1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,880 ♪ I made a decision ♪ 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,880 ♪ Our face is sunny and sun-heared ♪ 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,540 ♪ On a head of vision ♪ 4 00:00:09,540 --> 00:00:10,640 ♪ A light ♪ 5 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:14,840 ♪ Light be light ♪ 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,600 - Hey everybody, what's up? 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,480 It's for crying out loud on a Monday morning. 8 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:21,840 - Monday morning. 9 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,560 - It's Tuesday for you. 10 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:24,720 - I know, you know what? 11 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:25,560 - You know what? 12 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:26,960 - You're the Jews in the house. 13 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,080 - Hey, hey, Jews. 14 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:29,920 - Hey, Jews. 15 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:30,760 - Hey, Jews. 16 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:31,600 - Get Jew-y. 17 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:32,440 - Get Jew-y. 18 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:33,280 - Get Jew-y. 19 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,120 (laughs) 20 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,240 - Oh my God. 21 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:36,080 - We're home not celebrating. 22 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:37,480 - Why aren't you celebrating? 23 00:00:37,480 --> 00:00:38,480 I suppose you're celebrating. 24 00:00:38,480 --> 00:00:39,320 - Oh, you're not singing. 25 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:40,840 - It's a day of atonement. 26 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:41,800 - How come you're not at Tony? 27 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:43,680 - I'm not exactly fasting either 28 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,920 because I'm Jewish as I've told you many times. 29 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:47,760 (laughs) 30 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:48,920 I'm culturally Jewish. 31 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,760 I don't, I'm always surprised when the holidays come up. 32 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,640 I'm like, oh, yeah. 33 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:54,480 - Tupish-va. 34 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:55,320 (laughs) 35 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:56,160 - That's party. 36 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,000 (laughs) 37 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,240 - What's the one you make us a coat? 38 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:59,320 I think it's Tupish-va. 39 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:00,680 - Is that the one? 40 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,800 - Any kind of there used to have a funny joke about, 41 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,400 like the holidays, Jewish holidays. 42 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,680 It's like, you know, it's Tupish, 43 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,800 it's like it's Hanukkah and the next thing you know, 44 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:10,640 it's Tupish-va. 45 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:11,480 (laughs) 46 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:12,320 - Well, it's fast. 47 00:01:12,320 --> 00:01:13,160 - It is suddenly it's poor. 48 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:14,000 - It's a weird flash, yeah. 49 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:14,840 - Yeah, yeah. 50 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,840 - What, it's good just, yeah. 51 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,560 - Yeah, it was just Russia-shana, right? 52 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,840 Yeah, nah. 53 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:20,680 - Was it? 54 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:21,520 - No. 55 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:22,360 - Yes, it was. 56 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:23,200 - It was. 57 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,360 - Russia-shana and Yom Kippur kind of related. 58 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:26,760 - I see. 59 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:27,600 - I think. 60 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:28,440 - Uh-huh. 61 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:29,840 - Okay, do not quote me on this, 62 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,800 but I'm pretty sure Russia-shana you celebrate the new year 63 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,440 and then Yom Kippur is like a, 64 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:35,280 - You did. 65 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:36,120 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 66 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:36,960 - Yeah, you keep it in real. 67 00:01:36,960 --> 00:01:37,800 - I think they're, 68 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,160 they're next to each other for a reason. 69 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,000 - Okay, yeah. 70 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:40,840 - I got you. 71 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:41,800 (laughs) 72 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,000 - Hey, let's say hi to our party people, 73 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,760 some of whom we saw on the Zoom. 74 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:48,800 - We sure did. 75 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,920 We had a great happy hour, Friday night. 76 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,360 - Some of these people were there. 77 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:53,320 It was kinda nice though, 78 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:54,920 'cause it was a similar amount of people, 79 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,280 so we got to talk to everybody. 80 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:57,120 - Yeah, totally. 81 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:58,120 - But a lot of different people. 82 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,040 - Yes, we give each person a chance to, 83 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,600 so hi and chit-chat. 84 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,080 - And tell us what they like about us. 85 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:04,920 - Right, no, just kidding. 86 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:05,920 - 'Cause it makes us feel good. 87 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,800 (laughs) 88 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,520 - How was your week, Steph? 89 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,160 I went to our pal, the doctor that we, 90 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:14,080 don't say his name. 91 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:14,920 - Okay. 92 00:02:14,920 --> 00:02:15,760 - Okay. 93 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:16,600 - I want. 94 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:17,440 - You know I'm Diamond? 95 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:18,280 - Yes. 96 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:19,120 - Our doctor? 97 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:19,960 - Yeah. 98 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:20,960 - I love him very much. 99 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:22,040 - Okay, but. 100 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,280 - No, there's no but, 101 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,880 but I am gonna change doctors. 102 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,440 - No, he like opened up to me. 103 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,760 (sighs) 104 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,680 - Okay, well that's me too. 105 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:33,680 - Oh, we did it to you too? 106 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:34,520 - Yes. 107 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:35,480 (laughs) 108 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,760 - And then I have another friend, the friend that, 109 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,400 oh my God. 110 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,080 - We should talk about this on Patreon. 111 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,360 - Okay, all right, all right, we should. 112 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:47,360 - Because I feel like we could get caught. 113 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,440 - I know, I don't wanna get caught. 114 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:49,280 - I know. 115 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,280 - And did he swear you to secrecy? 116 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,680 Was he like, please don't tell anybody else? 117 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:53,520 - No, he never said that. 118 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,320 - He told me this, he really, 119 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,560 he was like, please don't, please don't, 120 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:58,640 and then he was going, 121 00:02:58,640 --> 00:02:59,680 when he probably did to you, 122 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,480 he was like, "I usually don't open up like this, 123 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,080 but if you're asking me questions." 124 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,440 - Yes. 125 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,520 - But look at how good you are. 126 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,560 You didn't tell me that he said anything to you. 127 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,480 - I know, but I did tell my other friend 128 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,120 who referred me to him. 129 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,400 I told her and she was like, "What?" 130 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:18,240 - Yeah. 131 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,720 - She's like, "What are you talking about?" 132 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:20,800 I've been going in for years. 133 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:21,920 He's never told me that. 134 00:03:21,920 --> 00:03:22,760 - That's crazy. 135 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,760 - And I felt special, but now, 136 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,240 oh my God. 137 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,320 - Okay, Patreon. 138 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:28,160 - All right. 139 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:29,000 - Okay. 140 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,160 - Yeah, 'cause it's kind of juicy. 141 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,360 - I know, and awkward when your GP is like, 142 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:35,600 when you're sitting in their office 143 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:36,720 and it becomes like a therapy, 144 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,640 so it's just like, look, all right. 145 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:40,800 So am I healthy? 146 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,160 Am I dying? 147 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:44,400 - So am I vitamin D levels, by the way? 148 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:45,240 - Yeah. 149 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,320 - You just want to insert that in the conversation 150 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,520 somewhere, just like, just work it in. 151 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:52,360 - Yeah. 152 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:53,200 - How are my sugar levels? 153 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,040 - It's good. 154 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:55,280 - Oh, okay. 155 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,000 Back to you, please, proceed. 156 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,000 - Yeah. 157 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,400 - Isn't that weird? 158 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:00,480 - Yeah. 159 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:01,320 - All right. 160 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:02,640 Well, there it goes, that story. 161 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,320 We'll save it for Patreon. 162 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,840 - Well, were you really gonna talk about him? 163 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,560 - Well, it was just a little in-- 164 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,360 - Oh, just you were just not gonna say his name, 165 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:11,200 so then you thought, 166 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,120 - Yeah, I mean, I could, you wanna talk about it? 167 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:14,320 - Or no. 168 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,040 I don't know, is it really a Patreon? 169 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:17,440 I don't know. 170 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:18,920 Oh my God. 171 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,840 - I, I restart the show. 172 00:04:20,840 --> 00:04:21,840 - Okay. 173 00:04:21,840 --> 00:04:22,880 - I'm concerned. 174 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:23,720 Let's not, let's not. 175 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,600 - Let's be on the safe side. 176 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,560 Listen, if you're already a member of Patreon, 177 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,520 you'll probably enjoy the story. 178 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:31,360 - Yeah. 179 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,160 - And if you are not, 180 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,480 then you won't, maybe wait a week. 181 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:36,320 - Wait a minute, wait a minute. 182 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,320 - I'm just kidding. 183 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:42,040 So how is your health? 184 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,840 - I don't know, they said if they don't call me by Tuesday. 185 00:04:44,840 --> 00:04:45,840 Now, I think I'm good, 186 00:04:45,840 --> 00:04:48,160 but he's ordering all these things, you know. 187 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:49,600 - Why'd you go in, just for a year or a while? 188 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:50,720 - Just as my year. 189 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:51,560 - Oh, okay. 190 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,640 - So I went in, they took my blood, you know, all that stuff. 191 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,400 And did they tell you to have a call onoscopy? 192 00:04:58,400 --> 00:04:59,400 - BS. 193 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:00,520 - Mm-hmm. 194 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,800 It's one of the reasons why I know I should. 195 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,200 So I'm gonna send you to my guy. 196 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:06,040 - Okay, oh good. 197 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,640 - But one that he normally sends to, okay. 198 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,040 - Oh, this is awesome. 199 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,400 - He sent me to somebody. 200 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,320 Remember, I told you this story, but it was a few years ago. 201 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,600 - Yeah, I remember, I remember a lot of it. 202 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:19,600 - Remember I went, 203 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,320 I went into the doctor's office, 204 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,960 to the, he recommended this guy, 205 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,040 and he had some kind of like a German name. 206 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,000 And I go in and he's like an older guy, 207 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:31,920 but one of these doctors, it's like, 208 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,440 "Listen, dude, you're a but doctor. 209 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,880 "Like, don't be so excited about yourself, you know?" 210 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:37,040 (laughing) 211 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,320 He acted like he was some kind of like a Beverly Hills 212 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:40,520 plastic surgeon, right? 213 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:41,360 - Right. 214 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,360 - And the building was, 215 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,880 this is not gonna be interesting to anybody. 216 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:46,880 - But where is it? 217 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,080 - But you know when you're driving, 218 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,840 when you're almost at the target in Woodland Hills, 219 00:05:49,840 --> 00:05:51,320 is that big building house? 220 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:52,160 - Yeah, it looks like the white house. 221 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,000 - Yes. 222 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:53,840 (laughing) 223 00:05:53,840 --> 00:05:54,680 - Is there at the white house? 224 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:55,720 - Have you ever wondered, is anybody 225 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:56,560 that was so weird? 226 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:57,400 - It was so weird, I was so weird. 227 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:58,720 - What's happening there? 228 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,560 - Yeah. 229 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:00,400 - Every time we drive by it, 230 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,160 I act like it's some kind of historical lesson 231 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:03,960 for the kids and like, there's the white house. 232 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:05,320 (laughing) 233 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,960 You guys, it's this building that really does look 234 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:08,800 like the white house. 235 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:09,760 It's got all these pillars, 236 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,160 and you drive by it on the one hand, 237 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:12,000 - It does. 238 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:12,840 - Freeway and you're like, 239 00:06:12,840 --> 00:06:13,680 "Oh my God, what is that?" 240 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:14,840 - It's one of those buildings that stick out, 241 00:06:14,840 --> 00:06:17,360 and you're like, there's a target, and there's all those, 242 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,960 like strip malls, and then there's this white house. 243 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:20,800 - Yes. 244 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,800 - And you're like, "Who is? 245 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:22,640 Who lives there?" 246 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:23,480 Right. 247 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:24,480 - Who's the real itters in there? 248 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:25,320 - Yeah. 249 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:26,160 - And who is there offices? 250 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,000 - Yeah. 251 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,000 - So the one good part of being recommended 252 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,240 to this doctor, the butt doctor, is, 253 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,640 I was like, "Wow, I've never heard of anybody 254 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,840 who actually is in there, so now I get to see 255 00:06:36,840 --> 00:06:37,520 inside that building." 256 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:38,360 - Yeah. 257 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,320 - So I go in, and then, 258 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,880 and it was just like a regular office building inside. 259 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,360 Maybe a little bit more like a courthouse than an office building, 260 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,960 which is appropriate, but so I go in the office, 261 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,920 and the guy comes in to greet me, 262 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,360 and he's wearing like a shirt that's unbuttoned. 263 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,120 Remember, it's like, "Are you serious?" 264 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:59,120 - Well, it's just like, you know, and I had to do something. 265 00:06:59,120 --> 00:06:59,960 - It's a tough job. 266 00:06:59,960 --> 00:07:03,680 - No, it's like he was wearing like a polo shirt. 267 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:04,520 - Oh, okay. 268 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,960 - That was unbuttoned, so you could see kind of tufts of hair, 269 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,720 and he was like, "Oh, older Jewish man." 270 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,240 He was wearing a big like, you know, 271 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,760 and he had that like, "Well, hello." 272 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,800 And then, remember, he was going like, 273 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,120 "You're old enough to be having a call at all." 274 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,720 - Excape, and I was like, "Oh, God, that's not what you're..." 275 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,480 - That's not what you want when you're going to the butt doctor. 276 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,200 - You're doing it in my face, looks like you're right. 277 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,320 - Literally, you see my butt. 278 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:27,160 (laughing) 279 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:28,160 - That's old. 280 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:29,520 - No, that's terrible, but. 281 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:35,160 - So there is, the point of this story is that he started saying, 282 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,320 "Well, listen, you're gonna wanna be put out, 283 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,080 but your shirt doesn't cover it." 284 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:40,920 - I remember that. 285 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:42,960 - But I got all anxious because I was like, 286 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,480 "Well, everybody, I know just does like the toilet sleep." 287 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:46,560 Shouldn't that be good? 288 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:47,400 - Yes. 289 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,040 - And he's like, "Ah, you know, I mean, if that's what you wanna do, 290 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,040 you know, if you can't, basically implying like, 291 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,360 if you can't afford the anesthesia, 292 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:57,840 which is like $250, if you can't afford it, 293 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,040 yeah, I mean, yeah, sure, go with the toilet sleep. 294 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,040 I mean, I don't like it. 295 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,480 He's like, you know, you're a thin person. 296 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:04,600 - Fuck, you might feel it. 297 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,080 - You're a thin person. 298 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:07,400 - Yeah, but don't worry about it, don't worry about it. 299 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,040 I mean, you probably will pop out your stomach. 300 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:10,880 - I know. 301 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,800 - I was like, what? 302 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,480 So then I'm all paranoid. 303 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,320 - Right. 304 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:16,880 - I come home, I'm like, John, 305 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,120 who's already had his colonoscopy. 306 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:19,720 - Yeah, I remember my shoulder then, 307 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:20,800 my back's a year's older than me. 308 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,640 - Yeah. 309 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:25,040 - And he says, "I don't know, I didn't pay for any extra anesthesia. 310 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,040 I just got what was like covered on the thing. 311 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:27,880 I was fine." 312 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:28,720 - Did they put him out? 313 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,600 - Then I started asking people, "No, he had the toilet sleep." 314 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:32,600 - I was like, "You're out." 315 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:33,440 - Right. 316 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,600 - But I asked a bunch of people and they said, 317 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,360 "Yeah, I don't know. 318 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,680 Like I think, no, I don't think I was fully out. 319 00:08:39,680 --> 00:08:40,520 I don't know." 320 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:41,360 - Right. 321 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:44,360 - So then I got like paralyzed with fear. 322 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:45,200 - Right. 323 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:46,040 - I just never did it. 324 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,360 So the next year I go back to our doctor. 325 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:48,600 - Oh, Stephanie, you're just like me. 326 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:49,440 - No, I'm not done with that. 327 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:50,280 - But I have done it. 328 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:51,120 - I know. 329 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:52,600 - So then I go back to the doctor the next year. 330 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,600 He's like, "So did you have the colonoscopy?" 331 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:57,120 And I was like, "No, not so much." 332 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:01,360 So I'm like, "Okay, so then he says me." 333 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,600 - I said, "Well, I would have done the same. 334 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,200 It would have taken me another year." 335 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:06,040 - It took me. 336 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,520 So I was like, to be honest with you, 337 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,520 I said, "The doctor kind of freaked me out 338 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:10,520 and I told him the story." 339 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,120 I was like, "I just didn't really feel that comfortable." 340 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,720 And then I, but I had paid the $75 341 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,200 for the specialist appointment. 342 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,640 - So you have to go in for an appointment first? 343 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,040 - Well, yes, in this case. 344 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:22,960 - He said, "Yes." 345 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,280 - So then he said, "I was like, and then I feel like 346 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,480 you told me that that was the only game in town, 347 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:29,320 that's the only guy." 348 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,480 So I sort of like decided not to do it for then. 349 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,920 And then I said, "Can't I do that thing I hear 350 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:36,040 the ads about all the time?" 351 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,040 Where you just like poop in a cup and then they just 352 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:39,880 check it out for you. 353 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,720 - Right, right. 354 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:41,560 - Like, why can't I do that? 355 00:09:41,560 --> 00:09:42,400 - Right, right. 356 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:46,400 - He's like, "I just rather that you have a colonoscopy 357 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,920 because they can find polyps, 358 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,200 they can start anything that's already there." 359 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,800 And then if you want the next time, five years later, 360 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,440 you can just do the test and then when you're 60, 361 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:58,440 do it again. 362 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,520 So I was like, "All right, but I need a different doctor." 363 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,680 So then he says, and I was like, "Dude, you buried the lead." 364 00:10:05,680 --> 00:10:08,520 He's like, "Well, the doctor I personally use 365 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:09,800 is really great." 366 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:10,640 - Right. 367 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,400 - Well, why don't you give me the one you have to use? 368 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:13,240 - Yes, yes. 369 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:14,080 - Way back then. 370 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:15,120 - Right. 371 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:16,760 - I'm gonna use the old house doctor. 372 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:17,600 - Right. 373 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:18,760 - House burger. 374 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:19,600 - Yeah, good. 375 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:20,960 - When I could be using like the good doctor. 376 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:21,800 - Yes. 377 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:22,640 - Good doctor. 378 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,400 - You don't want the ones with the bell pepper sticking out. 379 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,240 - The parsley. 380 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:29,240 - Parsley doesn't belong in here. 381 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:30,080 - No. 382 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:31,840 - God darn it is so hot in here. 383 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,200 - It is hot. 384 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:34,040 - I'm dying. 385 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:38,120 Hot flashes, colonoscopies. 386 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:39,120 - Yeah. 387 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:43,480 - Okay, so it gives me the name of the good doctor who's, 388 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,960 so you might now remember this story 389 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:48,760 because now this happened more recently 390 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:50,600 when I actually got the colonoscopy. 391 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,760 So I go into the other one and he's kind of like 392 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:54,760 between you and me. 393 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:56,200 He's in North Hollywood. 394 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:57,200 - Oh, nice. 395 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:58,560 Oh, I like North, that's good. 396 00:10:58,560 --> 00:11:00,360 - Yeah, and I went in. 397 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,760 He also is somewhere else that he has office hours. 398 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:05,400 He's like, and I wanna say, 399 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,000 calabassas or somewhere else. 400 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:07,920 - Right. 401 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:08,760 - West like village. 402 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,560 - Somewhere I don't ever frequent. 403 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:11,400 - Right. 404 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,240 - But anyway, I go in to see him. 405 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,080 He's young, memories kind of cute, 406 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,400 but he's really normal. 407 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,240 - Yes. 408 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:19,240 - No, but he was like kind of funny. 409 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:20,080 - Right. 410 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,920 - I felt much more at ease. 411 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:23,840 And then he just didn't even give me a choice. 412 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,680 He's like, no, you're paying for the anesthesia. 413 00:11:25,680 --> 00:11:26,520 - Uh-huh. 414 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,520 - He's like, I don't even mess around. 415 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:29,360 - Right. 416 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:30,200 - He's like, that's it. 417 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,040 - That's good. 418 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,120 - He goes, I don't know, it's like $250, 419 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:34,520 though they'll hit you up for it. 420 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,360 He's like, but I just don't wanna, 421 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,440 it's not worth making a decision about, 422 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:39,280 let's just put you out. 423 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:40,960 And I was like, oh, okay, I like that. 424 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,800 - Yeah. 425 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,600 So did you have to have somebody pick you up? 426 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,000 - I got, yeah, I got dropped off. 427 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:48,040 Yeah. 428 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,320 But you could take an Uber, I think. 429 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:50,160 - Yeah. 430 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,000 - Maybe not. 431 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:51,840 - Maybe not. 432 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,040 - Just who was Wendy's out here? 433 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,960 - Not yet, but all right. 434 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,960 Okay, so now I know what to look forward to. 435 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:58,800 Now I know what to plan for. 436 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,400 - And then that, and then remember I did the prep, 437 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:04,120 and it was that part does suck. 438 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:05,440 I'm not gonna lie to you. 439 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,240 But not as bad as I thought it would be. 440 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,920 People paint it to be this horrible, 441 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,120 the worst part was being hungry, 442 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:15,480 but you drink all that stuff, 443 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:16,960 and then you don't eat that much anyway. 444 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:17,800 So what do you do? 445 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:18,640 - Do you notice? 446 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:19,800 - You don't drink anything. 447 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:20,640 - You just drink everything. 448 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,120 - Okay, so they tell you, 449 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:23,640 - This isn't interesting for anybody. 450 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:24,640 - I think so, right? 451 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,920 - I think so, they tell you not to eat anything, 452 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:31,320 but I still had a little, I had a light breakfast at 8 AM. 453 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,840 'Cause I was like, you had no meal in your house. 454 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:34,840 - There's no possible way I'm gonna, 455 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,440 no, I had some egg whites and a piece of toast. 456 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:39,960 - Oh, okay, with butter. 457 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:41,840 I felt like that might hold me over better, 458 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,240 but honestly, by 10 AM I was already hungry again. 459 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:45,080 - Right. 460 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:46,240 - Didn't do that much for me. 461 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:47,800 - I am hungry in the morning. 462 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,840 But it was fine, by the afternoon you start drinking the stuff, 463 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:53,240 by four o'clock in the afternoon, 464 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,640 and then you're full from drinking that, 465 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,560 and then I fell asleep that night, 466 00:12:57,560 --> 00:13:02,880 and it's not, she made it sound like it's the worst thing 467 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,280 that's ever happened, it wasn't that bad. 468 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:07,640 If anyone's ever been on a fast, 469 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,120 so you don't eat anything the day before? 470 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:11,040 - Mm-hmm. 471 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,840 - Oh, fuck. 472 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:14,480 No, I had breakfast that morning though, that's what I said. 473 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:15,840 - The morning of the thing. 474 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:17,560 - No, the morning before the thing. 475 00:13:17,560 --> 00:13:18,400 - Oh, before the thing. 476 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,040 - I had breakfast, then I didn't eat 477 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,280 for the rest of the day, then you go to sleep that night, 478 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:23,600 then the next morning you go in, 479 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,400 have the procedure, and then you can eat whatever you want. 480 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,480 - Okay, got it. 481 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,040 - The procedure itself was fine. 482 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:31,200 - Right. 483 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,560 You might recall that I was in the office 484 00:13:33,560 --> 00:13:35,400 getting ready for it, and I was trying to jook around 485 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:36,800 with people, and they were not in the mood. 486 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:37,800 - Right. 487 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:39,920 - I was like, I get it, I get it. 488 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:41,240 You know? 489 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,240 - Who's hungry? 490 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,440 (laughing) 491 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,760 - Oh, would you have her breakfast this morning? 492 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:47,280 (laughing) 493 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:48,680 - Well, call it, ask her to be humorous. 494 00:13:48,680 --> 00:13:49,520 - Right, right. 495 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:50,840 - You're like, mm-hmm. 496 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,960 (laughing) 497 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:55,360 - Then I go to sleep. 498 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,040 Night night. 499 00:13:58,040 --> 00:13:59,120 - Yes. 500 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:00,840 And then I do remember telling them, 501 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,560 can you please put me out before you turn me over 502 00:14:03,560 --> 00:14:07,520 and expose my bum to everybody in this room? 503 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:08,360 - And they did? 504 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:09,200 - Yeah. 505 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,040 - Okay. 506 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:10,880 - All right. 507 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:11,880 I was like, this is embarrassing. 508 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:12,720 - And it doesn't hurt. 509 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:13,560 - And it's the worst part. 510 00:14:13,560 --> 00:14:15,560 The worst part is, really, you guys are gonna be looking 511 00:14:15,560 --> 00:14:18,200 at my butt and putting things in there. 512 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,920 Like, "Duh, I don't wanna know if anything that happens." 513 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,080 - Right. 514 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:22,920 - In my business. 515 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:23,760 - Yes. 516 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:24,600 - Just put me to sleep. 517 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:25,760 - Absolutely. 518 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:26,920 - Why would? 519 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,080 - Yeah. 520 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,600 - Imagine what I'd say. 521 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:30,600 - Imagine what I'd say. 522 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,720 - So then when you woke up, there was no pain, 523 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:33,960 no anything? 524 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,280 - Oh no. 525 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:36,120 - Mm-mm. 526 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:36,960 - Okay. 527 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:37,800 - No. 528 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:41,560 And, as you know, when you wake up from surgery, 529 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:44,320 that kind of anesthesia, it's hard to wake up, right? 530 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:45,240 This is not that hard. 531 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,640 It was a little bit more like waking up from a little nap. 532 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:48,480 - Okay. 533 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,000 - Like you wake up and you're like, 534 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,920 "Oh, where am I for a second?" 535 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,360 But then you kind of feel fine. 536 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,200 - Yeah. 537 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,040 - Okay. 538 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,480 - I was, they told me not to drive for the rest of the day, 539 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,880 but honestly, a few hours late. 540 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:00,600 I went home, laid in bed for a little while, 541 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,600 not because I was in pain, just because I was a little tired. 542 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:03,440 - Right. 543 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,280 - And then I was fine. 544 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:05,120 - Okay. 545 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:05,960 - I went to the store. 546 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:06,960 - All right, still had to cook dinner, though. 547 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:07,960 - Yeah, you know. 548 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:08,960 - Of course. 549 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:09,960 I know. 550 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:10,960 - Nobody's like, "No, you, just rest." 551 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:11,960 - Just the rest. 552 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:13,600 - You had to call it Oscar, "Peace, sweetheart." 553 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,120 You just, nobody says that, didn't you? 554 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,720 - No, they don't. 555 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:17,560 - Of course. 556 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:18,400 - No one cares. 557 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:19,240 - Nobody cares. 558 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:20,240 - Mom, what's for dinner? 559 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:21,240 - Mm-mm. 560 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:22,240 I had a hysterectomy. 561 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,880 I was asked, they asked me what's going on. 562 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:24,880 What's for dinner? 563 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:25,880 And they got home. 564 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,920 Like, you know, laying in bed for how long? 565 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,920 Come on now, you gotta get back on the horse. 566 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,560 - Oh my God, I was just talking to Robin. 567 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:34,400 - Robin. 568 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:38,040 - About, about men. 569 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:43,040 And how they never, it's a weird, I think it's a male thing 570 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:45,920 and some of you men are gonna get all offended. 571 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:46,760 - Right. 572 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:47,600 - And I don't really care. 573 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,040 It seems to be a thing where, 574 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,440 and maybe it's because when we were kids, 575 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,400 there were more traditional roles and the mom figured out 576 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:57,720 what's for dinner all the time, 577 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,840 but I feel like there's a thing where, 578 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:02,680 no matter how equal John is, 579 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,400 he still wants to know like, what is the plan? 580 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:06,240 Like, do you eat? 581 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,240 - Totally, what's the plan? 582 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:08,080 - They want to know. 583 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:08,920 - They want to know. 584 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:09,760 - I ain't got what I'm gonna do. 585 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:10,600 - Yeah, you're gonna be doing. 586 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:11,800 - Absolutely. 587 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:13,920 Yeah, no matter how equal. 588 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,200 - There is something to that. 589 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,760 I went out with my friend just to hang out 590 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:21,280 and it was sort of in the evening 591 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:22,840 and I started getting texts from John, 592 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:26,440 like, hey, just what's the plan for dinner? 593 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,120 He's like, well obviously I'm not home. 594 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:28,960 (laughing) 595 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:29,800 There's a plan. 596 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:30,640 You make a plan. 597 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:32,520 So before you go out, do you tell them, 598 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,400 like, I'm not gonna be home in time for dinner 599 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,160 or I'm going out to dinner? 600 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:40,680 That's your cue to, well, take care dinner. 601 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,640 - So Tuesday night and Thursday night these days, 602 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:44,720 I've been teaching. 603 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:46,280 So from five to eight, 604 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,000 which you think is right during dinner time. 605 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:52,000 But John's okay waiting for him to get done 606 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,080 to figure out what's for dinner. 607 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,640 Yeah, but finally recently he started, 608 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,920 like, coming up with some sort of a plan 609 00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:02,320 but he usually doesn't get the plan in motion 610 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:03,840 until after I'm already done teaching. 611 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,120 So therefore I have to be included in it still. 612 00:17:06,120 --> 00:17:09,800 - Remember when I used to drive to Costa Mesa 613 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:11,960 and I would complain 'cause I would get a call 614 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,120 two hours away, like, being in traffic. 615 00:17:15,120 --> 00:17:17,560 - Hey, so I'm just trying to think about dinner. 616 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,120 Well, think about it on your own time. 617 00:17:19,120 --> 00:17:20,960 I'm driving a listen to a podcast. 618 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,080 (laughing) 619 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,240 Have some thoughts and you don't need to share them 620 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:26,720 with me, just take care of it. 621 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:27,560 - Execute them. 622 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,720 (laughing) 623 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,320 Wow. - I need to brainstorm. 624 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:32,800 - No. - But need to always say, 625 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:34,720 oh, okay, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 626 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,400 I'm just trying to ask because I thought 627 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,960 in case you had a plan, why would I have a plan? 628 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:40,920 Why would this time that I drove to Costa Mesa 629 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:42,640 be different than any other time? 630 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,920 Do you think I was, do you think I really this morning 631 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,240 was like, well, tonight I'm making roast chicken? 632 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:48,080 - Mm-hmm. 633 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:49,520 - When I get home, when I get home, our day. 634 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:50,520 - Right. 635 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:51,520 I know what to do. 636 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:52,680 - They don't think. 637 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,520 - Or do they pizza? 638 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:54,360 - Right. 639 00:17:54,360 --> 00:17:56,800 So they, yeah. 640 00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:01,000 I just, the whole, you take care of, 641 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:04,040 they never, my kids are always wanting to know 642 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:05,800 where I am all the time. 643 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,520 - You are. - You're talking to on the phone. 644 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,480 - Me too. - Always, always. 645 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,200 Especially sunny nowadays, you know? 646 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:13,800 And then they wanna know, okay, well, 647 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,280 we'll wait until mom gets home, then we'll eat. 648 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:17,120 - Mom, what? 649 00:18:17,120 --> 00:18:19,320 - Why? - Right, you know? 650 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:20,160 Right. 651 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,880 Or we'll wait 'til she's done exercising, we'll eat. 652 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:23,920 Just eat. 653 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,480 - Right. - You guys, like, where, there's, 654 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,120 you know, there's leftovers, they're old enough, 655 00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:30,920 by the way, to make themselves. 656 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:34,000 I make sure that the fridge is stock now. 657 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,360 They're 14, they need to learn how to make, you know, 658 00:18:37,360 --> 00:18:39,400 the day before it's like, what do we need for lunch? 659 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,160 I make sure they have their lunch the next day. 660 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,480 And then like, I gotta watch the clock and go, 661 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,040 oh, here they come, they're gonna come out in a minute. 662 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,120 I gotta warm it up, I gotta get it. 663 00:18:49,120 --> 00:18:51,160 But, you know, I understand that part, 664 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:52,600 but they're old enough. 665 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,560 And then of course they do this thing where it's like, 666 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,680 yeah, well, it sounded good last night, 667 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,000 but do we have anything else? 668 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:00,080 Sure we do. 669 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,560 Make it, right? 670 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,600 But do you think we did that to ourselves? 671 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:05,600 Yes, yes. 672 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:09,080 I feel like we might have set the stage, 673 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:10,440 not for our success. 674 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,200 - No, we didn't set us up for failure. 675 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:17,400 - Because I think it really does go back to me going, 676 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,400 do you want me to put some cream cheese on the bagel? 677 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:20,480 - I know, absolutely. 678 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,640 - Oh, I don't, there's too many buttons on the toaster I don't 679 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:23,580 know with how to do to bagel. 680 00:19:23,580 --> 00:19:27,480 And instead of teaching them, how to fish, I just brought 681 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:28,480 them some salmon on a plate. 682 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,000 - Right, absolutely. 683 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,880 - I'm like okay, let me hear, I'll show you. 684 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:33,680 And then I show them and then they... 685 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:34,760 The next time, they still. 686 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:35,820 - Yeah. 687 00:19:35,820 --> 00:19:39,360 - Zander has learned how to do more stuff than Sadie. 688 00:19:39,360 --> 00:19:43,000 But if I offer, which I sometimes, it's like a, 689 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,080 knee jerk reaction, it's like, 690 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,880 - I'm hungry, and I'm like, oh, there's some fried rice 691 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,120 from Trader Joe's. 692 00:19:50,120 --> 00:19:51,600 Do you want me to make it for you? 693 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:52,840 Okay, sure. 694 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,360 And then I'm like, I got a story for you. 695 00:19:56,360 --> 00:19:57,200 - What? 696 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:02,040 - So you're gonna lose your mind, Stephanie, except, 697 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,440 but all right. 698 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,760 So it's about a bagel. 699 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,640 - Once upon a bagel. 700 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,160 - I'm gonna be so mad. 701 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,560 I'm getting mad, my blood pressure just went up. 702 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,080 - I gotta go see our doctor. 703 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:15,280 - Right, and hear about his life. 704 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:16,120 - Yes. 705 00:20:16,120 --> 00:20:19,000 - Go to my doctor and hear about his life. 706 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:19,840 - Go on. 707 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,720 - So, all right, yeah. 708 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,440 The other day, okay. 709 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:27,600 Let's back up for a second. 710 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,400 Couple months ago, when they were still in school, 711 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,960 or months back when they were still in school. 712 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,200 You know, I don't know if you've heard this before, 713 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,560 but Adam doesn't like sunny. 714 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,840 Doesn't really care that much about Natalia. 715 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:40,880 And I ask him why. 716 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:42,520 And he said, because you tell me all the time, 717 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:43,960 how healthy she is. 718 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,160 So I don't know to worry about her. 719 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,560 And I'm like, not really though. 720 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,640 I don't think that's the reason why I think it's, 721 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:53,360 'cause she's gonna do what the fuck she wants to do. 722 00:20:53,360 --> 00:20:56,040 And she ain't give a shit what you want her to do. 723 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:57,520 And I think you know that. 724 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,760 So that's why you're leaving Natalia alone. 725 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,800 That's why Natalia is not jumping into the freezing cold. 726 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,840 - Story about a bagel. 727 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:04,680 About a bagel. 728 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,160 - Once upon a bagel. 729 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,640 - Okay, way back, when they were still going to school, 730 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,120 we were arguing about what they were gonna need 731 00:21:13,120 --> 00:21:14,920 for breakfast constantly. 732 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,960 And so Brittany comes up with a solution like she does 733 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:24,120 and was saying, okay, so what do you think Adam could do 734 00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:25,000 to help you? 735 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,000 Because there's a weird thing between sunny and night. 736 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,880 He does not eat anything I make. 737 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:33,080 - Really? - Really? 738 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:37,120 I mean, unless Olga made it and I heated up, maybe, 739 00:21:37,120 --> 00:21:40,400 but for the most part, or if I'm like heating up a pizza, 740 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,680 like frozen, whatever, frozen food, 741 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,280 but if I take the time to cook it, 742 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,680 like if I make him oatmeal in the morning, you know? 743 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,480 - You're allowed to defrost, but if you put any 744 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,360 of your own ingredients in there, not so much. 745 00:21:52,360 --> 00:21:53,200 - Not so much. 746 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,040 - No, I don't know. 747 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,640 He's been that way since he was a baby before he could talk. 748 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:02,640 Like he just doesn't want to, if Olga makes the exact same dish, 749 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,600 he'll eat it up. 750 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,240 I make it, he'll have like one or two, you know, 751 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,920 he plays it down really, you know? 752 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:10,760 - Right. 753 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,680 - He's just got this thing, but there's just that thing between us. 754 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,760 I don't know, it's weird. 755 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:14,600 - What do you think? 756 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,080 - I think so, yeah. 757 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,440 Like from when, we know they say it's kind of a power struggle 758 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:19,280 when they're a kid. 759 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,680 Yeah, I think he's holding onto that fucking thing forever. 760 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,240 It's going to the great. 761 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:27,520 'Cause he still just doesn't want to eat anything I make, make, 762 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,000 you know, cook. 763 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,240 So, I have that hard time. 764 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,840 So I was telling Brittany about that stuff. 765 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,880 I go, I scramble him his eggs. 766 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,720 He loves an egg and cheese burrito. 767 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,680 I can make that all day long. 768 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,160 I'm a great scramble egg person. 769 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:43,000 - Okay. 770 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,080 - And doesn't, I just made him that a couple days ago. 771 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,200 Takes two bites and it's like, yeah, okay. 772 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:49,600 That's fine, I'm good. 773 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:50,440 He just doesn't. 774 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,320 - A lot of downwind. 775 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,160 - Okay. 776 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:55,000 - It's not that great. 777 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:55,840 - Right. 778 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:56,680 - Don't get too excited. 779 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:57,520 That's what it's like. 780 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:58,360 - Yeah, a lot of it. 781 00:22:58,360 --> 00:22:59,200 - Yeah, a lot of it enough. 782 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,040 - Right, not cheesy enough. 783 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:00,880 - But good try, good effort. 784 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,360 A lot of kids are like that, you think? 785 00:23:04,360 --> 00:23:06,040 - I think so. 786 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,920 Well, I actually not about that, 787 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,080 but about not eating, you know, having two bites. 788 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,400 If you're trying to force them to eat 789 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:14,840 when they're not that hungry. 790 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,840 - Right, yeah, I know. 791 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,680 So, you know, some mornings he is hungry. 792 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,920 Some mornings, not so much. 793 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,080 All right, so now we're homeschooling 794 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,200 and he doesn't have to eat before he leaves. 795 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,560 He can have something at break time, whatever. 796 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:33,240 The other morning, he wanted a bagel. 797 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,680 And I've been making bagels for him, you know? 798 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,880 I just automatically get up. 799 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,200 I make myself one, yeah, I totally have to sneak, yeah. 800 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,680 - You may have like a second house 801 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,000 that's got it just a toaster in there. 802 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:44,840 - Just a toaster? 803 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:45,840 - Just a toaster. 804 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:46,840 (laughing) 805 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,000 - Sneak over, get in the car, drive over there, 806 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,000 get your bagel out, toast them a bagel. 807 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,320 - Right, no, you know what I do is I toast it up 808 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,720 and pray that Adam doesn't walk in the kitchen. 809 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,040 - Oh my God, it's like postmates. 810 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:57,880 - Uh-huh. 811 00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:58,720 - And it's exactly. 812 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:02,080 And then just because I don't wanna hear his, you know, 813 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,600 nagging, so then it comes up, it pops up, 814 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,320 then sometimes I hear him coming down the stairs, you know, 815 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,520 from he just wakes up, I had a bedroom door open. 816 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:11,360 - Right. 817 00:24:11,360 --> 00:24:13,120 - And my hurry up, hurry up, I could see where he's coming 818 00:24:13,120 --> 00:24:16,040 and then I'll pop it up, I'm like, that's good enough, 819 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,360 put it on the paper plate and then I'll go into the other room 820 00:24:19,360 --> 00:24:21,400 with the cream cheese. 821 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,800 - My God. 822 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,360 - Into the closet and the pantry closet, 823 00:24:25,360 --> 00:24:27,680 'cause he doesn't go in there and I just, 824 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,200 I, you know, spread it up in there. 825 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,160 - Oh my God, and then send Sunday attacks. 826 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,000 - Yeah, I have it. 827 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,360 - Okay, go down to the pantry. 828 00:24:34,360 --> 00:24:35,640 - I left it in there. 829 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,560 - Totally, that's exactly, I do that, 830 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,040 or if I know he's gonna be in the kitchen, 831 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:44,080 then I hurry it up and then I rush it down to his room. 832 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:44,920 Yeah. 833 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,760 - So that's what I have to do. 834 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:51,760 - John doesn't like it when I make frozen meals in the thing. 835 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,960 Okay, so he's got this thing about how 836 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,840 microwaving plastic is terrible. 837 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:58,680 - Yeah. 838 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,440 - Which, I know, I'm sure it is. 839 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,640 It totally is, it causes Alzheimer's, that's what he says. 840 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:08,120 And I'm sure that he's right, but I am so fucking lazy. 841 00:25:08,120 --> 00:25:08,960 - I know. 842 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,920 - But when I'm hungry, I just wanna put the thing in the microwave. 843 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,760 - Yes. 844 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,880 - So he went and bought all these, 845 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,960 - I was, he went, he didn't go anywhere. 846 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,640 He ordered them on Amazon, all these pyrrex dishes, 847 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,840 and others, so I have no excuse. 848 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,680 - So when I make something for the kids, 849 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,880 I dump the frozen meal into a pyrrex thing, 850 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,400 cover it and put it in the microwave. 851 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,160 - But a lot of times I don't do it for myself, 852 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,360 I just can't be bothered. 853 00:25:31,360 --> 00:25:33,680 But same thing, I have to sneak, like if I, 854 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:34,840 I don't want him to come out, 855 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,840 and I don't want him to see the telltale, 856 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,480 like the box without the empty plastic, 857 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:41,480 because then he'll know, 858 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:42,320 - Right. 859 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:43,680 - Right, scared he's gonna like peek into the microwave 860 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,880 to be like, what's in there? 861 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:45,720 - Right. 862 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,560 - Is there plastic in there? 863 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,400 - Right. 864 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,200 - And then it has happened before where he's caught me, 865 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,640 and then he's been like, I just asked this one thing. 866 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,800 - Ah. 867 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,640 - I just asked this one thing, 868 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:55,480 - That's the only thing. 869 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:56,320 - That's the only thing. 870 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,600 - And then I'm like, I know I usually do, but, 871 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,440 okay, so what happened with the big ol'? 872 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:03,800 Maybe if you made them dinner, 873 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,160 I wouldn't be so tired and lazy. 874 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,880 - So, yeah, so, all right, he wants a bagel. 875 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,680 So I go and make him his bagel, 876 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:15,080 and he goes, wait, one more, oh no! 877 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,840 Wait, no, sorry, sorry, it wasn't a bagel at this point, 878 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,880 it was oatmeal, 'cause Natalia, yay. 879 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:23,720 - Wait. 880 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,080 - He's also not allowed to have an oatmeal? 881 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,360 I mean, I've been eating oatmeal for breakfast 882 00:26:28,360 --> 00:26:29,200 for the last like, 20 more. 883 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,600 - Of course, yes, of course. 884 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,040 - What's wrong with oatmeal? 885 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:34,960 - 'Cause he's a growl, he's a corn, 886 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,440 corn, he needs his protein, I know. 887 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,280 - So he can have protein at the next meal. 888 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,080 - I get it. - But it's not gonna be the stomach. 889 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,320 - I know. 890 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:43,480 - I'm gonna put it out of my phone. 891 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,320 - I know. 892 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,160 - Steel cut, too, by the way. 893 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,480 Steel cut, mother fucking oats. 894 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,600 - I'm sweetened. 895 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,400 I put the heavy cream, the milk, I stir it up, 896 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,400 I put the sugar and cinnamon and all that, 897 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,480 and with sunny, I put blueberries in it. 898 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,240 I was gonna say, little berries never hurt anyone. 899 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,560 - Right, it's the best. 900 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:02,560 - Not any omkippur. 901 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:03,400 - Right. 902 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:04,240 - Okay. 903 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,360 - Can't have it on berries on your own. 904 00:27:05,360 --> 00:27:06,640 - No, no, no, it's supposed to fast. 905 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:07,960 - Right, okay, anyway, go on. 906 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,960 - Well, okay, so it's young kippur every day. 907 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:10,800 And now, for some-- 908 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:11,840 - 'Cause I was sounding a little Jewish, 909 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:13,200 that's why I was like a little sounding, 910 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,440 a little yenta. 911 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,440 - Yes, okay. 912 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,280 So I make, so what happened is, what happened? 913 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,760 Natalia sends me a text. 914 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,520 (laughing) 915 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:25,960 She sends me a text, she's like, 916 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,520 "Can you make me oatmeal?" 917 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,120 And I was like, "Yeah, that sounds good, 918 00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:30,560 "I haven't made it in a long time." 919 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,040 So I sent Sonia text and said, "You want some oatmeal, 920 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,120 "I'm making it for her." 921 00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:35,640 Sure, he says. 922 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,000 All right, so I make two bowls of oatmeal. 923 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,040 I bring her the bowl. 924 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,200 - I love that I'm getting tense, 925 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,480 like this is some kind of like a mafia movie. 926 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,080 Like is there gonna be a hit put out? 927 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,560 - Yeah, maybe. 928 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,160 - I'm getting, like, "Oh, don't get caught." 929 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,160 - Leigh, don't take the gun and learn the-- 930 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,480 - Stirring it on the, there's horror music playing 931 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,040 while you're stirring it on the stove. 932 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,160 - Right, don, don, don, don, don, don, don, don, 933 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,320 so yeah, I circling like a shark. 934 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,720 So I bring, 935 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,720 "Himney oatmeal, I bring, I'm about to walk down the hall, 936 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,280 "he turns the corner." 937 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:09,480 Oh, what you got there? 938 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,640 I go, "Ah, that's for Natalia." 939 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:28,040 - Oh, would Sunny eat? 940 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,040 - No. 941 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,760 - I go, "Well, she asked for it, so I asked him if he wanted some, 942 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,280 "so I gave him some too." 943 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,520 Okay, so you didn't say anything at that point in time? 944 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:37,520 - No! 945 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:38,520 - I come back in the kitchen. 946 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,520 We'll on it. 947 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,520 We need to, we need to really, we gotta figure this out. 948 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,520 Bagels and oatmeal in the morning. 949 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,720 You wanna scramble up an egg for him? 950 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,320 By all means, get up and do it. 951 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:48,320 That's what I told them. 952 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,160 - I don't understand, it's so controlling, 953 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,040 like you can't have a bowl of oatmeal. 954 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,680 - Right. 955 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,880 Right, because he's a growing boy, 956 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,320 and he needs his protein and-- 957 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,160 - So what? 958 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,920 - So he can have some protein as soon as he gets hungry again. 959 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,120 That's what I do. 960 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,040 I eat my cream of wheat in the morning, 961 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,240 it used to be oatmeal. 962 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,360 I go back and forth, cream of wheat. 963 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,200 - Me too. 964 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,440 - And then by like 1130, 965 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:11,720 I'm starting to get hungry again. 966 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,440 So then around there, I start thinking about what I want 967 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:14,800 for lunch and then by lunch time, 968 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:15,640 I make some protein. 969 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,200 - Right, no shit. 970 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,320 It's because he wants to control, exactly. 971 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,680 He wants to be able to control. 972 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,120 - And it doesn't matter. 973 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,800 The kids will eat when they're hungry. 974 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,680 They, I mean, and listen, 975 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,160 I'm not saying that across the board. 976 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,400 Yes, when Sadie was a baby, she didn't eat, 977 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,520 and it had to figure that out and got a nutritionist. 978 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:32,360 But, but, - Right. 979 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,120 - But when is, if there was a problem, 980 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,360 we're gonna address it, but there's not a problem. 981 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,720 They, Sunny will eat, if he's hungry. 982 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:39,560 - Right. 983 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,240 - So he eats a balance of foods. 984 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,080 - He cares. 985 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:42,920 - Right. 986 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,520 So, we're in the kitchen. 987 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,920 I tell him this and I tell him like, listen, 988 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,400 if you want to do it, by all means. 989 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,040 But I'm tired of this argument 990 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,080 and I'm not gonna continue. 991 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,480 Why would I make him scream? 992 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,760 I just, by the way, made him scramble eggs 993 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,560 in cheese burrito yesterday and he took two bites 994 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,840 and went back to class. 995 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,800 So, I try, but I don't, you know, 996 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:07,120 - Also, you're not a sous chef. 997 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,080 You're not, right. 998 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,720 You're not opening the restaurant in the morning 999 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:10,920 and taking everybody's order. 1000 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,640 It's like if somebody says they want oatmeal 1001 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,040 and the other person agrees to it. 1002 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:14,880 - Right, right. 1003 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:15,720 - Right on the bowl, exactly. 1004 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,000 But I'm not like taking everybody's order. 1005 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,440 It's not a freaking room service. 1006 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,200 You're not slipping a sheet under their door 1007 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,040 with the check mark. 1008 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,040 Do you want to OJ with this? 1009 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:25,240 To large or small? 1010 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:26,080 Bacon? 1011 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:26,920 What kind? 1012 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,080 Turkey bacon, regular sausage. 1013 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:28,920 - Bacon, right? 1014 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,760 - Yeah. 1015 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:30,600 - With your eggs. 1016 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,040 I mean, if I had that though, 1017 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:33,520 they wouldn't even want all that. 1018 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,400 They would want what, you know, 1019 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,240 I said, Sunny doesn't really eat anymore. 1020 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:38,080 - Any other day in a... 1021 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,680 - Do you do like any more in the morning? 1022 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:40,680 - Right, like he doesn't eat. 1023 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,080 He has like nuts and stuff once in a while, 1024 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,840 but he usually doesn't eat 1025 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,440 and don't get mad right now 1026 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,880 because she asks for the oatmeal. 1027 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,960 And by the way, why do you always pick on him? 1028 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,480 How come it's not a problem with her? 1029 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,200 And he goes, "Because you tell me she eats." 1030 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,400 So she eats healthy. 1031 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,960 Okay, but still, like, it's a control thing. 1032 00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:01,840 So he's like, I don't know why this has to be 1033 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:02,880 such a big discussion. 1034 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,840 I said, well, obviously things don't, 1035 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,440 it's not working to your liking, 1036 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,040 so you figure out a solution. 1037 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,600 I, by the way, told you months ago, 1038 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,480 'cause Brittany came up with something, 1039 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,600 what do you think would be a good way 1040 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,400 for the kids to eat healthy? 1041 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:23,280 I said, I would love for Adam to not come about it 1042 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,920 as a judgy person to go to Sunny and go, 1043 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,920 hey, on a Saturday, let's come with me to Trader Joe's 1044 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:30,440 or we're gonna go to the grocery store. 1045 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,920 Let's pick out some snacks 1046 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,320 and let's get something that you want to eat in the morning. 1047 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,840 And go shopping with him and find out, like, 1048 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,520 maybe he's only okay with protein in the morning. 1049 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,400 Fine, if that's what he wants, whatever he's okay with, 1050 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:43,440 I don't give a shit. 1051 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:44,760 Whatever, Sunny is gonna eat. 1052 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,200 He's still forces Sunny to, okay, it has to be protein. 1053 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,520 No yogurt, no cereal. 1054 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,880 I guess, but whatever, then fine. 1055 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,960 And if he's not hungry, he doesn't, yeah, cheese, 1056 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,720 there's stuffed, Sunny would like, 1057 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,200 but you take them and figure it out. 1058 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,280 You know, he loves avocados. 1059 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,320 He likes, he doesn't like avocado toast, 1060 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,000 'cause I make it, so, but he likes the leftovers I make for Natai. 1061 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,920 I slice up the avocado, he was eating that for a long time. 1062 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,640 Whatever, Adam, you figure it out. 1063 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,200 I have a lot of avocados and not avocado toast. 1064 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,840 'Cause I'm making it. 1065 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,240 I'm making it, that's why. 1066 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,080 Love carbohydrates. 1067 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:18,920 So, I know. 1068 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,840 Anytime there could be, 1069 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,600 - Togumnail, right? - Remy meal. 1070 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,440 - Amen. 1071 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,400 - Right, deal with it. - So, I know, right? 1072 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:25,920 So, I told him that months ago, 1073 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,760 I go, what happened? 1074 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,840 And by the way, when I told that to him, 1075 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,840 I said, he, I said, that's, he goes, 1076 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,200 "Oh, okay, that's a good idea." 1077 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,120 Did you ever do it? 1078 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,560 You know, if it was the other way around, 1079 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,680 I'd never hear the end of it, but did you ever do it? 1080 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,520 Now, I'm never hearing the end of it still, 1081 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:40,920 because you have a beef with it. 1082 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,960 So, then take him to the grocery store, 1083 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,000 so, what does he do? 1084 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,880 That's a, he goes, that's not, how's that gonna work? 1085 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,360 I'm gonna, what? 1086 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,080 He was like, that's not gonna work. 1087 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,240 That's what he was saying. 1088 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,920 He goes, why, he goes, it doesn't have to be that's what he said. 1089 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,080 It doesn't have to be that difficult. 1090 00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,560 Just, and I go, stop. 1091 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,640 I don't wanna talk about this anymore. 1092 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:02,800 I'm gonna throw up. 1093 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,720 Let's, you figure something out. 1094 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,120 You're the one with the issue, you figure it out. 1095 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,960 Until then, I'm gonna make him a bagel if he's hungry. 1096 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,200 I'm gonna make him oatmeal if he's hungry. 1097 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,520 And, so, he goes, oh, and I say, you know, 1098 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,240 I'm gonna talk to Brittany later today. 1099 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,440 I'll ask her what she thinks. 1100 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,920 I'll tell her about this argument and see what she says. 1101 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,720 And then, and then he leaves the kitchen. 1102 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,600 Then he comes back and he's still like an hour later. 1103 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,040 What time you have Brittany today? 1104 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,920 And I said, like, 130. 1105 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,440 And he goes, well, I'm gonna call in for five minutes. 1106 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:32,840 I just want five minutes. 1107 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,680 And I go, it's a radio show. 1108 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,040 By the way, I call in. 1109 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,640 I'm gonna call in. 1110 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,880 Hey, everybody. 1111 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,040 That A's calling you guys. 1112 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,240 I'm not. 1113 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,040 Brittany, A's, go ahead. 1114 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,240 First time caller. 1115 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,560 What the fuck? 1116 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,880 You know, and I go, first of all, I don't have a lot to talk 1117 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:52,720 about with Brittany. 1118 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:57,000 I don't wanna spend my hour, like, five minutes in the middle 1119 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,960 of it to get you on the line to hear your take. 1120 00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:03,040 I just heard a cabillion times. 1121 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,200 You talked to Brittany about it on your time. 1122 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,480 How about that? 1123 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,160 No, it's just a five minutes, five minutes, five minutes. 1124 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,600 And he's like, I gotta go, five minutes. 1125 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:11,560 I'm gonna call it 130. 1126 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,840 Gotta have your phone on you, whatever. 1127 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,920 I'm like, fine. 1128 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:20,040 I text Matt, because I talked to Brittany, and I text Matt. 1129 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,280 I said, Adam's gonna call me at 130. 1130 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,040 Call it off. 1131 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,320 Well, tell him you can talk to Brittany different time. 1132 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:27,760 I'm not spending my hour. 1133 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,120 'Cause Brittany too, she was like, do you remember? 1134 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,120 I forgot about this. 1135 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,880 'Cause you remember, Lynette, that I wanted you guys to come in 1136 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,400 and talk about this same situation about getting you to 1137 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,400 on the same page with the food. 1138 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,320 Oh my God, you're gonna have to spend 150 or 60 or 70 1139 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,120 or 80 or 200 dollars to talk about it. 1140 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,200 Right. 1141 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:47,640 So, but he didn't want to. 1142 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:52,120 She's like, she reminded, she goes, you asked him to come in 1143 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:56,280 to talk about it, and he was like, at the time, now we got it. 1144 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,920 Like, she's like, I think you two need to be on the same page 1145 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:00,920 as one of the things you're arguing about all the time. 1146 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,960 Okay, so let's go in and get on the same page, Adam. 1147 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,080 No. 1148 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,880 Maybe I should close this door. 1149 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,080 Okay, I'll quote it. 1150 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:09,560 So, go on. 1151 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:10,560 Okay, so. 1152 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:17,080 (bell rings) 1153 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,080 Anyway, all right. 1154 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,880 So I tell him this, I reminded him about that, 1155 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,720 which makes him even more angry or, 1156 00:35:24,720 --> 00:35:26,960 anytime I have a solution or something, 1157 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,280 or I put it back on him, makes him twice as angry. 1158 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:30,120 Right. 1159 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,400 Okay, so it shouldn't be that difficult with that. 1160 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:33,240 Just do it. 1161 00:35:33,240 --> 00:35:34,080 Just do it. 1162 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,200 Just do what I say. 1163 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,120 I said, obviously it's not working what you're doing. 1164 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,400 It's not working. 1165 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:43,720 And right then, so he was about to leave, by the way. 1166 00:35:43,720 --> 00:35:45,360 He was like, I'm gonna call in at one, three. 1167 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,240 He's walking down the hallway, Natalia, it's the break time. 1168 00:35:48,240 --> 00:35:49,680 They both walk out. 1169 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:50,760 Natalia walks out. 1170 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,120 He's about to get his keys walk in. 1171 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,120 Natalia, he's like, I'm just wanna, 1172 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,440 I'm gonna talk to you later today 1173 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,880 because I just don't, 1174 00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,920 Brit oatmeal, bagels, Natalia comes out and she goes, 1175 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,120 I hear, I didn't even see her. 1176 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,800 I hear her voice going, my coach told me to eat oatmeal 1177 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:05,640 every morning. 1178 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:09,160 Yes, girl, yes. 1179 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:10,000 Right? 1180 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:11,400 Woo, that's my queen. 1181 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,040 That's my queen. 1182 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,120 He goes, he just was like defeated. 1183 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,240 He's like, okay, I'll talk to you at one, 30. 1184 00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:21,320 Yeah, I was like, hi, five Natalia. 1185 00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,200 She's like, he did. 1186 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,040 He told me I should eat steel cut oatmeal. 1187 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:24,880 I did. 1188 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:25,960 Yeah, that's good. 1189 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:26,800 Yeah. 1190 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:27,640 What's wrong with that? 1191 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:28,920 Okay, so you canceled the one, 30? 1192 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,280 So I set Matt a text and I called it off. 1193 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,520 I said, don't tell him not to call it one, 30. 1194 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,040 I'm talking, tell him, talk about it. 1195 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,560 It's only his problem. 1196 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:37,400 Yeah. 1197 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,240 So. 1198 00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:39,240 You're not having a problem. 1199 00:36:39,240 --> 00:36:40,080 I'm not having a problem. 1200 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,920 You're going by the gospel word of Natalia's coach. 1201 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:44,760 Yes. 1202 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:45,760 Exactly. 1203 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:46,760 Yeah. 1204 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:47,760 Right. 1205 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,520 So that night, I come home. 1206 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,080 I didn't see him the rest of the day. 1207 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,400 I went to work in the evening, came back. 1208 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,400 By the way, did you tell Brittany about that argument? 1209 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:56,400 Oh, yeah. 1210 00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:02,760 Where she reminded me about, remember, you asked him to come in and talk about it and he 1211 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,160 said, no, we got it. 1212 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:05,160 Right. 1213 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:06,160 Remember that? 1214 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,160 Right. 1215 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,160 And she's like, absolutely not. 1216 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,240 I'm not taking a few minutes out to hear the same thing. 1217 00:37:10,240 --> 00:37:13,240 We hear all the time. 1218 00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:15,680 Once again, she's like, that's your hour. 1219 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:16,680 Period. 1220 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:17,680 I was like, yes, yes, girl. 1221 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:18,680 That's right. 1222 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,800 So I get home that night at like 10 o'clock a night. 1223 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:21,800 I open the fridge. 1224 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:22,800 She's like, I'm Brittany, bitch. 1225 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:29,400 I'm Brittany, bitch, filled with yogurt and salami and the cheese as sunny likes, filled. 1226 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,800 And he's like, yeah, dad and I went to the grocery store. 1227 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:33,800 Oh, see? 1228 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,800 He's a lot of to have yogurt. 1229 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:38,800 Yeah. 1230 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:39,800 Okay. 1231 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,800 That's not protein. 1232 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:41,800 I don't know what it is. 1233 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:42,800 I don't know. 1234 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:43,800 Fat. 1235 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:44,800 It's just carbs. 1236 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:45,800 It's got the fat. 1237 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:46,800 It's got the fat. 1238 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:47,800 The real. 1239 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,800 It's really. 1240 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,080 But it's got to be the right yogurt, the kind that Vinny likes. 1241 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,080 The, what's it called? 1242 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,080 That one. 1243 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,080 Yeah. 1244 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,080 Like it's just one person. 1245 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,080 Right. 1246 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,360 And you know who I don't necessarily agree with. 1247 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,400 Not that my body is in any place to defend my position right now. 1248 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:03,800 But that's COVID's fault. 1249 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,800 That is not, you know, normal. 1250 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:06,800 Right. 1251 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:07,800 Normally. 1252 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:08,800 It's just too restrictive. 1253 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:14,400 I don't, I don't like if I may just go on record is saying, I don't like restricting 1254 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,960 getting kids into restricting. 1255 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:16,960 I agree. 1256 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,640 I agree that food is as bad or good. 1257 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,760 I, we shouldn't even have an argument over food with these kids. 1258 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:22,760 I mean, eat healthy. 1259 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:23,760 They eat healthy. 1260 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:24,760 They eat healthy. 1261 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:25,760 They eat healthy. 1262 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:26,760 They eat healthy. 1263 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:27,760 They eat healthy. 1264 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,760 They eat healthy. 1265 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:29,760 They eat healthy. 1266 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:30,760 They eat healthy. 1267 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:30,760 They eat healthy. 1268 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:31,760 They eat healthy. 1269 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:32,760 They eat healthy. 1270 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:33,760 I mean, eat healthy. 1271 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:34,760 They eat healthy. 1272 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1273 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:37,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1274 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:38,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1275 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:39,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1276 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:40,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1277 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1278 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1279 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:50,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1280 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:52,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1281 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:53,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1282 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:54,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1283 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:55,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1284 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:56,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1285 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:57,760 I mean, I'm not going to be the only one who is a little bit scared of that. 1286 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:11,760 Because he was single and spending a lot of time at the gym with his friend. 1287 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:12,760 I didn't have anything to do with his body because he was too thin when I met him. 1288 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,760 It was from restricting his calories. 1289 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:15,760 It was like, dude, really? 1290 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:17,760 I have some hash browns. 1291 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:18,760 Yes. 1292 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:19,760 Be a drug. 1293 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:20,760 I know. 1294 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,760 I've already immediately did and everything has all been well. 1295 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,760 Yeah. 1296 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,760 I just don't think that's the best way to eat that. 1297 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:27,760 I feel like restriction either. 1298 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,760 I don't think it's good for the kids. 1299 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:34,760 And I don't think, like, listen, am I proud that my kids, you know, that Elby, when she's hungry, 1300 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,760 goes and makes a bowl of sugary cereal, like, is that my favorite thing? 1301 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:45,760 No, but I'm not going to go, um, sugary cereal is bad for you because I feel like that sets up a power struggle. 1302 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:46,760 Yeah. 1303 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,760 And then when I offer her healthy foods, she's going to want the unhealthy stuff even more. 1304 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:51,760 Right. 1305 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:58,760 And then she'll let it be like, hey, sometimes we eat pizza for dinner from Domino's and sometimes we eat a nice, healthy meal. 1306 00:39:58,760 --> 00:39:59,760 Right. 1307 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:04,760 You know, BLTs with turkey bacon, some oven baked French, like, right. 1308 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:05,760 Of course. 1309 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:06,760 I think it's moderation across the board. 1310 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:07,760 Yeah. 1311 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:08,760 I know. 1312 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:09,760 It is. 1313 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:14,760 And also, you don't want to be arguing about the food that they're eating, especially in front of them. 1314 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:15,760 100%. 1315 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:20,760 You know, like, and, and, and, sunny, I don't think he's going to have, like, a weirdo thing with bagels. 1316 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:24,760 I'm worried about that because he seems just fine accepting it when Adam's not around. 1317 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,760 It's when Adam's around. 1318 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:31,760 He, he, he has to make, you know, like, he likes a bowl of cereal at night, you know, for his dessert. 1319 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:36,760 And if he's walking down the hall, spilling in a little bit like he does, and then Adam comes walking out. 1320 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:37,760 A bowl of cereal. 1321 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:38,760 Right. 1322 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:39,760 A bowl of cereal. 1323 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:40,760 A bowl of cereal. 1324 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,760 A bowl of cereal. 1325 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,760 It's not a walking food. 1326 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:47,760 No. 1327 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,760 And not when you're a kid either. 1328 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:55,760 And then, actually, when they're holding it with one hand and doing something like trying to, like, fix the pillow on the couch just right so 1329 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:56,760 when they sit down. 1330 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,760 And I'm like, here, let me fix that for you. 1331 00:40:58,760 --> 00:40:59,760 He goes, no, I got it. 1332 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:03,760 And I see like the bowl is starting to fucking look like the lean tower pizza. 1333 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,760 Like, let me just let me hold it for you or let me do that. 1334 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:07,760 Just one of the other. 1335 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:08,760 Don't do balls because you can't. 1336 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:09,760 I can barely do it. 1337 00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:10,760 Oh, my God. 1338 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:11,760 I got it. 1339 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:12,760 I got it. 1340 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:13,760 I got it. 1341 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:14,760 Sure. 1342 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:15,760 Spill. 1343 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:16,760 Yeah. 1344 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:20,760 Right between the couch that are soggy and it kind of caked on there. 1345 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:21,760 Totally. 1346 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:22,760 That's the worst. 1347 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,760 Adam comes, so he walks and he's like, he sees Adam. 1348 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,760 He's like, first thing he says is, this is my dessert. 1349 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:30,760 Like he's got to defend it. 1350 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,760 And at that time, Adam's fine. 1351 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,760 He's like, I don't care if you have it for dessert. 1352 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,760 I just don't want you having it first thing in the morning. 1353 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,760 You're a growing boy. 1354 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,760 Yeah. 1355 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,760 I'm, I just, I don't like it. 1356 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,760 I don't like it either. 1357 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,760 Um, hopefully Brittany is going to work on that with him. 1358 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:52,760 Yeah. 1359 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,760 I love that you stood your ground like not on my time. 1360 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:55,760 Yes. 1361 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:56,760 Absolutely. 1362 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,760 Having her in the back of my mind all the time is great. 1363 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:00,760 Such a great. 1364 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:08,760 I highly recommend getting somebody that can get on your side and validate what you're thinking 1365 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,760 because you start to think like am I making the right decision? 1366 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:12,760 Yeah. 1367 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,760 Maybe I am wrong. 1368 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:14,760 Maybe. 1369 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,760 But it feels you, you feel more empowered. 1370 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:18,760 Yeah. 1371 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:26,760 My thing is always that when John and I get into an argument, he tends to say that he didn't 1372 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,760 say something that he just said. 1373 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:29,760 Right. 1374 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,760 It could be right after he said it and I could say, argue it and he could be like, why didn't, 1375 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:34,760 I didn't say that. 1376 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:35,760 Like you just said it. 1377 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:36,760 Two seconds ago. 1378 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,760 Right. 1379 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:38,760 And then I get into a thing where I'm happy. 1380 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,760 I wish I had like a record or a photographer. 1381 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:41,760 Yeah. 1382 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:42,760 So I could be like, clear the tape. 1383 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:48,760 Do go back, go back literally 60 seconds and replay what he said. 1384 00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:49,760 Right. 1385 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,760 And then it could be his voice going, I said I would clear more. 1386 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:53,760 I said, I would sweep. 1387 00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:54,760 Why are you keep saying I won't sweep? 1388 00:42:54,760 --> 00:43:00,760 And then I could be like, John, you said, here's you saying I said I would sweep the floor. 1389 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,760 Exhibit A. 1390 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:02,760 Right. 1391 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:03,760 But no, because there's always one of you. 1392 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:05,760 How do you argue when the person goes, I never said that. 1393 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:06,760 I know. 1394 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:07,760 That's impossible. 1395 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:09,760 That's why it's always yes and by the way, when you're doing a show, I know. 1396 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,760 And then you say, you know, you're doing a show because you get nowhere when it's like, I disagree. 1397 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:14,760 Why? 1398 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,760 Well, because I do. 1399 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,760 You know, it's you got to you, you can't argue with that. 1400 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:19,760 Right. 1401 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:20,760 I didn't say that. 1402 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:21,760 Yes, you did say that. 1403 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:23,760 Then you start thinking, did he say that? 1404 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,760 Right. 1405 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:29,760 Even though when you first, when it first comes out of your mouth, when you say you said that, you're 100% sure. 1406 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:30,760 Right. 1407 00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:35,760 But the more they go, I didn't say it, then the whole argument becomes about the wrong thing. 1408 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:39,760 Because now you're literally just arguing about, did they say that or didn't they say that? 1409 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,760 And then you finally get frustrated and go, well, who cares? 1410 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,760 It doesn't matter if you said it or not, let's move on to the thing that we're actually arguing about. 1411 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:46,760 Right. 1412 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:47,760 Which is that you never sweep the floor. 1413 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:48,760 Right. 1414 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:50,760 And then you've told me, this is a hypothetical. 1415 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,760 Then you've told me every time we fight about this, you say, I'll sweep the floor. 1416 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:55,760 Right. 1417 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:56,760 I never said that. 1418 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,760 I said, why don't we rehire the housekeeper to sweep the floor? 1419 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:00,760 Right. 1420 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:10,760 And then you said, why would I be having this argument? 1421 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:20,760 If you said, let's rehire the housekeeper, then that would have been, we would have rehired the housekeeper. 1422 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:21,760 Right. 1423 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,760 What you said was I'm happy to take on sweeping the floor. 1424 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:25,760 No, I didn't. 1425 00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,760 And then you know what you got? 1426 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,760 You know what Adam does? 1427 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,760 He'll give you another, this is what he does. 1428 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:38,760 He'll go, I, he'll go, I never said, then you go, you do that thing where you just said where you say, uh, 1429 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:39,760 well, forget it. 1430 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:40,760 That's not the point. 1431 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:47,760 The point is, and when you do that, he'll go, ah, the point is that you just said, why, that's why we're discussing that. 1432 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:48,760 What do you mean that's not the point? 1433 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,760 The point is that you said something that I said, but I didn't say. 1434 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,760 So he's got to get like all caught up in the semantic shit and what a fucking pension. 1435 00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:01,760 Yeah, John will, John will say like, well, that's a straw man argument. 1436 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,760 And then like, first of all, I don't even really know what a straw man argument is. 1437 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:05,760 Right. 1438 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:11,760 I mean, I have a vague idea and I'm not going to stop the conversation, go, I don't really fully understand the definition of a straw man argument. 1439 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,760 Oh, wait, that's a straw man argument. 1440 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,760 If it is what I think if straw man argument is, then that's one. 1441 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:18,760 Mm-hmm. 1442 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:24,760 Because he gets into a thing where he's like, he basically acts like I change the subject when I'm like, 1443 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,760 no, no, no, no, no, that is what we know. 1444 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,760 I'm like, I should know because I'm the one who called for this conversation. 1445 00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:32,760 Right. 1446 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:41,760 If I say, I want to talk to you because sometimes because I think that I'm a little bit better between the two of us as the one who said, 1447 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:50,760 like, like, okay, if John is upset about something, he just keeps it to himself and then he just acts powdery like he walks around the house and like, you know, just isn't as friendly. 1448 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:51,760 Right. 1449 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:56,760 I'm irritated about something. I just go, hey, I'm irritated about something that I tell him. 1450 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:57,760 That's the better way. 1451 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:01,760 I think it's, listen, it's more irritating in the moment for him. 1452 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:01,760 I'm sure. 1453 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:02,760 Right. 1454 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,760 Because it seems like I'm always picking on him. 1455 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:05,760 Right. 1456 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:09,760 Or he, or he'll get into a thing, you and I know this very well, he's like, you're always irritable. 1457 00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,760 But I'm like, I'm not always irritable. 1458 00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:15,760 I'm just willing to tell you in the moment, like, something that irritates me. 1459 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:16,760 Right. 1460 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:18,760 And then I'm done and I'm moving on. 1461 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:19,760 Right. 1462 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,760 And then he gets upset that I'm irritated at him. 1463 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:23,760 Yes. 1464 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,760 So now he's going to be irritated the rest of the day that I'm irritated at him for five minutes. 1465 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:28,760 Right. 1466 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:29,760 Like, that's not productive, dude. 1467 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:30,760 Right. 1468 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:31,760 I know. 1469 00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,760 What's better is if I just go, hey, you know what I'm irritated about? 1470 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:43,760 When you eat cereal, you take the bowl of cereal, you eat your cereal and then there's still some flakes in there, which harden into literal cement. 1471 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:44,760 Yes. 1472 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:50,760 And then I'm on the side of the bowl and who cleans that? Me. Well, who I should say who scrapes it? 1473 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,760 Who has to get a special scraping tool that's made for scraping dried cereal off of it? 1474 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,760 But then his thing is like, well, no, I don't. 1475 00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:58,760 Oh. 1476 00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,760 Do I need to start taking pictures of it? 1477 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:01,760 Yeah, you do. 1478 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:03,760 So because that's what I have to do. 1479 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:09,760 But let's see, and that's, you know, okay, but let's say I let that happen for a while and I just go, whatever. 1480 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,760 Like, I'm not going to die on that hill. 1481 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:12,760 Right. 1482 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:19,760 But then he'll step it up and it'll be like not just leaving the bowl like in the sink, but now it's like there's one on his desk. 1483 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,760 There's one in the sink. There's one in our bedroom or whatever. 1484 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,760 And then I'm finally like, okay, well, now I got to say something. 1485 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:25,760 Right. 1486 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,760 So I'm like, look, look, can you just can't? 1487 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:32,760 Can you just say if you're going to eat cereal like in bed and then can you just just put it in the sink? 1488 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:33,760 Right. 1489 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:34,760 Put it in the sink afterwards. 1490 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:35,760 Right. 1491 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,760 You know, and then he'll be like, oh, wow. 1492 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:38,760 Okay. 1493 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:46,760 I do, usually I do, this one time I didn't know we're off to the races because then I have to go, well, that's not true. 1494 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:47,760 Right. 1495 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,760 Because I overlooked it because I didn't say anything about it the first 10 times I saw up. 1496 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:56,760 And now I'm sort of like, why am I having a walk around after everybody and pick up their dishes? 1497 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:57,760 Yeah. 1498 00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:58,760 Yeah. 1499 00:47:58,760 --> 00:47:59,760 I agree with that. 1500 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,760 But then he'll just deny my reality and go, that's not the problem. 1501 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:10,760 I'm a little bit on John's side at this point because Adam will just bring it up as soon as he sees it. 1502 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:11,760 He'll call it. 1503 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,760 And I think I'm going along having a nice happy, go lucky day. 1504 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:15,760 Right. 1505 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:16,760 Right. 1506 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:24,760 When he'll all of a sudden go and he'll point something out like, maybe I forgot, I dropped the ball on and he'll go, hey, remember I asked you about the phone number for the mirror company. 1507 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,760 Where is that phone number? 1508 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,760 And I go, sorry, I forgot. 1509 00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:35,760 I just write it down, that's all you need to do. You know, and then he's like moving on and I'm like, piss now like fuck off. 1510 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,760 So I forgot about it or whatever it is. 1511 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:38,760 You know what I mean? 1512 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,760 Just it's the element of surprise is what it is. 1513 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:42,760 Right. 1514 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:52,760 Because you're prepared because you are already noticing, thinking and then saying, right, when I'm the one that's like caught off guard. 1515 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:58,760 You know, but while you were saying that, I was just thinking like, am I like that? And then I thought, I'm actually not. 1516 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:06,760 Would it mind is more is I'm that reaction is usually also to the fact that he will yell at the kids to bus all their stuff. 1517 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,760 And then I'm like, but he doesn't bus his stuff. 1518 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:10,760 I do it. 1519 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:16,760 Like, you don't mean that I'm like, if anybody is going to be yelling at the kids about busing their shit, it should be me. 1520 00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:17,760 Right. 1521 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:27,760 And I'm like, why don't you set an example example? Why don't you set a good example? Right. 1522 00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:34,760 And listen, I do stuff that irritates him, but he just waits until we get to the end. 1523 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:39,760 And he's like, why don't you set an example example? 1524 00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:40,760 Right. 1525 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:50,760 And listen, I do stuff that irritates him, but he just waits until we have an argument, which we don't have arguments that often. 1526 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:57,760 But when we do, when he gets, when he denies my reality and then we start having a fight, then suddenly he brings up stuff. 1527 00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:59,760 And I'm like, well, why don't you just tell me that? 1528 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:00,760 Right. 1529 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:01,760 Before you're mad. 1530 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:03,760 Right. Yeah. I know. 1531 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:04,760 This is just to be helpful. 1532 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:11,760 But I'll tell you one thing too that he does, which drives me insane. And I pointed out and he's like, what are you talking about? You're crazy. 1533 00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:18,760 You know, he doesn't like to me to leave, you know, the cup on the sink without rinsing it out or just put it in the thing. 1534 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:24,760 Yeah. Well, he eats cherries all day long and leaves his pits every fucking place you got. 1535 00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:30,760 And he just does it. I was telling Brittany that and she goes, she was quiet and she goes, he does that here, too. 1536 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:41,760 Walks in with his cherries. I do Brittany over the phone, but he goes and he walks in with his cherries, sits down and then when he leaves, she has to clean them up. 1537 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,760 Oh, no. 1538 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:48,760 Yeah. And I don't go, but I don't, I didn't want to throw Brittany under the bus, but I go, you do that all. 1539 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,760 No, I don't. What are you talking about? I just do it in the kitchen. 1540 00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:57,760 I don't leave them. I know there's, there's one sitting on the, on the nightstand in our bedroom. There's a couple of them. 1541 00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:04,760 I step on them in the bathroom. I remember you had this thing with gum and he was like, I never chew my gum and just put it in places where he found it in the car. 1542 00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:15,760 And he was like, Oh, I guess I do do that. Yeah. Yeah. I never chew gum. Oh, we had a whole thing at Brittany when I said he does that with gum. He takes his gum and he just puts it down or he puts it on the cup that he's, you know, 1543 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:23,760 he just puts it on the counter of our bathroom sometimes like the brushes to you. There's something. And I'm like, what the fuck? And he's like, what are you talking about? 1544 00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:28,760 What are you? He goes, when's the same so many chew gum when I was like, what do I? 1545 00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:35,760 I don't fucking keep track of a diary of when you shoot chew gum. And he's like, I don't, well, okay, when you race. 1546 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:41,760 Oh, when I race once every other year when I'm out racing and chewing gum, is that what you, that's your point? 1547 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:46,760 I don't know, dude. I don't know. I got, I never chew gum. Brittany, I know. I go, yeah, you do. He goes, I never chew gum. 1548 00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:58,760 We leave the appointment, get in the car, sit down, what's right there in the middle of his center council. It's gum. Oh, what did he say? I go, what? And he goes, typical. 1549 00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:06,760 All right. What a, yeah, of course he doesn't like go, oh, you're right. He just goes like, uh, hmm, of course. 1550 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:14,760 Oh, my God. I feel, I feel a little lighter. I mean, I'm, all right. Thanks, Kaylen. 1551 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,760 Thanks guys, you're a parent now, don't ever let up.