes.

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(laughs)

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And then it goes to cool down and like,

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fuck you and you're cool down.

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I'm out.

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- Yeah, exactly, cool down in the parking lot.

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- I've got some good, my new trick is watching a show.

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You gotta get like a Netflix stupid show

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that you can watch. - And then you just stick it

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on the thing in front of you.

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- That's a good idea.

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- You just watch TV.

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- That's a good idea.

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- Yeah.

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I was watching my daily dose of Donna podcast.

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- You were watching it or listening?

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- Yeah, it's on YouTube.

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'Cause she shows like pictures and videos and stuff.

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- Got it. - Anyway, okay, so,

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so I came back from the gym and sunny,

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I go, "Sunny, why don't you come with us?

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"I'm going to have dinner."

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I think I mentioned to him the day before,

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like on text and he was like, "Yeah, maybe."

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And then so anyway, I said,

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- Maybe.

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- Yeah, he was like, "Maybe."

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- You were like for my birthday.

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- I didn't say that.

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I just said, "I'm going to have dinner with Natalia tomorrow night."

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So then I see him and I said, "Why don't you come with me

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"to have dinner with Natalia?"

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And he's like, "Oh."

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- Is this on your birthday?

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- On my birthday. - Yeah.

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And he goes, "Did he wish you had a holiday?"

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- Hold on, I'm getting my birthday.

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- Oh, I'm sorry, sorry.

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My brain is working too fast.

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- I know, 'cause it's later in the day,

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it's not like first thing Monday morning

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we're doing a podcast.

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- I know.

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- Yeah, so anyway.

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So I said, he said, "Well, I made plans

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"with my friends to play basketball at the high school."

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And I was like, "All right."

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And then I go, I go, "I said,

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"Why do you think I'm having dinner with Natalia?"

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And he goes, "I don't know,

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"'cause she wants you to have dinner with her."

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And I go, "Do you have anything to say to me today?"

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And he goes, "Then he thinks he's in trouble."

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And he's like, "No, why?"

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And I go, "Nothing to say to me today."

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And he goes, "Today."

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And then he goes, "Oh, happy birthday."

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- Oh no, that's how he said it?

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Yes.

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It's okay 'cause Sonny's whatever, Sonny's sunny.

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You know.

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- I know, but you do a lot for Sonny.

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- I know, okay, so I'll bring him back.

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I'll circle back to him.

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So then, okay, so I drive out there two hours.

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- So that didn't change his mind though?

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- The recollection that it's your birthday.

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He wasn't like, "Shit, I can cancel basketball."

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- Right, yeah.

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- No, and it was fine.

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I actually wanted to go to dinner with just Natalia

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- Yeah, just the girls.

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So, two hour drive out there, I get there, you know, 6'30.

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Her friends, her guy friends that she's been friends with,

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she's been close with, were there.

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All her roommates were there.

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They got me flowers and cupcakes.

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And her guy friends were like,

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"You know, I just wanted to come by and say happy birthday

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to you and give me a hug."

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And like, it was so sweet.

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I mean, it was the best night I've had in a long time.

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So that is how I kicked off.

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- We know.

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- You took the girls.

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- I know, right?

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Leave it to the daughters, yeah.

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So, and then I go, "Well, you guys wanna come to dinner?"

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- Yeah, I'm not paying for all that.

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And they're like, "Now, you know, we're studying."

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"You guys just go have fun, whatever."

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I love cupcakes when you get back.

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So, okay, so I get an Italian car

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and she's immediately playing Bruce Springsteen.

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- No!

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- I know, I know.

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And you know, I always told her that like,

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when I would play Springsteen for them when they were little,

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that I said, "One day, I just want you guys

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when you're older, that you're like out in the world

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and maybe you're somewhere together

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and you hear Springsteen song

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and you guys just look at each other and think of mom."

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Like, that's my dream, whatever.

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So she knows, anyway, so, so, okay, so I get in the car.

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It's like a 15 minute drive to a really nice Italian restaurant

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and she's never been there.

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And we sat outside, the weather was beautiful.

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It was so nice, it wasn't cold or hot.

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And she's like, you know, order up, you know, whatever.

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And she's like, "It's on me.

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We had a great dinner.

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You know, I got all the scoop on her roommates

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and how they are and like, what they're studying

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and like, she's learning so much from all these other people

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that she's living with.

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Like, she said, "We sat on the beach one night

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for five hours without our phone."

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Talking about one of her roommates is studying political science.

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they talked about politics and they were like,

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just everybody was like giving, you know,

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talking, sharing ideas and whatever.

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And then they all go surfing now, like,

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at the same time in the evenings and she's,

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mom, I just love it out here.

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It's great.

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My roommates are like so interesting and so, you know,

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like, she's learning a lot from them.

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And these are new girls that she's living with.

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And they're really sweet, you know.

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So I got like all the tea at dinner and it was really nice.

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And then she surprised me with like, they sang Happy Birthday.

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They brought their little cake out and she paid for dinner.

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And then like, we get in the car.

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- Yeah, for dinner for both of you guys.

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- Yeah, all three of you?

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- All three of us, she paid.

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- Aww.

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- Yeah, she got money, she should.

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So, and then like got back in the car

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and then she played Thunder Road,

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which is my favorite Bruce Springsteen song.

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And she knows that.

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And we were like holding hands and she had the sunroof,

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and I was singing and I took video of it.

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And we were like singing and she's like singing to me

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and she's holding my hand and she, you know,

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all the words to all the songs and then she's,

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and then her friends in the backseat going,

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"Oh my God, this is a great song."

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And then she's like, "Oh, wait, let me play you another song."

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She's playing all the deep cuts that I love, you know.

262
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It was such a like a magical night.

263
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It was so awesome.

264
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And it's like, I know Natalia loves me,

265
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but she's not really like, lovey-dovey like that.

266
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She was just so sweet and so kind and it's like,

267
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"Mom, I'm so grateful for everything you deserve it."

268
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You know, and then she's telling me to tell stories about us,

269
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like, you know, to her friend, like about me.

270
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She's like, "Imitate your mom to, you know, her friend."

271
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And so it was just such a touching evening, you know?

272
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And then got back to her house and then they sang "Happy Birthday"

273
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again to me and they got the cupcakes and, you know, whatever.

274
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And then, yeah, and then I hit the road and I was like,

275
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you know, I got home at like 1130.

276
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It was just such a great, great evening.

277
00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:06,200
Oh, so then I get home and Sonny was like, I cleaned up,

278
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like I did the dishes, I vacuumed, I took to trash out.

279
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Happy birthday, baby.

280
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Happy birthday, mom.

281
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And the next morning.

282
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One time for the birthday.

283
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Right.

284
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Right.

285
00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,520
And then the next morning, so then the next day he gets up,

286
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he goes to work and then I talk to Natalia the next day

287
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and she goes, "Did Sonny do anything for your birthday?"

288
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When you got home and I go, yeah, he cleaned the house

289
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and she goes, that's it because she texted him.

290
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And she was like, you better do something for mom.

291
00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,960
So then he goes to work, he comes home but he makes a pit stop

292
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at the Italian deli and he bought all the Italian meats I like

293
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and the cheese and the bread and he came into the Italian cookies

294
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and he came home.

295
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He's like, "Happy Birthday, mom."

296
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So that was my...

297
00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,320
Oh, hey, that's cute.

298
00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:49,320
Yeah.

299
00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,320
That was my one day late.

300
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One day late.

301
00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:54,320
I know.

302
00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:55,320
Day late, a dollar short.

303
00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:56,320
Yeah.

304
00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:57,920
Sonny's not really sentimental that way.

305
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And then he's also the kid that's like,

306
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his birthday comes and goes and he's like,

307
00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,520
I'm like, what do you want for your birthday?

308
00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,320
One thing he's always like, I'm, you know, he's not,

309
00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,240
he's like you, he's not a big, yeah, celebrator.

310
00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:09,240
Yeah, yeah.

311
00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,200
So Natalia likes tradition.

312
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So...

313
00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:16,680
So funny because Sadie loves tradition too.

314
00:11:16,680 --> 00:11:18,280
Sadies are a sentimental girl.

315
00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:19,880
Yeah, like you're a certain planning.

316
00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:22,920
Who starts planning your birthday like weeks before

317
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and having secret meetings with the other two siblings

318
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and yeah, it's pretty cute.

319
00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,040
Yeah, that's nice.

320
00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:30,360
It's really cute.

321
00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,520
So I got one and one, you know, whatever.

322
00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:33,360
Yeah, it's fine.

323
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I'll be cooking care less.

324
00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:35,280
Right.

325
00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:36,280
They, yeah.

326
00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,320
And Natalia, well she used to be that way.

327
00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,720
She really, I mean, her friends used to have to tell her,

328
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like, today's your mom's birthday.

329
00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,440
And then I got texts from all her other friends,

330
00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,720
by the way, that they, we grew up with that night.

331
00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,760
They were like, happy birthday, Mrs. C.

332
00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,320
Miss you, like they're at school,

333
00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,400
like two of her friends at her gone to college,

334
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like text me.

335
00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:57,760
It was just really sweet.

336
00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:58,600
Yeah.

337
00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,920
It was a great, great birthday.

338
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And then, and then I went out to dinner with a friend.

339
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I can tell you that, should we,

340
00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:09,080
what time?

341
00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,080
Well, time.

342
00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:10,600
We got time.

343
00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:11,600
Yeah.

344
00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,240
So that, well now, okay, so then Melissa and Suzanne,

345
00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,440
Melissa's like all over my birthday every year,

346
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all the time, Suzanne.

347
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And she's, like, we do our birthdays together,

348
00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:23,320
like the three of us,

349
00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,320
or will expand it to the ABC girls.

350
00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:30,680
Um, but are there birthdays near yours?

351
00:12:30,680 --> 00:12:31,680
No.

352
00:12:31,680 --> 00:12:34,200
So whenever it's their birthdays will like, you know,

353
00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:35,320
go out to dinner, whatever.

354
00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,480
And it doesn't have to be on the day, like,

355
00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,040
we just kind of, you know, celebrate.

356
00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,640
But Melissa this year, she was like,

357
00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:43,880
I think we should go somewhere and spend the night

358
00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,680
and she goes, I'll buy it, be a treat on me.

359
00:12:46,680 --> 00:12:49,360
And there's this like place, I can't even,

360
00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,280
it's like in the, not the palisade,

361
00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:52,560
but it's like Santa Monica,

362
00:12:52,560 --> 00:12:54,360
some hotel that has a spot.

363
00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,920
So basically, I just want to interrupt to say that

364
00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,800
I was asking for a favor on your birthday.

365
00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:01,640
Right.

366
00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:02,680
And you were like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna,

367
00:13:02,680 --> 00:13:05,360
as soon as I get where I'm going and I,

368
00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:06,440
okay, cool.

369
00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:07,920
I never said happy birthday.

370
00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:08,760
No, no, no.

371
00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,080
And I have to text her because she was at a town that day.

372
00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,480
Oh my God, that's not why I brought that up.

373
00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,880
I'm just saying, oh my God, I was like busy going like,

374
00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,840
hey, can you do something for me on your birthday?

375
00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,320
That's so, why was fine.

376
00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:23,600
No, I gotta do that because,

377
00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:27,280
but that day she was out of town with her family traveling.

378
00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,480
But now she's back.

379
00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:32,400
So now we're supposed to go to this weekend's like one night

380
00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,480
overnight, just the three of us at some hotel.

381
00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:36,520
Okay, it hasn't happened yet.

382
00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,360
Yeah, that's coming next this weekend.

383
00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:40,600
Oh, this weekend you're going?

384
00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:41,440
Coming up, yeah.

385
00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:42,280
Where are you going?

386
00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:43,120
Saturday.

387
00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:44,720
Some hotel like in Santa Monica,

388
00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,440
I can't think of the name of it.

389
00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,160
I'll tell you, maybe I shouldn't say on the air.

390
00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,400
Yeah, don't say on the air.

391
00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,200
I thought maybe you'd be going somewhere like,

392
00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:54,800
oh, hi, or you know,

393
00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:56,080
for the massages.

394
00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:59,840
We used to do it at this place when we were like years ago

395
00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:01,240
when we were like, had little kids,

396
00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,080
we would go like, just the girls for the day.

397
00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,480
Like go get massages and sit by the pool.

398
00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,160
But this time she wants to, both of them are like,

399
00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:10,000
we need to get away.

400
00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:13,520
We want to spend the night out and I was like, okay.

401
00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,240
When they want to get away from their husbands traveling,

402
00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:16,240
I don't know.

403
00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:17,080
Right.

404
00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,440
Yeah, so that's coming up.

405
00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:20,200
Yeah.

406
00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,280
And then I got a lot of shit coming up.

407
00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,400
Like I got family members coming to stay with me

408
00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,240
for like two weeks and different weeks,

409
00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:28,400
not at the same time.

410
00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:29,360
Right.

411
00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,600
And then is there a day in between?

412
00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:32,800
There's a week in between.

413
00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:33,560
Okay.

414
00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:37,040
It's like Anthony and his family are coming for a week.

415
00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,840
And then the two weeks later,

416
00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,680
his brother and his wife and the baby in Wendy are coming

417
00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:43,520
for a week.

418
00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:45,400
And then at the end of that week,

419
00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,160
we go to Florida for a week.

420
00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:49,640
That's in October.

421
00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:50,160
Wow.

422
00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:54,720
I'm in New Zealand, Wendy and I go, yeah.

423
00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,320
So yeah, I got a lot of stuff coming up.

424
00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,320
That's good.

425
00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:58,320
Keep busy.

426
00:14:58,320 --> 00:14:59,320
Yeah.

427
00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:00,320
Yeah.

428
00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,880
And then I went out to dinner on Saturday night.

429
00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,520
Friend of mine took me out to dinner.

430
00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:05,520
Uh-huh.

431
00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:06,520
Guy friend.

432
00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:10,040
And we went to this place called Kaviar in Pasadena.

433
00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,040
Okay.

434
00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:12,520
And I know you like Kaviar.

435
00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:13,520
Love it.

436
00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:14,840
I do too.

437
00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,120
My friends never had Kaviar, but he picked the place.

438
00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:19,120
Okay.

439
00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:20,440
So he ordered the Kaviar.

440
00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:21,640
We had sushi Kaviar.

441
00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:23,720
They bring like this big thing and it like,

442
00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:28,440
like, with the smoke, you know, the, the ice, the dry ice,

443
00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:30,880
you know, they take the lid off, ding, you know,

444
00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:34,080
and then they have like the pearl spoons in the Kaviar.

445
00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:35,080
It was really good.

446
00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:36,080
It was really nice.

447
00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:37,080
But here's the weird thing.

448
00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:38,080
Okay.

449
00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:41,560
It's at this really swanky restaurant in Pasadena.

450
00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:48,080
And in the middle of dinner, this woman comes, like,

451
00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:50,240
dancing for us.

452
00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,480
Like, yeah, so it's a Japanese restaurant.

453
00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:57,080
This woman, she, beautiful figure, she's tall.

454
00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,680
She looks like a professional dancer, but she was dressed

455
00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:05,680
all in a unitarred, like, very, like, from her wrists

456
00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,800
all the way to her neck, all the way down to her ankles,

457
00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:10,840
just a unitarred.

458
00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:12,720
And it was like, kind of see through,

459
00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:14,720
but with like black lace over it.

460
00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,240
And she's just doing like, she looks like she should have had

461
00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,680
like wings on her, like a showgirl.

462
00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,200
And she had like showgirl makeup on.

463
00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,360
She was young and she was just walk, she came to our table

464
00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,880
and she's like looking at us and my guy friends,

465
00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,560
like, this is kind of weird and uncomfortable.

466
00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:30,920
Like, what are we supposed to do?

467
00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:33,760
And she's like, like, making icon and like standing in front

468
00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:35,360
and then she moves to the next table.

469
00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,600
And then she came back again and it was like for like an hour

470
00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,720
while we were eating dinner, she was just walking

471
00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:41,560
or so weird.

472
00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,000
Isn't that weird?

473
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,320
Remember when it was a thing where you'd go to dinner

474
00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,320
and somebody would come by with roses?

475
00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:49,320
- Yes.

476
00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:50,800
- I don't think that's a thing anymore.

477
00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,360
But remember, and then you'd always, it was always so awkward

478
00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:56,400
'cause you're like, you don't wanna be like stuck

479
00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,000
having to buy the rose, but if you're on the date with a guy

480
00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:00,560
and then the guy feels kind of pressured,

481
00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,560
like, do you want a rose?

482
00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,840
And then you'd be like, no, I don't know, I'm fine.

483
00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,840
- That was so popular for a long time.

484
00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:08,320
Yeah, that's gone now.

485
00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:09,560
And let's see that.

486
00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,520
I mean, like if you're like at a Mediterranean restaurant,

487
00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,880
like belly dancers might show up or whatever,

488
00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,760
but we're in a Japanese restaurant.

489
00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:18,720
- But sometimes at Mexican restaurants too,

490
00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,240
like the mariachi bands that we buy and they're like,

491
00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:23,560
"Duh, like you're playing in front of your face."

492
00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,240
And they're like, "Okay, cool.

493
00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:26,880
"Can't hear each other talk."

494
00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:27,720
- Right.

495
00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:28,560
- Yes.

496
00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:29,560
- And then you were like, do I tip a, like, do I?

497
00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,760
- That's what I was like, does she wanna tip or something?

498
00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,000
He's like, no, I don't think so.

499
00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,800
No, no.

500
00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:39,240
It was bizarre, but it was a great, it was a really nice dinner

501
00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,640
and then they brought me a cake with a big old sparkler

502
00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:42,800
and saying happy birthday.

503
00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,560
And then like walk, we walked around like old town.

504
00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:48,960
Old town Pasadena is kind of changed.

505
00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,520
It used to be like very packed with people.

506
00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:52,760
Now I don't know, maybe it's COVID,

507
00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:56,280
but it's like things closed down early and it's kind of empty.

508
00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:59,480
So we just like walked around and that was,

509
00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,560
that was Saturday night.

510
00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,000
So yeah, it's been nice.

511
00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,040
And then a lot of people have reached out.

512
00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,080
- That's so good.

513
00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:07,920
- Yeah.

514
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,680
I was just thinking that, do you remember like,

515
00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:15,680
'cause when I was in my 20s, mid 20s to into my 30s,

516
00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:21,240
I lived right next near the Santa Monica promenade.

517
00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:22,080
- Oh yeah.

518
00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,960
- And that place was so happen all the time,

519
00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:26,800
but I've heard it totally died.

520
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,120
- Yeah, it's weird.

521
00:18:28,120 --> 00:18:31,760
And the Santa Monica mall, I think is almost closing down,

522
00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:35,760
the outdoor mall, but that whole block used to be,

523
00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,640
I mean, we had so many favorite restaurants right there.

524
00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,560
- Yeah, I never went down to Santa Monica,

525
00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,320
but I just read though recently

526
00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,680
that they're letting people walk around with drinks

527
00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,080
in Santa Monica promenade.

528
00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,280
- Oh, they gotta do something.

529
00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,520
- I guess to bring people back.

530
00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,200
But yeah, a lot of like, yeah,

531
00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:55,040
old town pastini used to be like hop in people walking around,

532
00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,120
like restaurants and bars and stuff,

533
00:18:57,120 --> 00:19:01,600
but like, yeah, it was pretty dead, but it was fun.

534
00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,880
- When I was in my 20s, you know,

535
00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:06,960
and it was before I ever had a real job.

536
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,360
So I got my first real job.

537
00:19:09,360 --> 00:19:10,360
You know what?

538
00:19:10,360 --> 00:19:13,200
Let's do an add or two.

539
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:14,640
And I will tell you a story.

540
00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:15,720
- Yes. - So it's my youth.

541
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:16,560
- Yeah, girl.

542
00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,960
- So I was just gonna say that when I was,

543
00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:23,480
before I ever had my first job working on a TV show

544
00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:28,480
with Mark Wahlberg, it was the host of it.

545
00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,920
Before that, I waited tables at a lot of different restaurants.

546
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:34,560
And because I lived right by the promenade,

547
00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,400
I would just go to the promenade.

548
00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:37,800
I worked at Goucho Girl.

549
00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,800
- Oh, you still love Goucho Girl.

550
00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,120
- Yeah, the food is so good.

551
00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:41,960
- Yes.

552
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:42,800
- Really good food.

553
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:43,640
- Yeah.

554
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:49,280
- The boss, the manager there was just like such a male show

555
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:50,280
of an ass pig.

556
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,320
Like he would only hire pretty girls.

557
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,080
And you know, I was in my 20s, was a cutie.

558
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,240
- Right. - Back then, walked in,

559
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:58,680
said I was looking for a job.

560
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:00,720
He was like, yeah, let me give you an interview.

561
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,720
Sit down, interview's me, offers me the job.

562
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,400
I start working there.

563
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:10,400
A while later, me and the manager, who I started sleeping with,

564
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,440
(laughs)

565
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:16,920
found a bunch of like resumes in like by the kind of the host,

566
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,760
like in a drawer basically.

567
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,200
And they were all ranked, he ranked all the girls

568
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:22,800
of people on their looks.

569
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:24,280
- Oh, what a douche.

570
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,160
- One of, you know, this girl's pretty.

571
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,440
And he was ranking, like giving them a numerical.

572
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:30,680
- Oh my God.

573
00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:31,520
- Yeah.

574
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:32,600
And we were like, oh Jesus.

575
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,160
- Was this in the 80s?

576
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,800
- No, it was 90s.

577
00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:36,640
- In the 90s?

578
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,640
- Well, yeah.

579
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:38,760
Yeah, yeah, yeah, 90s because.

580
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:39,600
- Yeah.

581
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,920
- Like mid 90s?

582
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:43,800
- Yeah.

583
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:44,960
- That sounds about right.

584
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,640
I feel like there was a lot of douchey guys like that,

585
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:48,640
back then.

586
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,600
- Yeah, I didn't try and hide it.

587
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,120
I'm trying to think, okay, so it was,

588
00:20:54,120 --> 00:20:55,720
I had a boyfriend at the time.

589
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,280
That's when I was with the guy that lived in Santa Monica

590
00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:59,440
that moved to Italy.

591
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:00,840
- Yeah, I love that story.

592
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:02,200
- Yeah.

593
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,360
- And then he told me to continue to start his car

594
00:21:04,360 --> 00:21:05,360
for him once a week.

595
00:21:05,360 --> 00:21:06,200
- Right, yeah.

596
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,640
(laughing)

597
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,680
- And then at one point wanted me to ship him

598
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:12,280
some of his old CDs.

599
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:16,120
Like he fully broke up with me and wanted nothing to do with me.

600
00:21:16,120 --> 00:21:18,000
But then it was like, can you send me,

601
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,520
and it was some shitty band like new shoes.

602
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,520
What was up?

603
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,120
And I was like, really?

604
00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:27,040
Like he wanted you to send the CDs to him in Italy.

605
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:27,880
- Yeah.

606
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,800
- And then start his car once a week.

607
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:30,640
- Yeah.

608
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:31,480
- Yeah.

609
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:34,480
- And I had to do it because he was the,

610
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,280
he leased the apartment.

611
00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:37,360
- Mm-hmm.

612
00:21:37,360 --> 00:21:39,080
- I had shitty credit back then.

613
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:40,520
- Yeah, it was a hot mess.

614
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,360
- Yeah, yeah.

615
00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:42,200
- I was too.

616
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:47,200
I was driving the knockoff of a Mercedes Mustang,

617
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,560
which was called Capri.

618
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:51,400
- Uh-huh.

619
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:52,560
- And I, some point,

620
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:56,520
something happened in my window and a back window was broken.

621
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,040
So I just drove away on with no window in the back.

622
00:21:59,040 --> 00:21:59,880
(laughing)

623
00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:03,720
And then parking tickets that would just pile up.

624
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:04,560
- Same.

625
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,720
- Like I don't know what am I supposed to do?

626
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,400
Like I'm so, so, so, I, I know, nobody taught me.

627
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:12,440
I'm like, I gotta send a check to them within 25 days.

628
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,280
Or what?

629
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:14,680
What are they gonna do?

630
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,080
- This is why we love each other.

631
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:16,920
- Yeah.

632
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,240
- I had one my car on the Hollywood squares

633
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,360
and then promptly never paid the taxes.

634
00:22:21,360 --> 00:22:22,200
You remember that?

635
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,040
- Oh, yeah.

636
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,080
- And then people were like, you never paid your taxes?

637
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,640
And I was like, no.

638
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:27,480
- Yeah.

639
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:28,720
- I don't know what, like with what?

640
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,320
What am I supposed to just tell them?

641
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:31,160
- Right.

642
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,240
- You, I gotta be in the mail, but I'm sure I just was like,

643
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:35,400
- Yeah, what do you supposed to do?

644
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:36,240
- I know.

645
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,760
I would get jobs and they'd give you the form for the taxes.

646
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,240
I'm like, huh?

647
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,240
What?

648
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:42,960
I mean, my parents were like, you know,

649
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,520
they were Italian immigrants.

650
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,600
They didn't ever show me or taught me anything.

651
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,240
I had to go to like my friends that had jobs.

652
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,080
- Right.

653
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:50,920
- I go, what is this?

654
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,360
I'm supposed to claim a dependent, I don't get it.

655
00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:53,600
What am I supposed to do?

656
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:54,440
- Right.

657
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:55,440
- And then yeah, so I said,

658
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:56,280
"Pay taxes?

659
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,280
How does that work?

660
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:58,120
What am I?

661
00:22:58,120 --> 00:23:00,680
(laughs)

662
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:01,960
Totally.

663
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,160
Just like, and then insurance for the car, forget it.

664
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,320
- Right, forget it.

665
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:07,960
I tried to keep up with it and then I was like,

666
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:08,800
"Yeah."

667
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,240
(laughs)

668
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,080
When I moved out to LA, so I was like,

669
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:17,120
I was 18, I turned 19 on the road on the way out.

670
00:23:17,120 --> 00:23:18,760
I was saying moved out when I was 18,

671
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,960
but by the time I was living in LA,

672
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,880
I was newly minted 19 year old.

673
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,400
But oh my God, I had a credit card

674
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,440
that my mother had co-signed for me.

675
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,440
- Mm-hmm.

676
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,760
- I had, and my car had like 100,000 miles on it

677
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,000
and was rusted through.

678
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,280
It was my old Mazda GLC,

679
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,320
pieceshit car that couldn't go faster than 40 miles

680
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:40,320
on the freeway.

681
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:41,160
- Right.

682
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,640
- And then I didn't pay any bills

683
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,520
because I was like, with what?

684
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:46,360
- With what?

685
00:23:46,360 --> 00:23:49,720
So I literally had like a few hundred dollars.

686
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,880
My friend that I moved here with

687
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,800
had money from her bought Mitzvah.

688
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:54,640
- Say.

689
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,120
- So she put the money down for our apartment,

690
00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:59,280
but then like we could waste no time.

691
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,840
We had to get jobs day one.

692
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:01,680
- Yes.

693
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,560
- 'Cause we were not gonna be able to pay our next month's rent.

694
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:04,400
- Right.

695
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,520
- So that's when I got the job selling office supplies

696
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,080
over the phone and at the Egyptian movie theater.

697
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,240
- Oh yeah, yeah.

698
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,080
- But then remember,

699
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,000
they wanted me to buy the right color shoes?

700
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:13,840
- Oh, that's right.

701
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,280
- And I was like, how am I supposed to do that?

702
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,240
If I could afford new shoes,

703
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,440
I wouldn't be working at a movie theater, right?

704
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,200
So I got fired from there.

705
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,480
I would just get fired from jobs.

706
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:27,320
- Right.

707
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:28,720
- And then I tempt for a while,

708
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:29,400
but you know what,

709
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,400
tempering the money wasn't as good as just waiting tables.

710
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:33,240
- Yeah.

711
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,840
- So I got into like cocktail waitressing

712
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,040
where you could skim a little bit of money off the top.

713
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:38,880
- Yeah.

714
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,160
- I was a total hustler.

715
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,000
- Yeah.

716
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,080
- Cocktail, I cocktailed it so many different places.

717
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,080
- See, I wanted to do that stuff.

718
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,680
I wanted to be like a bartender or cocktail

719
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,400
or work the front desk or what I was too scared

720
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,280
because I can't count fast.

721
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:55,240
So people give me money.

722
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,000
And I remember Wendy trying to teach me like,

723
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,800
let's practice, you can do it, you can do it.

724
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,120
I just be like,

725
00:25:02,120 --> 00:25:04,640
20, I don't know how much chain,

726
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,720
I'd be like counting on my fingers.

727
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,080
I could not do the master.

728
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,680
I'm like, okay, I can't do any of those kind of jobs.

729
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:11,520
So then I got,

730
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,160
like then I,

731
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:17,160
I know somebody's girlfriend ran a preschool

732
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,720
like in Kanoga Park.

733
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:19,560
And she was like,

734
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:20,920
why don't you come, you know, work,

735
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,640
you like kids come work at the preschool.

736
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:23,480
And I was like,

737
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,520
and then she had a room available.

738
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,440
So then I rented a room from her house.

739
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,120
That was the first time I moved out.

740
00:25:29,120 --> 00:25:31,760
So I got a job with the preschool working

741
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:32,600
and I just remember.

742
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:33,640
- There's been much money though.

743
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:34,680
- No, it wasn't.

744
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,000
But then I got a job as a Budweiser girl.

745
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,360
- Right, so you're doing those jobs concurrently.

746
00:25:39,360 --> 00:25:40,360
- Yes, yeah, yeah.

747
00:25:40,360 --> 00:25:43,480
'Cause the Budweiser got, until I got fired, drinking.

748
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,200
- Right, drinking a course.

749
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,040
- Yeah.

750
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:50,280
- I was drinking Bud light in a course like Cup, Solo Cup.

751
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,360
- So to be fair, I did,

752
00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:55,000
in their defense, I could kind of see,

753
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,840
- No, I know.

754
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,760
- No, I'm literally a brand ambassador for it.

755
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,120
And then you're showing off a different brand.

756
00:26:01,120 --> 00:26:03,960
- Well, I would go to Jeremiah's, excuse me,

757
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,960
in Northridge and hang out there.

758
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,040
And that's how I met them.

759
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:08,760
They were like, do you wanna be a Bud light girl?

760
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,480
But you only have to drink Bud light

761
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,960
when you're even when you're not working.

762
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,720
- Oh, so you weren't working?

763
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,200
- No, I was working at the preschool,

764
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,480
but I was hanging out at night.

765
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,440
- Right, but I'm saying you weren't on the job

766
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:19,680
because the Bud girl was the dream.

767
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,240
- Because you didn't work in course?

768
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,640
- Yeah, so when I got hired, they said,

769
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,480
no drinking anything else, even when you're off,

770
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:27,320
the talk.

771
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,760
And those guys would hang out at Jeremiah's as well.

772
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,160
So I remember that night, I was not working.

773
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:33,160
I was off.

774
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,000
- Oh, okay.

775
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:34,920
- I went to traffic school that night

776
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,720
and then I went and met everybody at Jeremiah's

777
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,600
and they had course light solo cups.

778
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,400
So I ordered the, so the guys from Bud light,

779
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,600
they were there and they were like, yeah, you're done.

780
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,520
I was like, oh great.

781
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,520
That was good money.

782
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,720
That was a hundred bucks a night,

783
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,200
which was a lot of money back then.

784
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,280
- A lot, I thought I was a woo-hoo.

785
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:55,360
- Yeah, I do it.

786
00:26:55,360 --> 00:26:56,200
I know.

787
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,360
For a couple hours passing out key chains.

788
00:26:58,360 --> 00:26:59,200
- Right.

789
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,120
- At bars on like Monday night football night,

790
00:27:01,120 --> 00:27:02,200
it was great.

791
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,040
- Yeah.

792
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:03,760
- And then I tried to be a,

793
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:10,080
what's the green beer?

794
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,160
And not anizer.

795
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,720
Oh God, it's popular.

796
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,160
Anyway, it's great.

797
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,040
Anyway, I tried to work for another beer company

798
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,880
and they never had promotion, so that was that.

799
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,400
So I went back to, I mean, I was doing the preschool.

800
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:24,240
- Right.

801
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,080
- Yeah.

802
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,720
- I worked at this one place midwilshier area.

803
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:33,720
It was a hotel and it was all like older Korean businessmen.

804
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:34,760
- Yes.

805
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:35,760
- Do you know what I'm talking about?

806
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,920
- Yeah, I had a, if I know what you're going,

807
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:38,760
where you're going.

808
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,640
- I think it was called Cafe Carnival,

809
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,920
but it was in the lobby of this hotel.

810
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,320
It was only Asian businessmen.

811
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,160
- Yeah.

812
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,800
- And except for, I know I've told you this story

813
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,800
before, except for Tom Likus.

814
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:53,920
- Oh God.

815
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:54,800
(laughing)

816
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:55,720
- What?

817
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,200
So Tom Likus would come.

818
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,160
Like every day, I guess, at a certain time.

819
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,000
- I would be ready when he got off work.

820
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,040
- So Tom Likus was this LA.

821
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,400
He was only in LA, right?

822
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:08,240
- Yeah.

823
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,560
- And then he drove time.

824
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,240
- Well, then he did, then he think he moved to Seattle.

825
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,080
- Okay.

826
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:14,080
- Because he was kind of big in Washington for a while.

827
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,040
He was a radio guy, like, drive time,

828
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,960
and he would do flash Fridays where he was such a pig.

829
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,280
He was like-- - He was a real pig.

830
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,480
- Yeah, he would be like, hey, get out there

831
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,520
and when you're driving, you're on your horn,

832
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:26,880
like, do flash Fridays.

833
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,040
He want people like, you know--

834
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,280
- Shother tits, just the car.

835
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,440
- Yeah, yeah, he was a scumbag.

836
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:32,800
So he was there?

837
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,440
- So he was there, and you know,

838
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,880
I was the same woke bitch that I am now.

839
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,040
So I was like,

840
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:38,880
(grunting)

841
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:39,720
Tom Likus, you know?

842
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,360
He was just like a little troll of a man too.

843
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,200
- Yeah, he was a little troll.

844
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,200
- He was just like a real active, total like,

845
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,160
just with this big,

846
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,800
beer belly and-- - Like, he just looked--

847
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,920
- He looked, just really gross and like,

848
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,440
very alcoholic-y looking.

849
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:55,280
- Yeah.

850
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,440
- And we had to wear these really short skirts.

851
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,360
We had to wear these mid-drift tops

852
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,800
and then short skirts and it was poked on.

853
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,120
It was so like-- - Right.

854
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,120
- So bad.

855
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:09,240
But I just remember he was very quiet, very friendly,

856
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:10,800
and he was a good tipper.

857
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,080
And that was when I learned, like, you know what?

858
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:13,920
- Whatever.

859
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:14,760
- The camp you know?

860
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,440
(laughing)

861
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:17,840
Tips or tips?

862
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,840
I had a friend that worked, she was interesting.

863
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,160
She was very artsy, but she worked as like,

864
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,640
in one of those downtown LA,

865
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:31,400
like not speakeasy, but like bars,

866
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,760
but they would hire girls to like hang out

867
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,680
to get the, you know, I don't, she was not an escort,

868
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,160
but she would just go there,

869
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,280
just to hang out and like, talk to these guys,

870
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,800
and then they would pay her.

871
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,560
I just remember that was like so long ago.

872
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,320
That's crazy.

873
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,240
I could never do that.

874
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,520
- I had so many one off, like,

875
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,040
cocktail weight-tracing jobs,

876
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,000
because then I would get,

877
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,760
I would either get fired or I would just get burnt out

878
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,960
and that show up. - Quickly.

879
00:29:59,960 --> 00:30:01,120
Yeah, and then I would just be like,

880
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,080
I'm not working here.

881
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:02,920
- Yeah.

882
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,080
- I had a lot, wow, did I get fired

883
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,280
from a lot of weighting tables, jobs.

884
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,800
I had this one and I've told you this story before,

885
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:10,640
so I'll make it quick,

886
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,600
it was at that Mexican restaurant, Marix.

887
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,160
I could walk to it from,

888
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,240
I was living on like basically near Second Street,

889
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,120
between Ocean on San Vicente.

890
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,080
Basically, you could walk down the stairs

891
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,640
and I could be at Marix.

892
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,800
But man, I was supposed to work on a Super Bowl Sunday

893
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,080
and I was just drinking at someone's house

894
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,960
watching the game and I was like,

895
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,960
I just can't do it.

896
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,240
Told them, I called and said my car got towed.

897
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,160
Oh my God, I had the most elaborate

898
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:41,000
thing I know.

899
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:46,000
- I cannot believe, 'cause I am not a liar anymore.

900
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,400
Like, I couldn't tell, I really couldn't tell why.

901
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,240
- Yeah, right.

902
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,640
- Now, but in my 20s, somehow I just was like,

903
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,440
well, it was a good reason.

904
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,640
- Yeah, I was like, I can't go to work.

905
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,760
- Right.

906
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,960
- What else am I gonna say?

907
00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:01,920
- Right, so I'm drinking at Super Bowl house.

908
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,800
- I told them that my car got towed

909
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,360
and I don't know if you remember this,

910
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,840
but they were like, oh, okay.

911
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,880
And I'm like, yeah, I mean, it's just terrible.

912
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,360
Like, I can't, I don't know what to do.

913
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,160
Like, I'm gonna have to go get my car out

914
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,040
and like, there's no way I can make it there.

915
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,040
The next shift that I worked, they're like,

916
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,240
hey, so can you bring us the paperwork to show that,

917
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,960
you know, to excuse you from missing that shift?

918
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,840
And I was like, totally, yes, like, yeah.

919
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,320
And then I just never went back there again.

920
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,560
(laughing)

921
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,200
And then I turned in my uniform.

922
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,040
It was like, so good.

923
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,360
- I remember that, yeah, yeah, yeah.

924
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:40,320
- I have this other job in Burbank at this place

925
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:42,240
that's like a mose I wanna sell.

926
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,640
- Oh yeah, you still love that place.

927
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,320
- I got hired there when I was first doing standup.

928
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,800
And I was, and okay, so I'm like,

929
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:51,880
oh, this will be a good job

930
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,880
'cause it was gonna be like good lunch rushes or whatever.

931
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,600
Except by the Burbank studios.

932
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,480
- Yes, except they wanted me to come in,

933
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,640
so I had to train there.

934
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,240
So my first few training days,

935
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,960
they wanted me to come in there at like seven in the morning

936
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,480
to like get all the salad dressings out.

937
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,680
I don't know, the lunch rush was started at like 10, 30 or something.

938
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,720
And I did that, I trained, so I had to train.

939
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,920
I couldn't make any tips for like,

940
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,760
I wanna say like four shifts.

941
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,600
- Right.

942
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,400
- And then I was like, yeah, I can't do this.

943
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,240
- Yeah.

944
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,680
- I'm not gonna get to work that early.

945
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,920
And then I had to go there because in order to get my last check,

946
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,720
the check for my stupid four days of training,

947
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,240
I had to turn in my uniform.

948
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:34,240
(laughing)

949
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:35,240
You and the uniform.

950
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,520
- I know, so I was like, oh, I needed,

951
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,760
it was like, oh, I really do need that check though.

952
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:41,600
- Yeah.

953
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:42,440
- Yeah.

954
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:43,440
- I don't know how many hours it was,

955
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,720
but say it was like 20 hours I'd worked.

956
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:47,560
- Right.

957
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:48,800
- And they were so mad.

958
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,040
- Oh, I remember nobody would speak to me

959
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,080
when I went in that no one would guide me.

960
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:53,920
- Oh my God.

961
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:54,760
- And I was like, oh, they're saying,

962
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:55,600
you know what?

963
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:56,440
You would have been good at Stephanie.

964
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,440
And I tried out for it.

965
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,760
My, 'cause my dad was like, you know what you should do?

966
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,440
'Cause this was when I was still going on auditions and stuff.

967
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,280
It's like a lot of like working actors and actresses.

968
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,120
- Universal tour guide.

969
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,280
- Universal tour guide.

970
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:09,280
- You're gonna say that.

971
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,120
- Yeah.

972
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,320
- 'Cause the old b-sheet should do that.

973
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,200
- Yes, that's a great, I think that would be,

974
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,760
I think I told Natalia that a while ago, but yeah,

975
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:16,760
I think that--

976
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:17,680
- It doesn't pay well.

977
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:18,520
- It doesn't.

978
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:19,840
Well, it's like minimum wage.

979
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:20,680
- Right.

980
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:24,120
Well, I was like, one of my first job, you know,

981
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,120
like going out looking for a real job.

982
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,920
And he was like, you know, you go there,

983
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,840
they give you a notebook, you're supposed to study it,

984
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,320
and then you're supposed to get up in front of everybody

985
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,160
and like, you know, whatever you studied, you know,

986
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,840
talk about the studio and about the shark

987
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,760
and about the, you know, everything.

988
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,800
And I did, I sat there for like six hours training,

989
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,160
and then when it got time to get up to talk, I boned out.

990
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:48,000
- Ah!

991
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,080
- I bounced, I was like, I was so shy.

992
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,920
I was like 19, I was like, no way.

993
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:54,880
I can't do that.

994
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,640
- So you studied and everything?

995
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,400
- I was there for hours.

996
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,760
I did the whole like day of training,

997
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,120
and then they took a break,

998
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,640
and then when we come back, we're gonna have you guys get up

999
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,360
and I was like, bye.

1000
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:07,920
- Oh my God!

1001
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:08,920
That's crazy.

1002
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,360
- I know.

1003
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,720
I know, but yeah, you would have been good at that.

1004
00:34:12,720 --> 00:34:16,480
- I was always only interested in tips.

1005
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:17,480
- Yeah, that's true.

1006
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,400
- I was like, I need quick money.

1007
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,320
From the time I was 16, like my first job was Burger King,

1008
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,440
which I got fired.

1009
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:29,640
But then, first after that, I got a job at Abdao's Big Boy

1010
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:33,160
because it was Big Boys, but it was in the Springfield,

1011
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:34,960
so it was called Abdao's.

1012
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,560
And that was a shitty job.

1013
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,920
It was like family, restaurant.

1014
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,760
- Right.

1015
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,720
- You get like, sometimes a party of six would leave you like,

1016
00:34:42,720 --> 00:34:43,960
50 cents.

1017
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:44,800
- Oh, just.

1018
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:48,520
- And you had to carry like, just an ass load of waters

1019
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:49,360
at the same time.

1020
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,080
It was like a flex if you could carry,

1021
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,920
you had to learn how to carry like 20 waters at the time.

1022
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:55,760
- Yeah, yeah.

1023
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:56,760
- You're gonna art to it.

1024
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:57,600
- Right.

1025
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:58,600
- And we didn't have trays,

1026
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,960
we have as many fleses you could on your hand at one time.

1027
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:02,800
- Right.

1028
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,800
- So you had to be, anyway, it was really hard work.

1029
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,440
My feet would have worked.

1030
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,840
Oh my God.

1031
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,680
I was in therapy at the time too.

1032
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,560
And I was living at home.

1033
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,120
I was like 16.

1034
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:20,120
And I remember that I was always getting into arguments at work

1035
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,880
because I was always really, the managers,

1036
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,320
restaurant managers are some of the worst people.

1037
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,160
- I can never.

1038
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,000
- Ever.

1039
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,000
- And you know, you know,

1040
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,000
you're assholes.

1041
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,000
- Right.

1042
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,000
- By a large, almost all of them are mean people.

1043
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,000
- Right.

1044
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,000
- It's just kind of a thankless job.

1045
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,000
- Yes.

1046
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,000
- I feel like the people that are attracted to it

1047
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,720
are a little bit power hungry, but not ambitious enough

1048
00:35:40,720 --> 00:35:41,720
for something else.

1049
00:35:41,720 --> 00:35:42,720
- Yes.

1050
00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:43,720
- They just want to boss around.

1051
00:35:43,720 --> 00:35:44,720
- Right.

1052
00:35:44,720 --> 00:35:45,720
- Wages is impossible.

1053
00:35:45,720 --> 00:35:46,720
- Yeah.

1054
00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:47,720
- Dude, your job is shitty too.

1055
00:35:47,720 --> 00:35:48,720
- Yeah.

1056
00:35:48,720 --> 00:35:49,720
- Like, you know?

1057
00:35:49,720 --> 00:35:50,720
- Right.

1058
00:35:50,720 --> 00:35:51,720
- Sure, when you're like a 16 year old waitress,

1059
00:35:51,720 --> 00:35:53,720
you think they're like at the top of the food chain,

1060
00:35:53,720 --> 00:35:55,720
but then you live a life a little bit and you go,

1061
00:35:55,720 --> 00:35:57,720
no, that's also shitty job.

1062
00:35:57,720 --> 00:35:58,720
- Right.

1063
00:35:58,720 --> 00:35:59,720
- You shouldn't be in your forties and be in--

1064
00:35:59,720 --> 00:36:00,720
- No, exactly.

1065
00:36:00,720 --> 00:36:01,720
- Right.

1066
00:36:01,720 --> 00:36:02,720
- Exactly.

1067
00:36:02,720 --> 00:36:03,720
And happy with that.

1068
00:36:03,720 --> 00:36:04,720
- Yes.

1069
00:36:04,720 --> 00:36:06,720
- Just like, yeah, love this gets to like, you know?

1070
00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:07,720
- Yeah.

1071
00:36:07,720 --> 00:36:09,720
- I'm in charge of like, go do your side work, right?

1072
00:36:09,720 --> 00:36:10,720
- All right.

1073
00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:11,720
You don't have an attitude.

1074
00:36:11,720 --> 00:36:14,720
But I would get really mad at the way the manager would speak

1075
00:36:14,720 --> 00:36:15,720
to some of the servers.

1076
00:36:15,720 --> 00:36:20,720
And I was always getting like mad for other people.

1077
00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:23,040
And I'll never forget it was because it was big boys.

1078
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,360
I would get so mad and there was a time I think I like stormed out

1079
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,360
because I was like, I was always arguing about something.

1080
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:30,360
- Right, right.

1081
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:31,360
- Things change.

1082
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:32,360
- Yeah.

1083
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,160
- And I remember my therapist being like, you have to learn

1084
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,160
like boundaries.

1085
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,360
Like, you really need to take a breath and go,

1086
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,360
does this have anything to do with me?

1087
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:46,360
And I do remember a few times that I'd be like,

1088
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,360
okay, I'm going to keep my mouth shut on this.

1089
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,360
- Right.

1090
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:51,360
- Yeah.

1091
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,360
- On this one, they just yelled at somebody for spilling something

1092
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:54,360
and I'd be like, don't do it.

1093
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,360
- I think the therapist would say no.

1094
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,360
And then I know I remember that it would just get the best of me

1095
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,360
and I'd be like, that's just not fair.

1096
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:02,360
- Whatever.

1097
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,360
- Whatever.

1098
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,360
- I didn't get fired from there.

1099
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,360
Then I worked at this Chinese restaurant in Springfield

1100
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,360
called Joy of the Walk.

1101
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:18,360
And that owner was such a, he was so mean.

1102
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,360
He was really mean to all the servers.

1103
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,360
Also, everybody was older than me.

1104
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,360
Like I was the youngest person who worked there.

1105
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,360
And I just remember being like, I am never going to be like these people.

1106
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,360
They're talking about like recipes and their kids.

1107
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:33,360
- Right.

1108
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:34,360
- And I don't give a fuck.

1109
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,360
I am 16 years old.

1110
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,360
- 16 years old.

1111
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:38,360
- I'm like 17.

1112
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,360
And this is when I was getting ready to move.

1113
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,360
And I had a horrible time at home.

1114
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,360
Like my, you know, I just wanted out and I needed money.

1115
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:50,360
And I would work a shift and just be like burning with like,

1116
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,360
God, this place sucks and it's so busy.

1117
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:59,360
And I just remember one day, I was like, some customer was kind of rude.

1118
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:03,360
And I had like five or six tables going at once at various stages.

1119
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,360
- I had a hell of you.

1120
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,360
- Yeah.

1121
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,360
- And then I walked out, oh my God, you see her.

1122
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,360
Oh my God.

1123
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:11,360
And I had an apron.

1124
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:12,360
I had my tips.

1125
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:13,360
I took my tips.

1126
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,360
I threw my apron in the trash and it had all the tickets.

1127
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:17,360
- Oh my God.

1128
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,360
- And I don't want you guys to think that I'm broke.

1129
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,360
I'm like, I was so, it was like it was terrible.

1130
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:23,360
- Yeah, no, I know.

1131
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:24,360
- I just didn't care.

1132
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:25,360
- Yeah.

1133
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:26,360
- I was angry.

1134
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,360
I had a chip on my shoulder.

1135
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,360
I was like, very mad at the world.

1136
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,360
And I was like, I just want to move out of Springfield.

1137
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,360
And my stepfather was a monster at the time.

1138
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,360
And my mom wanted me out of the house.

1139
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:42,360
And I was just like, fuck all y'all.

1140
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,360
- It's a town for losers and I'm pulling out of here to win.

1141
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:46,360
- Yeah.

1142
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,360
- That's a spring stencil thunder rope.

1143
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:49,160
- It is? - Yeah.

1144
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,160
- Yeah.

1145
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:51,160
- I was so unhappy.

1146
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:56,160
But as you see, when I moved to LA, things did not change very quickly.

1147
00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:01,160
- Well, it's you've changed so I mean, you're like not that person anymore, which is incredible.

1148
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:07,160
- I feel like, honestly, what changed me a lot was meeting John.

1149
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,160
- Yeah.

1150
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,160
- Maybe when I started to be a lot happy.

1151
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:14,160
Well, first of all, when I moved to LA, I was immediately much happier and more stable

1152
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,160
because I wasn't fighting with my parents every day.

1153
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,160
- Right.

1154
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,160
- I wasn't crying ever.

1155
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,160
I remember thinking like, oh my god, like I don't cry every day.

1156
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,160
- Yeah.

1157
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:28,160
- Like I've got like many days without crying about anything.

1158
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,160
- Right.

1159
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,160
- But then the irresponsibility took over and then I was like not paying bills.

1160
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,160
- That was the same leg, girl.

1161
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,160
- I think the repo man wanted my car.

1162
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,160
I got notices that my car was going to get repossessed.

1163
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,160
- Oh my god.

1164
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,160
- It was so bad.

1165
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:50,160
- You didn't shape up for me until literally until I was 27 or 28 and got my first writing job.

1166
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,160
- Yeah.

1167
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,160
It's around that time, I think.

1168
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:58,160
Like when you, I think for me, it was probably around 24, 25.

1169
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:04,640
When I got my first job in entertainment as a receptionist at a production company, a syndication

1170
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:05,640
company out in Aguora.

1171
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,160
- How old are you at that time?

1172
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,160
- I was 22 or 23.

1173
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,160
- So you have like a good five years on me, responsibility wise.

1174
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:15,160
- Oh.

1175
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:20,920
Well, because I had no money and I didn't, I didn't want to live with my mom and I didn't want

1176
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:21,920
to keep working at a preschool.

1177
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,480
My dad, you know, told you what my dad told me to do.

1178
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:30,840
So then, and then only a few years later, I think I met Adam and then, yeah, and then you

1179
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,440
just kind of settled down at some point.

1180
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:37,880
But well, not right away though because you dated him for a while.

1181
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:38,880
- Right.

1182
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,800
- And you guys broke up and you were broken up for like a whole year, right?

1183
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,400
- Yeah, but I feel like I was more an adult during that time.

1184
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:51,920
Like I worked, you know, I was working at New World and then I worked at ABC, Carcy Warner,

1185
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:56,000
you know, so I had adult jobs and then he came into the picture.

1186
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,240
So I was, yeah, so we did date for a long time.

1187
00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:04,200
But I got it all out of my system like it's 16, 17, 18, and you know, and then also my

1188
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,720
friends, Suzanne was the only one that went off to college.

1189
00:41:06,720 --> 00:41:09,240
None of my friends, everybody just went to work.

1190
00:41:09,240 --> 00:41:11,000
That's how it was back then.

1191
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,800
Nobody really had money to go to college.

1192
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:14,800
Really?

1193
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,640
- That's so interesting because it's so different now.

1194
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,000
- It is so different.

1195
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:25,320
My two brothers went off to college, but my dad was like, eh, she's going to be an actress.

1196
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,320
She doesn't need to go to college, you know, whatever.

1197
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:28,320
- Right.

1198
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:29,320
- You know, so.

1199
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:33,760
- Did you ever think about going back to school at that point where you like, eh,

1200
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:40,640
- No, I wanted to work in television and I just found my way in and that was that.

1201
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,600
There was no going back.

1202
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:49,600
- Because nobody really asks you, no, back then, like if I had a college degree or anything,

1203
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,080
they don't really ask you when you get the job if you're working your way up.

1204
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,520
And then it doesn't, it didn't, I mean, I guess did it come up in conversation?

1205
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,600
I'm trying to remember if I was always happy to tell people I didn't go.

1206
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,440
- Yeah, then later when I was, you know, working in entertainment, you know, people went

1207
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:08,040
to college and I would be like, oh, I went to Pierce.

1208
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,040
Because I did.

1209
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,520
I went to Pierce College for like a year.

1210
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,520
- Have you ever heard of Pierce?

1211
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:13,120
- Pierce, yes.

1212
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:14,120
- Is it in France?

1213
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:15,120
- Yes, Pierce.

1214
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:16,120
- Yeah, yeah.

1215
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:28,400
- It took some time off and, but yeah, no, it never really came into play that I didn't

1216
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,760
go to, yeah, because when you're in there, once you're in, you work your way up and you

1217
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:36,280
had experience and then you meet people, you know people and I loved it.

1218
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,120
I was one of the happiest times when I was working.

1219
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:46,840
I was living in Northridge and I was driving to Century City and I just remember I had like

1220
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:56,720
stupid convertible Mazda, not convertible, T-top Mazda stick shift and I would drive in traffic

1221
00:42:56,720 --> 00:42:59,200
all the way to like Century City, but I would loved it.

1222
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,120
I just remember having like, I have the best job.

1223
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:06,840
I love it, living in house with my roommates and it was great.

1224
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,360
My young 20s.

1225
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:09,680
Yeah.

1226
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:18,340
- When I first got my job at the big date, yeah, I thought I was like, well, my first car

1227
00:43:18,340 --> 00:43:22,320
before that I'd won on Hollywood squares.

1228
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,680
So I was driving around that Buick Skyhawk.

1229
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:30,200
And so this is the first car I bought. I bought this red Toyota Celica and I was so happy

1230
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:31,440
about it.

1231
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:38,720
It was a stick shift and I had come from driving an automatic and I think I was like, I

1232
00:43:38,720 --> 00:43:40,560
thought it was such a steel.

1233
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,920
Well because I'd been raised on a stick shift so it didn't bother me that I had a stick

1234
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:48,960
shift, but somehow in my mind, I think I was like, because it was fairly cheap.

1235
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:49,960
- Yeah.

1236
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:51,240
- I was like, how is this car?

1237
00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:55,600
- So because everybody drove automatic so that's the point, but it didn't really occur to me

1238
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:56,600
that was a problem.

1239
00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:00,360
Because it wasn't, because that's fine.

1240
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:05,000
But so I buy this car and I made the huge mistake.

1241
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:10,340
I'm pretty sure I went by myself to, and I can't remember, I think it was like long go

1242
00:44:10,340 --> 00:44:16,240
to, there was this place where there were like seven dealerships around, right?

1243
00:44:16,240 --> 00:44:20,080
I went by myself in my 20s, girl in her 20s.

1244
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:27,080
Oh, these people were like sharks, I charm at me because, and I thought I was like, I'm

1245
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,080
pretty tough.

1246
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,800
I'm not going to let them like sell me anything.

1247
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:36,080
Cut to me like in front of the desk and they're like, all right, I mean, it's really, they

1248
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:40,400
were really hardcore with me because I drove the, I test drove the car.

1249
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:48,600
I was like, I cannot believe it have like 50,000 miles on it, which was to me low mileage

1250
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,080
for the fact that I could afford to buy the car.

1251
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:56,280
I didn't have really, I mean, I had a little bit of money to put down.

1252
00:44:56,280 --> 00:45:00,680
Somehow I knew I would need financing, but I was like, but I have like a good job now,

1253
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:01,680
right?

1254
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:02,680
Yeah.

1255
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:03,840
Terrible credit, but like a good job.

1256
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:08,360
Well, so then I think I tried to play them like, I was like, I'm in the driver's seat

1257
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:09,360
here.

1258
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,080
I'm going to tell you because guess what?

1259
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,880
Like, I think I walked off the lot.

1260
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:17,880
I like the car, but like, I don't know, like left went to a different dealership, but

1261
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:18,880
then I came back.

1262
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:19,880
You know?

1263
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:20,880
Yeah.

1264
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,480
Oh, as soon as I came back, you know, they were like, yeah, we got her.

1265
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:24,480
Right.

1266
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:29,680
So then they saw me the car and they tell me like, okay, we're going to get you this financing.

1267
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:34,920
And somehow I took a deal that was like 20% like financing.

1268
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:35,920
Uh-huh.

1269
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:36,920
And thought I won.

1270
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:37,920
I was like, yeah.

1271
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:46,120
Well, in this car, that was probably going to cost me like $100,000 over the, like, I mean,

1272
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:51,520
I'm sure I spent, wait, I mean, yeah, they were like, well, you're credit, whatever.

1273
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,520
And then I got a freaking letter.

1274
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,240
Oh, my God, I'll never forget this.

1275
00:45:56,240 --> 00:46:00,760
And the guy who ran the company, this that I've complained about, Howard Schultz, who was

1276
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:01,760
a total asshole.

1277
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,240
I remember going into his office, I got this letter and they were basically telling me

1278
00:46:05,240 --> 00:46:10,960
to bring the car back because they were going to raise the, they, I don't know why and

1279
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:14,160
I don't know how it was a very shady kind of thing.

1280
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:19,720
The finance company was like, yeah, we changed our minds unless you pay more.

1281
00:46:19,720 --> 00:46:24,240
And I remember that Howard Schultz was like, just rip it up.

1282
00:46:24,240 --> 00:46:26,240
Just don't, you have, it's like squatters rights.

1283
00:46:26,240 --> 00:46:27,240
Yeah.

1284
00:46:27,240 --> 00:46:28,240
Like you already have the car.

1285
00:46:28,240 --> 00:46:29,240
Right, right.

1286
00:46:29,240 --> 00:46:30,440
They can't change their mind and do a different deal now.

1287
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:31,440
They let you drive it off the lot.

1288
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:32,440
Right.

1289
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:33,440
We were fine.

1290
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:34,440
Yeah.

1291
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:39,680
And I was like, okay, but I still was, I was paying like 19% of the same thing.

1292
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,280
That was smart advice though.

1293
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:42,280
Yeah.

1294
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,000
And then I've never heard about it.

1295
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:52,520
But from that time on after making that horrible deal, I remember paid my bills on time.

1296
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:53,520
Yeah.

1297
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:54,680
Always had a job, right?

1298
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,480
Like paid off credit cards.

1299
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:57,480
Yeah.

1300
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:03,320
You know, it's like pretty responsible until I got the notice from the IRS that the Hollywood

1301
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,560
squares thing came back.

1302
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,560
Oh, God.

1303
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,760
And then I got a bill for like $8,000.

1304
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:09,480
Oh my gosh.

1305
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,480
Which could be like $100,000.

1306
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,680
I mean, I was just like, good luck.

1307
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:15,680
Yeah.

1308
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:16,680
Yeah.

1309
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:17,680
But that was later.

1310
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:18,680
I'd already met John.

1311
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,680
Oh, okay.

1312
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:25,720
And then I hired an accountant and they went and did the, they, and I ended up owing $800.

1313
00:47:25,720 --> 00:47:26,720
I see.

1314
00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:27,720
Wow.

1315
00:47:27,720 --> 00:47:30,400
And then ever since then, I always paid my tax.

1316
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:31,400
Yes.

1317
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,400
Right?

1318
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,400
Been like a very law-bying.

1319
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:34,400
Right.

1320
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,400
Yeah.

1321
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:36,400
Yeah.

1322
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:37,400
You did a guy friend to take you to buy a car.

1323
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:38,400
I had Mike Gerstein.

1324
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:39,400
Oh, really?

1325
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:40,400
Yeah.

1326
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:45,000
Because when I bought the, the, the stick shift, I was like, I don't know how to drive and he

1327
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,000
goes, just get the car.

1328
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:47,320
I'll teach you how to drive.

1329
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:48,840
And he taught me how to drive.

1330
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:49,840
Oh.

1331
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:50,840
Yeah.

1332
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:51,840
Because it was cheap.

1333
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:52,840
Yeah.

1334
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:53,840
It's the only car I could afford.

1335
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:54,840
But yeah, you needed a guy friend.

1336
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:55,840
But isn't that interesting?

1337
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,840
And maybe you had to learn it fast because that was your car.

1338
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:58,840
Yeah.

1339
00:47:58,840 --> 00:47:59,840
Yeah.

1340
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:00,840
It was my car.

1341
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,840
I learned it break quick.

1342
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:02,840
I mean, I screwed up a bunch of times.

1343
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,520
I mean, I grinded the gears and like, you know, yeah.

1344
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,000
But you know when you're first learning on a stint, you know, you're first learning

1345
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,360
on a stick to and you like stall out of the light.

1346
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:11,360
Oh, my God.

1347
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,360
And people are honking behind you and you're worst.

1348
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,960
Yeah, I just learned how to drive.

1349
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:15,960
I know.

1350
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:16,960
There's that hill on Sepulveda.

1351
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:17,960
Oh, yeah.

1352
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:18,960
Oh, God.

1353
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,800
I did never wanted to go down that route.

1354
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,560
I always avoided that hill.

1355
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:23,560
Yeah.

1356
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,040
It was, yeah, took me a while.

1357
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:26,040
Yeah.

1358
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:30,440
Oh, and when you're stopped at a light and you're, and you're, and you're facing upward at

1359
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,960
all and then you're like, as soon as you go into your first gear and you let your

1360
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,880
foot off the gear, you bet you got to hit that gas pedal hard or you were going to

1361
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:38,880
roll backwards.

1362
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,400
Yeah, I hated it.

1363
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:41,400
Yeah.

1364
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:42,400
All right.

1365
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,720
Oh, my gosh.

1366
00:48:44,720 --> 00:48:46,040
This was super fun.

1367
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:47,040
Yeah.

1368
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:48,040
Memory lane, baby.

1369
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:49,040
Yeah, that was nice.

1370
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:50,040
All right.

1371
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:53,520
Well, let's say hi to our fabulous people like, um, like, Christa, get this job and Stephanie

1372
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:54,520
is a stinker.

1373
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:55,520
Rinker and Athena.

1374
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:56,520
We love your lipstick.

1375
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,520
Oh, frickin' match.

1376
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:01,040
Chanel stuff you put on.

1377
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,640
And Sandra is not easy being green, but you do it.

1378
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:04,640
Jennifer, get up.

1379
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,560
Erin's a dirty sandwich has less with the coughing.

1380
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:08,560
All right.

1381
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:09,560
Oh, COVID's back.

1382
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,960
I probably just got it right now.

1383
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,960
Alicia, go on, Taylor in the city of Almonte and Kelly Brandt.

1384
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,120
She's not your aunt, but she'll take you to Planned Parenthood.

1385
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,120
That's right.

1386
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:19,600
Rebecca Lubin is so cute.

1387
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:20,600
Yishon.

1388
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:21,600
That baby.

1389
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:22,600
Yeah.

1390
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:23,600
Oh my God.

1391
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:28,920
We met like, baby, not like, yeah, baby is cute.

1392
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:29,920
Yeah.

1393
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:30,920
I'm your baby is cute.

1394
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:31,920
Yeah.

1395
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:32,920
So your ass.

1396
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,280
Missy and Gabby, you guys.

1397
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:36,760
I really love you too.

1398
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:37,760
Yeah.

1399
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,800
And Katarina, check that molar, you know, Valerie Bubba Fenwick, it's out of the park.

1400
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:43,360
Polly, we love your pancakes.

1401
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:48,240
And Rita, we love your bassinet that you rock all of Elizabeth Williamson's kids in.

1402
00:49:48,240 --> 00:49:51,240
And Nikki, call your girl and Dick is a frolicer.

1403
00:49:51,240 --> 00:49:57,760
And also, oh my gosh, did you see on my Instagram and I posted a picture on Facebook of Courtney

1404
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,440
Moore who has IE embroidery.

1405
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,280
I made a guide liner hats.

1406
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:10,880
And I have pictures or I put a picture in the, oh, I didn't see it.

1407
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:11,880
So cute.

1408
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,760
And all the kids went crazy.

1409
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:14,760
Oh, that's so cute.

1410
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:18,760
She made a couple of them like Walt, like beanies and a couple of them like checker hats.

1411
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:19,760
Oh, I love that.

1412
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,800
And they all have their logo on it and they are, they were so thrilled.

1413
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:23,800
I bet.

1414
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:24,800
Oh, that's so cute.

1415
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:25,800
Yep.

1416
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,520
So go to IE embroidery on Facebook and check them out.

1417
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,720
And also pop culture rescue dot org.

1418
00:50:33,720 --> 00:50:40,040
That's where Robin got Bosco her sweet, sweet dog and they try to get all the dogs out of

1419
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,240
the overcrowded shelters.

1420
00:50:41,240 --> 00:50:42,240
Yeah.

1421
00:50:42,240 --> 00:50:46,040
And find them home so they could use your tax deductible donations.

1422
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,960
Pop culture rescue dot org.

1423
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:52,440
Gabby is shouting out the United Farm workers.

1424
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:56,280
So go to you FW dot org and help them out.

1425
00:50:56,280 --> 00:51:04,200
Also, my friend writes stories for medium dot com at the handle unbecoming stories.

1426
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,680
And these are really great stories.

1427
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,200
So check that out.

1428
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,200
Also, woman Frida.

1429
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,200
Yeah.

1430
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:11,200
Great.

1431
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,200
Your impulse brings.

1432
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:13,200
Yep.

1433
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:14,200
Go check them out.

1434
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:15,200
Yeah.

1435
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,960
Get yourself a mimosa or a latte.

1436
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:19,960
Yes.

1437
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,560
Say you're with them for crying out loud.

1438
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:22,560
Family skeptical.

1439
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:26,240
It's a podcast for any, any people that are raising their kids.

1440
00:51:26,240 --> 00:51:29,120
Without church or anything.

1441
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:35,120
They talk about that and it's really cool and it's the family skeptical.

1442
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:42,080
If you want a t-shirt or a mouse pad or something fun, you know, go to basic Becky, just

1443
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,880
basicbecky.com or basic Becky on the Facebook.

1444
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:51,520
Also, if you're on the island of Kauai, why not stop by Sugar Skull and say hi to Marin?

1445
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:52,520
Yes.

1446
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:57,200
There has been it to have this small bakery and gift shop and they do wedding cakes and

1447
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:01,080
little great desserts.

1448
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:05,880
And you can like and follow their Instagram page at sugar skull eight oh eight.

1449
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:11,360
And if you want to get there and use a travel agent, why not use Christine Black with waves

1450
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:12,680
and wonder travel?

1451
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:18,800
Her Facebook is Christine Concierge Travel Planner, where you can find her in our Facebook

1452
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:19,800
group.

1453
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:20,800
Yeah.

1454
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:21,800
She's in there.

1455
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:25,920
"The makeup is my sweetheart," and he is shouting out the ACLU.

1456
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:26,820
Yes.

1457
00:52:26,820 --> 00:52:30,260
Things are just getting worse and worse every day, but the ACLU is helping fight.

1458
00:52:30,260 --> 00:52:33,060
That's right, thank you, Jacob.

1459
00:52:33,060 --> 00:52:34,400
Yeah.

1460
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:36,480
And FernCandle.com, that's our friend Kelsey.

1461
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:37,940
She runs the business out of her home.

1462
00:52:37,940 --> 00:52:44,320
She makes sweet candles, that like tobacco sage and lavender, sandalwood, and they last

1463
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:49,300
a long time because they're made with soy wax, and that's FernCandle.com.

1464
00:52:49,300 --> 00:52:51,720
And then Adam Learner is shopping me, "I'm gonna

1465
00:52:51,720 --> 00:52:55,160
see Adam tomorrow," which is why we're recording today.

1466
00:52:55,160 --> 00:53:00,080
I'll see Adam and my friend Sussley at a Labor Day party tomorrow, and he's, we're gonna talk

1467
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,080
cars.

1468
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:02,080
He's the best.

1469
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:03,880
He's getting us the ID4.

1470
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:04,880
ID4?

1471
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:05,880
Yeah.

1472
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:06,880
Yeah.

1473
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,720
And you can just go to Adam's.

1474
00:53:08,720 --> 00:53:11,000
Got a car.com.

1475
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:17,720
And then also, if you need a plumber, you can check out, hit up my friend Mike.

1476
00:53:17,720 --> 00:53:24,480
He's got his plumbing business out of Maricopa County, Arizona, and you can go check out his

1477
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:33,560
website, which is, "Drain Surgeons with an S, drain surgeons, A-Z, like Arizona, dot com."

1478
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,560
And he's got his phone number, his email, everything is right there.

1479
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:41,440
If you mention F-C-L-L, you'll get a $99 sewer line inspection.

1480
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:42,960
So check him out.

1481
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:43,960
Yeah.

1482
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:45,440
And we love you guys.

1483
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:46,440
We love you guys.

1484
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:47,440
Thank you.

1485
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:53,520
We'll see you on tomorrow for Patreon, which is a good Patreon.

1486
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,720
It was a breakthrough.

1487
00:53:55,720 --> 00:53:56,720
Yeah.

1488
00:53:56,720 --> 00:53:57,720
I had a breakthrough.

1489
00:53:57,720 --> 00:53:59,000
Crazy story.

1490
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:00,520
And then we'll see you on Friday.

1491
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:01,520
Yeah.

1492
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:02,520
Bye.

1493
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:03,520
Bye.

1494
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:04,520
♪ It's a good holiday.

1495
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:05,520
Let it go.

1496
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:08,700
♪ In the rain ♪

1497
00:54:08,700 --> 00:54:11,440
(bell ringing)

