1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,880 ♪ I made a decision ♪ 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,600 ♪ I'll face the sunny sun ♪ 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,640 ♪ And I had a vision ♪ 4 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:11,360 ♪ What it's like ♪ 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,560 ♪ Be loved ♪ 6 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:15,120 - Hey everybody, what's up? 7 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,080 Welcome to Our For Cry Not Loud. 8 00:00:18,080 --> 00:00:20,040 And welcome producer Stephanie. 9 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:21,720 - Oh my gosh, thank you so much. 10 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,000 Thank you for having me. 11 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,720 - Stephanie is sitting in Kalin's seat. 12 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,240 - We're fine, so we're fine. 13 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:28,960 Motherfucking solar right now. 14 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,960 - Yeah, mother fuckers. 15 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,200 - Yeah. 16 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,480 - I was peaked behind the curtain. 17 00:00:34,480 --> 00:00:36,200 I do this already. 18 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,080 When I record my other Rose Pricks and Bordea F 19 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,600 and drunkish for that matter, I produce it. 20 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:46,000 So that's why when we kind of made the decision with Kalin, 21 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,400 to us take it over, he's so busy. 22 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,920 And I was like, there's no reason I can't be doing this. 23 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:53,760 - Right. 24 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:54,760 - And now we are. 25 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:55,760 And we're doing it. 26 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,000 And she's sitting behind the desk. 27 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,720 And she's the timer went out. 28 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:01,880 Oh, it did. 29 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,320 (laughs) 30 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,320 That's all right. 31 00:01:04,320 --> 00:01:05,480 Look on your phones. 32 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:06,320 - Yeah. 33 00:01:06,320 --> 00:01:07,160 - Start timing on your phone. 34 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,000 - All right. 35 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:08,840 Anyhoo. 36 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:09,680 - I'm sorry. 37 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,520 You know why it's on power saving? 38 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:12,560 - Oh, okay. 39 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,640 - Well, we're just working out the kinks. 40 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,480 We'll clean this up in post. 41 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:17,320 - Here we go. 42 00:01:17,320 --> 00:01:19,480 Maybe this will, you tell me if it goes out again. 43 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:20,320 - Okay. 44 00:01:20,320 --> 00:01:21,160 - Tell me. 45 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,160 Okay, let's, you know what? 46 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,800 Let's say how do our, let's say how are you doing? 47 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:24,800 - Fantastic friends. 48 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,800 We've got Dick who's frallicking around. 49 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:28,800 - Mm-hmm. 50 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:29,640 - Kelly. 51 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:30,720 - Ooh, what a doll. 52 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,600 - I wanna come up with some new names for them. 53 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:34,760 - Things to say about these people. 54 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,840 But for now, Katie's rolling on these. 55 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,080 Still, Nikki, call your girl. 56 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,320 Elizabeth, she's got a lot of kids. 57 00:01:41,320 --> 00:01:42,160 - Yeah. 58 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:43,000 Sure does. 59 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:43,840 - Too many. 60 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:44,840 - One of my fans. 61 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,360 (laughs) 62 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,240 - Rita's rocking them all in her boss yet, though. 63 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:49,400 So she's helping out. 64 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:50,240 Probably we live here. 65 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,680 Pancakes, Valerie hits it out of the park. 66 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,560 Katarina, check it, girl. 67 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:56,120 - I need to check my own. 68 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,120 - I should take my own advice, Katarina. 69 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,840 Sorry that I'm just... 70 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:01,960 - Pritchie and I are on every week. 71 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:02,800 - I don't know. - I don't know what. 72 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:03,800 - I'm walking the walk. 73 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:07,640 Gabby and Missy, I saw them at Phil's vet over the weekend. 74 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,400 (laughs) 75 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,880 Oh my God, we have both had a recent vet appointment. 76 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:12,640 We need to talk. 77 00:02:12,640 --> 00:02:13,480 Let's talk. 78 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:14,800 - Yeah. 79 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,160 - If we have time, just kidding. 80 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:18,400 - Eshan Vashpay. 81 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,240 - Ooh. 82 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:20,400 - Rebecca Lubin, she's old. 83 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,000 - Oh, telly Branch. 84 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:22,840 She's not your aunt. 85 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,720 Alicia, ask go on, Tay from the city of Malmonte. 86 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,240 - Leslie, come on, girl. 87 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:29,480 - You're not even when that's coughing. 88 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:30,560 - I'm over it. 89 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:31,840 You are. 90 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:32,880 - It's the flow nays. 91 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,160 The flow nays. 92 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,720 That's gonna be my rapper name. 93 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,160 - That's hilarious. 94 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,520 Erin's a dirty Sanchez. 95 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:41,360 Jennifer, get up. 96 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,120 Sandra's not easy being green. 97 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:44,840 Athena, love it. 98 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:45,880 Love the dancing in the makeup. 99 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,040 - Stephanie, she's going for Ashley. 100 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,160 You're so chic, guys. 101 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:50,000 - Yeah. 102 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:50,840 - You guys. 103 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,640 Yep, so. 104 00:02:53,640 --> 00:02:57,200 - We have both visited our respective vet. 105 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,240 - Well, I had a harrowing weekend. 106 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,640 - Oh no, tell me. 107 00:03:01,640 --> 00:03:03,040 - With Phil. 108 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,360 Well, it's more, I was more traumatized. 109 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:11,600 Well, okay, everybody knows that Phil has epilepsy 110 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,600 and he takes medication for it. 111 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:19,440 And usually in the past, when he has a seizure, 112 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,120 it's early, very early in the morning 113 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,040 because for some reason he eats something, here's a pattern. 114 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,360 He'll get into the garbage or he'll get into something, 115 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:32,080 he'll eat something and then it'll digest, sit, 116 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,480 not sit well in his stomach and then by the early morning hours, 117 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:40,200 he will wake up vomit and not always, 118 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,600 but then that's what would lead to a seizure. 119 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,760 That's has been his past. 120 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:48,160 - Do you think that the vomiting itself is a precursor 121 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,400 to the seizure or do you think the vomiting inspires? 122 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:55,000 - He inspires the seizure because he eats something. 123 00:03:55,000 --> 00:04:00,000 He throws up soy packets or whatever it is. 124 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,560 And the vet told me that sometimes, 125 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:04,960 like something stressful, 126 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:09,040 like, you know, discomfort in his intestine track 127 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,840 can do that if a dog has epilepsy. 128 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:16,480 So that's always been his pattern, very early, 129 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:21,480 or very early hours and most of the time followed 130 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,520 after a farthing session. 131 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:29,520 So, okay, Saturday, I am, Natalia's been home, 132 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,880 I'll tell you all about that, it's been a whirlwind, 133 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:33,880 in a good way. 134 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:38,720 And I was, we're just living parallel lives 135 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:42,400 'cause I swear to God, I was going to tell you, 136 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,680 yeah, I wasn't sure if it was gonna be Patreon 137 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:48,120 or just on the show, but about, I'll be being home, 138 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,920 just for like two days. 139 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,080 - Yeah. 140 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:52,440 - And having a good time with her. 141 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,320 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 142 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:58,520 So, okay, so, basically, so I got up with Natalia 143 00:04:58,520 --> 00:04:59,560 was doing a bunch of stuff. 144 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,280 Then I went in my room, I got my laptop sitting on my bed 145 00:05:03,280 --> 00:05:05,600 and it's in the middle of the day. 146 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:10,600 It's like one 30 on Saturday and Phil did not get into anything 147 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,080 at all. 148 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,400 And I know that, 'cause I control it. 149 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:16,240 - Yeah, you control it. 150 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,560 - Yes, did not eat anything bad just in the middle of the day, 151 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,560 laying next to the bed on the hardwood floor 152 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:26,480 starts violently shaking and having a seizure. 153 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,920 And I was like, what? 154 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,160 Like, this is not your time, usually, 155 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:33,760 you know, it's dark out early morning hours. 156 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,440 So, he starts to have a seizure, 157 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,080 and as we've talked about before, he urnates everywhere. 158 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:45,080 And I was trying to get ahead of it by getting towels 159 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:48,320 because what he does is then he gets it all over himself. 160 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:52,000 Oh, and he was chomping the shit out of his mouth 161 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,800 and his tongue, but luckily this time he didn't have 162 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,640 too much blood a little bit. 163 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,680 But I thought, I mean, it just sounds when he's, 164 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,680 'cause his mouth is like, (imitates gun) 165 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,400 it just sounds like he's chewing, like, I thought, 166 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,040 by the sound of it, I was gonna take him to the hospital 167 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,280 to get stitches or something. 168 00:06:08,280 --> 00:06:10,440 'Cause I thought it was gonna be really bad 169 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,320 with blood like last time. 170 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,560 So anyway, he's, you know, he's okay, 171 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,120 but he's in a safe spot, so he's having a seizure. 172 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,440 I get towels because he's, what he's gonna do is 173 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,720 when he comes out of it, he, well, 174 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,720 he lays there for a long time panting and he can't hear me. 175 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:30,000 Then all of a sudden he'll jump up and be like, 176 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,440 "What, what?" 177 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,480 And he'll have, you know, urn all over him, 178 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:36,920 and then but he's out of it, so he's knocking into, 179 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,960 you know, I don't want him bumping into my bed in furniture, 180 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,480 you know, and it was 90 degrees outside, 181 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,240 so I was like, he's, as soon as he comes out of it, 182 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,600 I'm gonna take him outside, hose him down, 183 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,480 it'll feel good to cool him off, you know? 184 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,640 So I had this whole plan, I go into the bathroom 185 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:58,320 and get a towel and I step over his body 186 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:02,160 and my bed is like to the right of me 187 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:07,160 and I like a baby giraffe, like both knees and legs 188 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,320 in two different directions, slip and fall, 189 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,640 hit both kneecaps hard onto the hardwood floor 190 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:17,840 and then hit like my cheek, my upper cheek 191 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,360 under my eye into the metal frame of my bed. 192 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:22,680 - Oh no. 193 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,440 - Yeah, and saw like a white flash. 194 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,680 I saw it coming like in slow motion 195 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,760 and I tried to turn my head and that's why 196 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,760 I hit the cheek of my face, but I was like, 197 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:39,040 I had my bell rang and I've never felt that before. 198 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,120 I've heard people describe it, but I was like, 199 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,880 oh my God, and then I started shaking, 200 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,920 like I got, 'cause it was cool in my bedroom, 201 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,680 the air was going and I wanted to turn it off, 202 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,200 I was getting chilly. 203 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,400 I don't know, I was just like, I was so like out of it. 204 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:57,080 - I was like, nobody was home, no. 205 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,480 I was like shaking and like shivering 206 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,520 and I was like, oh my God, what the fuck? 207 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,240 I just sat there for a second stunned 208 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,720 and then he comes out of it and I'm like, 209 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:11,920 oh God, I gotta like get him now 210 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:15,160 and like I didn't have time to really sit and recover 211 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,400 'cause now he's getting up, he's on the move 212 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,600 and I'm like, I gotta go put him outside 213 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,960 and then as I'm put him outside and it's like 214 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,000 at the door knocking, let me in 215 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,720 'cause she doesn't, I have an app to get into the house 216 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:28,760 and she has to redo it anyway. 217 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,400 So she's at the door with her friends 218 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:31,600 and she's like, are you okay? 219 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:36,600 Like my glasses on my head is all like still like a skew, yeah. 220 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,800 She's like, are you all right? 221 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,120 I was like, and I told her what happened 222 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,080 and she was so helpful, like, oh my God, oh my God, 223 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:45,200 like let me help you. 224 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,720 So you sit down, I'll go, hose out, 225 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,200 hose down, hose to she went outside and she like started 226 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,240 but then I was like, okay, I'm okay, I'm okay 227 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:56,200 and I was, I was fine, spoiler alert. 228 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,080 But I was looking at your face, 229 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:58,920 I don't see a black eye. 230 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:00,920 - No, there's no black eye. 231 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,400 It was like a big red mark, yeah. 232 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,840 But it just was, I've never been hitting the head like that 233 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,480 before, I've never experienced that. 234 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:09,680 - That's so scary. 235 00:09:09,680 --> 00:09:10,680 - Are you? 236 00:09:10,680 --> 00:09:11,520 Have you ever? 237 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,680 - I think, but when I was like a kid, yeah. 238 00:09:14,680 --> 00:09:18,320 I fell off of one of those, we ever talk about those, 239 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:23,240 you know those bars that you would sit on and swing around, 240 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,080 they don't have them anymore, but it would be in the playground 241 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:27,600 and they had it at our school. 242 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,520 You would sit on the bar and you would go back 243 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,160 where you would do circles on it or you'd hang on it. 244 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,320 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 245 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,440 They weren't super high up but you could do like a circle, 246 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,120 like a back flippy thing. 247 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,320 And me and my friend who were gymnasts, 248 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,800 we would try, we were like dare doubles. 249 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,360 So we, Jimmy rigged this way to, 250 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,760 we took a sweat shirt and we put it over our laps 251 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:52,920 and then we tied it underneath us 252 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:54,680 so that we could swing forward. 253 00:09:54,680 --> 00:09:55,520 - Oh great plan. 254 00:09:55,520 --> 00:10:00,240 - But one time it didn't hold and I flew off and I hit my head 255 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,120 and I do remember being like stunned. 256 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:03,960 - Yeah. 257 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,280 - But I was very, I was like elementary school. 258 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:07,280 - Mm-hmm. 259 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:08,360 - Yeah. 260 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,440 I've never, I've never felt that before 261 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,400 and I was just like, I like to remember, 262 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,840 it was an Italian when she was like eight years old 263 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,840 and she fell face first on her roller skates 264 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,400 and she's like, yay, so white flash. 265 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,480 You know, now I know what she, what she was talking about. 266 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,320 - Right. 267 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:29,200 - But yeah, then I was okay and then he was okay 268 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:34,200 and I hosed him down and I called the vet and I asked them, 269 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,960 you know, it's just, it's unusual 'cause usually this, 270 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,800 like why would he have it in the middle of the day? 271 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,160 And she said, well, he might have, you know, 272 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,920 something upsetting and stomach and you just don't know it. 273 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,600 And I was like, okay, and I said, should I bring them in 274 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,840 and they said, no, if you want to, you know, 275 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,160 of course they always want you to come in 276 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:55,000 but they were like. 277 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:55,840 - I'm not saying that. 278 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:57,640 - But I said, but can I just like keep an eye on him? 279 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:00,880 They said, yeah, if, you know, if he's lethargic 280 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,600 and he's not back to, after his seizure, he should, 281 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,200 after about at least a full like two hours, 282 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,680 he should be back to his normal self, 283 00:11:08,680 --> 00:11:10,560 not wandering and bumping into furniture 284 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:13,240 and not, you know, knowing where he was. 285 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:14,240 I mean, he barked. 286 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:17,000 Like, I had to leave them outside for a little bit 287 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:20,040 and I came inside to clean up my mess in my bedroom. 288 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,320 I never hear Phil bark. 289 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,800 He was barking like he wanted to come in. 290 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,520 Then he's out of it. 291 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,280 She said, but after that, if he's not back to his normal self 292 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:31,480 then bring them in and he was totally fine after that. 293 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,320 But now I'm worried like, is it because he's getting older 294 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:39,400 that these seizures could happen more often 295 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,200 because what if I wasn't home, you know? 296 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:43,360 - I know. 297 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:44,440 - Like what happens? 298 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:45,800 - How old is he now? 299 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:49,000 - He's on, he's gonna be nine this year. 300 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,640 - Oh, he's getting up there. 301 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:51,480 - I know. 302 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:57,120 - That's so interesting because we've had people nine years. 303 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:01,280 But I didn't feel like we got our dogs at the same time 304 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:02,560 but I guess we did. 305 00:12:02,560 --> 00:12:05,760 You got Phil at Christmas. 306 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:07,520 - Yeah, he was four months old. 307 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:08,840 - Yeah. 308 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,360 - But you've had him, but okay. 309 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:12,200 - Yeah. 310 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:15,840 - So then we got Penelope in May of 2016. 311 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,200 - Okay, so we got the dogs around the same time. 312 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,680 - So you got Phil in 2015, 313 00:12:21,680 --> 00:12:22,680 turning 16. 314 00:12:22,680 --> 00:12:24,800 - Okay, so you got Phil in then a few months later, 315 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:25,640 we got a dog. 316 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:26,640 - Yeah, yeah. 317 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:28,120 - Oh, that's so interesting. 318 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:28,960 - Yeah. 319 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:30,200 I didn't realize that. 320 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,440 We go back so, it's crazy. 321 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:34,280 - I know. 322 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,280 - It's crazy. 323 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,160 - I know because we've raised our kids together. 324 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:38,320 - Yes. 325 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:39,960 We've literally raised our kids together. 326 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:41,200 - I know, I know. 327 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:42,720 It is crazy. 328 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,840 And I had Molly. 329 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:45,680 - I know. 330 00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:47,520 - And you were like, yeah, yeah, yeah. 331 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:48,520 And then you got a dog and you're like, 332 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:49,760 "Oh, tell me more." 333 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:50,760 (laughing) 334 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:52,880 - Because it was very early. 335 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:55,640 And I was thinking about asking you about this 336 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,920 on the way in because, so we, 337 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,920 John and I took Penelope to the vet. 338 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,600 Basically, a couple of weeks ago, 339 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,560 I started getting a lot of anxiety 340 00:13:06,560 --> 00:13:08,840 about Penelope's behavior. 341 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:10,880 Because as I've told you, 342 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,640 she's doing this sundowning thing. 343 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:13,480 We're at night. 344 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,200 She just is not herself. 345 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,080 She barks a lot at night. 346 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,880 She just barks at us for no reason. 347 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,920 She seems unhappy. 348 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:25,160 And there was this kind of period where I was like, 349 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,440 her quality of life is just not good. 350 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,720 Like she doesn't really want to go for walks. 351 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:34,160 And she's having trouble with the stair. 352 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,520 She's still having trouble with the stairs, blah, blah, blah. 353 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,560 But she is going for kind of going 354 00:13:39,560 --> 00:13:41,160 for a little bit of walks. 355 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,680 She's back to being a better man. 356 00:13:44,680 --> 00:13:45,520 - She's a little better. 357 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:47,280 - But the point is, 358 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,600 we made a vet appointment just for kind of, 359 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,400 I was like, just for a piece of mind, 360 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,000 let's just get a checkup. 361 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:56,240 Yeah, our vet is so kind, you know? 362 00:13:56,240 --> 00:14:00,480 But we, and of course I start crying in the vet appointment, 363 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,040 just in anticipation of, but you know, basically he said, 364 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:05,920 yeah, this is her final phase. 365 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:09,000 Like she's, you know, she's old. 366 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:10,640 And I literally thought of you, 367 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:14,280 'cause I was like, I knew you when Molly was like, 368 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:15,840 in her final phase. 369 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,200 I just remember all the things you were having to do 370 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:19,800 and give her insulin every day. 371 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:24,800 And, but that unwinding period where it's like, 372 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:28,680 just starting to do less and less 373 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,200 and you start wondering like, I'm gonna cry. 374 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,040 - Oh. 375 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:35,520 - But when you're just like, how am I gonna know? 376 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,520 - I know, yes. 377 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:37,360 - How will I know? 378 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:38,600 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 379 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,440 Not like the Whitney Houston song, but. 380 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:41,440 - No, I know who that is. 381 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:42,280 - No. 382 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:43,120 (laughs) 383 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,320 - When my dog needs to go, 384 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:46,840 oh, that's horrible. 385 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,440 No, I just was making myself that because, 386 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:53,400 but our vet, who like I said is very kind, 387 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:57,520 he said like with, he said, with my dog, 388 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:58,760 I waited too long. 389 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:03,240 He said, but I just, I wanted my dog around 390 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:06,200 and I was doing everything I could and I waited too long. 391 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,560 But he said, but you're not doing that. 392 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,960 Like you're not, she's okay. 393 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:11,800 - Yes. 394 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:12,640 - Like, yeah, yes. 395 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:13,640 - We're not there yet. 396 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:14,480 - Yeah. 397 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,120 - Like let's just talk about keeping her comfortable, 398 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,480 basically, and he just said, 399 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:21,400 you know, if she doesn't wanna go for walks, 400 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:22,400 don't take her for a walk. 401 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:23,240 - Right. 402 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:24,080 - You know, it's okay. 403 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,600 It's okay for her just to go pee and come back in the house. 404 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:30,000 Like, it's not a matter of her needing exercises. 405 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:30,840 - Right. 406 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:31,960 - Just like, so if she, he's like, 407 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,520 if she doesn't feel like it, she doesn't feel like it, 408 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:34,520 and that's okay. 409 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:36,080 And then we're upping her. 410 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:41,520 We're past the point of like joint stuff, 411 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:43,160 stuff working for her. 412 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:44,640 - We're just past that. 413 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:46,080 She's a 14 year old dog. 414 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:46,920 - Right. 415 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,880 - You know, we are keeping her comfortable. 416 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:49,720 - Yes. 417 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,520 - And she's like, we can, anyway, but you know, 418 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,400 basically he was like, 419 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,440 she'll eat when she eats and she'll walk 420 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:56,440 when she wants to walk. 421 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:57,280 - Right. 422 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:58,960 - And she'll know. 423 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,360 - But I was still wants to go for walks. 424 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:02,200 - Well, that's the thing. 425 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:03,800 Like, okay, this morning she-- 426 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:04,960 - That's good sign. 427 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:09,160 - This morning she, well, here's the thing. 428 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:10,680 - Yeah, at night she does. 429 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,520 In the morning, I have to make her go for a walk. 430 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:14,360 - Yeah. 431 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:20,000 - Because it's been like 12 hours, like you got a pee this way. 432 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:21,960 But it's because she doesn't, 433 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,400 the getting up in the morning is a little bit hard for her. 434 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:25,640 She knows she's gonna have to, 435 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:27,760 she just looks at you like seriously. 436 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:29,080 - Yeah. 437 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:30,880 - Then I'm gonna have to get up 438 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,760 from having been sleeping all night. 439 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,840 And I'm gonna have to maneuver the couple of stairs to get 440 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:39,280 and then once she's out, so what I do is, 441 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:41,240 I give her a painful in the morning. 442 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:43,680 Then I give her like 15 minutes. 443 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,880 And then we go for little walks. 444 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,480 So we go like, I mean, like a quarter mile. 445 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:50,840 - Yeah, that's nice. 446 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:51,680 That's good. 447 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:53,680 - Just like a round of really big block in our neighborhood. 448 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,920 And you know, she does her business. 449 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:59,120 But in the evening, this is where it gets weird. 450 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,320 'Cause we think she wants to go for a walk. 451 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,840 She barks at us, she whines. 452 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,400 But then we go to take her for a walk 453 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,880 and she'll walk like a couple houses 454 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:07,720 and be like, I'm done. 455 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,080 That sounds like Phil. 456 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:10,200 - Right, yeah. 457 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,920 But then sometimes a lot of times when I walk her, 458 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,040 she will do another block at night. 459 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,000 But that's where we are. 460 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:17,000 Like we're not. 461 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:17,840 - Right, right. 462 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,960 - It's the goner the days were. 463 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:20,800 - Yeah. 464 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:21,640 - Yeah. 465 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:26,280 - Sometimes I'm kind of, not bitter. 466 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:27,440 That's too strong a word. 467 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:30,880 But I'm like, I miss the days where that was my exercise. 468 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:31,720 - Yeah. 469 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:32,400 - I was taking, 470 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,600 can help me for these crazy long walks. 471 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:35,440 - Yeah. 472 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:36,880 - And listening to my podcasts 473 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,320 and rolling calls, it's fun. 474 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:40,160 - Yeah. 475 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:41,000 - Yeah. 476 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,920 Like if I make a call, I'm like, oh, gotta go. 477 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:44,760 - Right. 478 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:45,600 - Right. 479 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:46,440 - We're done. 480 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,280 - Right, right, right. 481 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,360 But I was wondering like with Molly, 482 00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:53,640 what the final phase, I mean, you were giving her 483 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,840 the, she had diabetes. 484 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,280 I was giving her the insulin shop. 485 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:00,000 She was blind and one, well, she went blind in both eyes 486 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,280 and then I had it with surgery in one eye 487 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,800 'cause they didn't know if it would work 488 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,400 and then that was fine. 489 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,960 She had one ear locked off because of the cancer 490 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:08,680 then she had the, 491 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:09,840 - A whole little she had a bad. 492 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:10,840 - She had mass cell tumors. 493 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,960 She was 13. 494 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:13,800 Yeah. 495 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:15,360 - When did she start getting the tumors? 496 00:18:15,360 --> 00:18:18,960 - She was getting the tumors when she was like six years old. 497 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:19,960 - Oh, wow. 498 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:20,960 - Yeah. 499 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,520 She's got diabetes and then she started getting, 500 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:24,840 - Got a bad luck with dogs. 501 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:25,680 - With that dog. 502 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:28,320 Phil's, yeah, Phil just has epilepsy though. 503 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:29,560 - But other than that, 504 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:31,040 like so far, so good. 505 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:31,880 - Right. 506 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:32,720 - Not gone wood. 507 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:33,560 - But yeah. 508 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,280 Molly had, yeah, she had all these health issues. 509 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:38,520 Well, because she came from a pet store. 510 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:42,080 Like, you know, that's what happens. 511 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:45,800 But anyway, so it just got to the point. 512 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:49,920 I knew, so she had these like bloody mass cell tumors 513 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,880 that were the size of a sand dollar, 514 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:54,280 like huge on her body 515 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,880 and then they would have to operate, get it removed 516 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,240 and then another one would pop up 517 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,800 and they would just like get bloody open sores 518 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,960 and then we would manage it 519 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:06,840 and then she wasn't in a lot of pain. 520 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,240 She still was like her normal happy, go lucky self. 521 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:14,400 But it's happened pretty quickly. 522 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,280 Like she, all of a sudden, 523 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,160 could not stand up and couldn't walk. 524 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,600 And that's like within days, when that happened, 525 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,040 I was like, okay. 526 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,080 - That's what the vet basically said. 527 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:29,160 He's like, you know, they get, 528 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,640 they decline slowly and then quickly. 529 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,000 - Right. 530 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,440 That's happening. - And then it's actually 531 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:35,280 - Going to go fast. 532 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:36,120 - Yeah. 533 00:19:36,120 --> 00:19:37,720 That was my experience. 534 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:38,880 Yeah. - So sad. 535 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:40,200 - I know. 536 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,040 I know. 537 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:42,440 - And I know I wasn't like, 538 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,080 I mean, well, I didn't, 539 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:47,600 I think it happened kind of early on, right? 540 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,800 'Cause what year, do you remember what year that was? 541 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,240 - When Molly died. 542 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:53,200 - When Molly died, yeah. 543 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:57,240 It was the first day of the kids' fourth grade. 544 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,680 So, okay. 545 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:01,880 So I guess we had been recording for a while. 546 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:02,720 - Yeah. 547 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,600 - Yeah. 548 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,840 - Well, I'm sorry for if I wasn't more over the top. 549 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:10,560 I guess I just didn't get it. 550 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:11,400 I didn't have a lot of time. 551 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:12,680 - No, so please. 552 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:13,520 No. 553 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:16,960 But you're also, you do keep things kind of close to the vest. 554 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,280 It's not like you came in and you were crying. 555 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,120 - Yeah. 556 00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:20,960 - You know what I mean? 557 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:21,800 - Yeah. 558 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:22,960 - I think you were more a matter of fact. 559 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:23,800 - Yeah. 560 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:24,640 - Yes. 561 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:25,480 - Yeah. 562 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,320 - So I blame you. 563 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:27,160 - Yeah. 564 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,000 - Yeah. 565 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:29,000 - Anyway, you know who I don't blame, 566 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,440 who's sponsor Hero Bread? 567 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:35,720 - I've heard the ads for Hero Bread on some other shows. 568 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:36,800 You know, and I was like, 569 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,040 "Well, I don't know. 570 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,280 We'll see." 571 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,720 But then we got them as a sponsor and they sent us 572 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,240 a bunch of really delicious bread. 573 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:47,000 And I was like, "Wow, this is the thing about this bread 574 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,440 is its low carb bread." 575 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:50,280 - Right. 576 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,800 - So that's what is different about it. 577 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:57,320 But if you've ever tried your just grocery store 578 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,640 low carb stuff, it has a weird taste. 579 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,080 - But Hero is great. 580 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:03,640 It's fluffy. 581 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,880 It feels indulgent. 582 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:07,920 The texture is amazing. 583 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,000 And it's so great if you're on like, you know. 584 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:12,280 - Like Natalia. 585 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:16,120 - She's on a low carb diet and she loved it actually. 586 00:21:16,120 --> 00:21:18,920 She loves it and she wants me to get more. 587 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,920 - Oh my God, and Adam would have loved it. 588 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:21,760 - And he would have loved it. 589 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,200 - Because they have a Hero Classic Plane Biggle. 590 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,200 - Ooh. 591 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,040 - That sounds good. 592 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,920 - Gnet carbs no sugar, 19 grams of protein. 593 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:30,920 - Ooh. 594 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:31,760 - Yeah. 595 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,320 And you'd never know that it's low net carbon high fiber 596 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:35,760 bread from the texture. 597 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,960 So right now Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. 598 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,640 Go to hero.co. 599 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,000 Okay, not com. 600 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,960 Hero.co and use code FCOL, a checkout. 601 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,960 That's FCOL at H-E-R-O.co. 602 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,680 Boom. 603 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:54,520 Boom. 604 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:55,360 - Woo, first and. 605 00:21:55,360 --> 00:21:56,200 - Yeah. 606 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:57,040 - Now Kaelin. 607 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:57,880 - We did it. 608 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,520 - You know, it's funny. 609 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,960 - Not Kaelin will probably listen to our first show. 610 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,480 - If you like let me see how these yachts 611 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,160 is in on their own. 612 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:12,640 - But yeah, Kaelin likes to show his work, you know. 613 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:13,640 - Yes. 614 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,440 - Like what he's doing by telling us when to do the ads. 615 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:17,440 - Right. 616 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:18,840 - Spoiler alert, not that hard. 617 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:19,840 I know. 618 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:25,320 I'm like, I can pretty easily tell us like, let's do hero first. 619 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:26,160 - Right. 620 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,000 - Because there are new sponsors. 621 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:27,840 - Right. 622 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:28,840 - And later we'll do our other two. 623 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:29,680 - Right. 624 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:30,520 Yes. 625 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:31,520 Yeah. 626 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:32,520 Yeah. 627 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,320 By the way, I don't think this is talking how to turn Dylan 628 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,640 had his baby. 629 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,480 - I know. 630 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:37,640 I saw some Facebook. 631 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,640 - On that TV. 632 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:39,480 - Yeah. 633 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:40,480 - That TV's Facebook. 634 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:41,480 - Yeah. 635 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:42,480 - Lucy. 636 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,480 - Lucy. 637 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,480 Little Lucy. 638 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,480 - Thank you. 639 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,480 - Aww. 640 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:47,480 - I love that name. 641 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:51,640 That's my friend Jody's nickname for Natalia, by the way, is Lucy. 642 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:52,640 - Aww. 643 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,120 - I don't know where she was little and they were swimming in the pool. 644 00:22:55,120 --> 00:22:59,200 Natalia kept splashing her and Jody goes, oh, shut up, Lucy. 645 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,440 And then just now to this day calls it Lucy. 646 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:02,440 - What about Lucy? 647 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:03,960 - You, I know. 648 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:04,960 Yeah. 649 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:05,960 - It's funny. 650 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:10,560 My brother, when we were little, because he was seven years younger than me. 651 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,440 So I would tease him sometimes. 652 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:18,360 And when he was really little, you know how kids don't have any like muscle tone or anything? 653 00:23:18,360 --> 00:23:21,000 So he reminded me of silly putty. 654 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,040 So I started calling him putty. 655 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,760 - Putty for like silly putty, you know? 656 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,880 And it literally stuck and now all, you know, to this day. 657 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:31,880 - 50 years later. 658 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:32,880 Yeah. 659 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:33,880 You call him let up putty. 660 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:34,880 - Putty, call him putty. 661 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,880 Hey putty. 662 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:36,880 - Yeah. 663 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:37,880 - Did you get a nickname? 664 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:38,880 - No. 665 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:39,880 - No. 666 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:40,880 - I didn't. 667 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:41,880 Cause he was my little brother. 668 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:42,880 - Right. 669 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:43,880 Yeah. 670 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:44,880 - Yeah. 671 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:45,880 - Okay. 672 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:46,880 So I have a funny, a little funny thing to tell you. 673 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:47,880 - Yeah. 674 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:48,880 Okay. 675 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,560 Well, it's within a bigger story and then we can also talk about our kids. 676 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:53,560 - Yes. 677 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,680 - All that good stuff, but I'm sure Sonny's not back yet. 678 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:57,680 - No, not to the night. 679 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,680 - Yeah. 680 00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,680 - Right. 681 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,840 Same with, that's when LB gets officially out of school. 682 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:02,840 But okay. 683 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,480 So my kids had their big music show, you know, the thing I've been hearing up for. 684 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:07,480 - Yes. 685 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:08,480 Yes. 686 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,480 Yes. 687 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,480 I clip. 688 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:11,480 - Yeah. 689 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:12,480 And John Facebook. 690 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:13,480 - So cute. 691 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:14,480 - Yeah. 692 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:15,480 - It's John Facebook. 693 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:16,480 - Yeah. 694 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:17,480 - It's John Facebook. 695 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:18,480 - Yeah. 696 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:18,520 - They did Bonso goes to Bitburg by the Ramones because my husband's raised him right. 697 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,760 And so that was Zander's band. 698 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,640 So the kids are in different bands. 699 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:24,640 - Right. 700 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,680 - But Zander's band did that song and they had Sadie come guest on the song, which was really 701 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,680 cute. 702 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:30,680 - That's so cute. 703 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:31,680 I know. 704 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:32,200 And it was a great show. 705 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,480 And as I always tell you, like I'm in charge of it. 706 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,480 - Mm-hmm. 707 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:42,000 - Which I literally just wrote that the, the, the our music teacher just wrote to me and 708 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,680 thanked me for running the show. 709 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,600 And it was, I wrote it back and I was like, it's really funny. 710 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,200 If you really knew me, I'm not type A. 711 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,920 I know everybody listening is going to be like, you are a go getter. 712 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:59,120 I know, I know that it seems like I'm a go, I don't feel in my heart. 713 00:24:59,120 --> 00:25:00,120 - Right. 714 00:25:00,120 --> 00:25:01,120 - I am not a go getter. 715 00:25:01,120 --> 00:25:02,120 - Okay. 716 00:25:02,120 --> 00:25:08,840 - But sometimes I get forced into it because whatever my issues are where I'm just like, 717 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:09,840 people please are. 718 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:10,840 - Yeah. 719 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,600 - Like no one's stepping up to do this. 720 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:18,680 If I, sometimes if I get asked to do something, I do have trouble saying no and making a boundary. 721 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,680 - Right. 722 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,680 - So then I say yes. 723 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:25,480 And then I appeal to people's, you know, better nature and I go, hey, who wants to help me 724 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,480 with this? 725 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,480 And other people don't have the same issue. 726 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,520 I have, they're not people, please are. 727 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,760 So they're just like, I'm good time with that. 728 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:34,760 - Yeah. 729 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:35,760 - No thing. 730 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:41,000 They are like, I wish I was, which they're like, hey, tell me what to do and I'll do it. 731 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,480 But I'm not, I'm not like being in charge of this. 732 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:45,480 - Right. 733 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:52,080 - I had to be in charge of all aspects of it from doing the raffle because when some in 734 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:55,560 charge of it, I'm like, well, I want to make money first, right? 735 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:59,000 You know, and we made a lot of money. 736 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,080 But you're good with the raffles. 737 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,080 Like you have good ideas. 738 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,080 - I do. 739 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:12,640 - That's one of the main, you know, criteria of being a good raffle put together is you, 740 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:17,080 you know, is having good ideas about what, you know, stuff you should raffle off and then 741 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,880 going and then following through and going and getting. 742 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:20,880 - Yeah. 743 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,920 Well, I'm good where I don't mind asking people for stuff. 744 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:29,120 But I did ask for sort of items and nobody came forward. 745 00:26:29,120 --> 00:26:36,040 Except for my friend, Tamara, who's the gray by Tamara Mello. 746 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,040 - Yeah. 747 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:41,080 - It's my friend who was a guest on the show, which she has to come back when you're here. 748 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,080 - Yeah. 749 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:48,240 - And she makes beautiful, really cool jewelry, which is great for like anniversary gifts. 750 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,880 So she made me this like metal cuff thing with earrings that match. 751 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:53,880 - Oh, yeah. 752 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:54,880 - That was one of my items. 753 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,480 Then I made all the parents donate gift cards. 754 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:58,480 - Nice. 755 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,960 - And I did two gift card prizes. 756 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:02,960 So okay. 757 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,720 So I have two little things to tell you. 758 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:10,000 But one of the things is funny about myself, which is that, okay. 759 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:15,320 So I also did collected for a class gift for our music teacher. 760 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:16,320 Right? 761 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,720 So again, nobody, I had to do it. 762 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,680 I had to be like, here's my Venmo if you want to donate. 763 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,240 And then I had to go to the bank and get the cash. 764 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,120 And then you know, you get people, I'm like, hey, I'm going to the bank to get the money. 765 00:27:30,120 --> 00:27:33,640 And then the next day people are like, hey, can I still Venmo you? 766 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,720 Just bring cash to the show. 767 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:38,720 Do it yourself. 768 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,600 I'll add it to the gift, you know, because I don't want to, I'm not trying to go to the 769 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:43,600 bank every day. 770 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,600 - I know. 771 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,000 - So anyway, that happened. 772 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,000 - Hassel. 773 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:52,240 - So then the morning of the show, it was Saturday morning, I was like, well, I want to 774 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:57,600 give them flowers with the card and the cash. 775 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:04,000 And then I really remembered that I was going to my 12 step meeting that morning and my 776 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,680 A8, whatever. 777 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:06,680 You know what I mean? 778 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,120 My birthday had been the 22nd of May. 779 00:28:09,120 --> 00:28:10,560 That's when I was 16. 780 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:11,560 - Right. 781 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:12,560 - You're sober. 782 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,560 We've talked about that. 783 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:18,760 So, but it just so happened that I didn't take my, do my celebration where they give you 784 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:19,760 a cake. 785 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,760 It's a fake cake. 786 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:21,760 - Yes. 787 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,440 - But they, they sing happy birthday and then you make a little, you say something. 788 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:26,440 Okay. 789 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,600 So that didn't have, that literally happened the day of the music show. 790 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:31,600 Okay. 791 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,800 All of this is to, I'm putting into context something that I do think it has a little 792 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:35,800 payoff. 793 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:36,800 It's funny. 794 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:41,400 So my sponsor gave me some beautiful flowers. 795 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:42,400 Oh. 796 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,040 - For my birthday and my mind. 797 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,160 I was like, oh, I know what I'm going to do with these flowers. 798 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,920 I'm not giving it to my music teacher. 799 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:50,920 - Right. 800 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:51,920 - So I don't have to go buy flowers. 801 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:52,920 Right? 802 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:53,920 - Right. 803 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:54,920 Great idea. 804 00:28:54,920 --> 00:29:00,000 So I bring the flowers and I'm sitting behind like the bake sale table with this other mom 805 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:06,840 who's my co-chair of the, she's really a great, she's a friend of mine. 806 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,320 She's really, really nice. 807 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,800 But she, I don't know her that well, you know, at the school. 808 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:12,800 - At the school, right? 809 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,800 - At the school. 810 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,000 She's my friend at school that was, that, which I'll get to, which she stepped up to help 811 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,360 me the night of. 812 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:23,680 She doesn't even have a kid in the music show, but she, she, you know, she texted me and 813 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,920 she was like, hey, do you need help the night of our life? 814 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,920 - Oh, are these people? 815 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:28,920 - Yes. 816 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:29,920 Thank you. 817 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:35,280 - You have, yeah, don't have anything, you know, no kid in the show, but like still stepping 818 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,280 up to, she's super involved. 819 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,720 And she's the one though, it's kind of her fault that I'm the co-chair of the fundraising 820 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:47,560 committee, which is not my jam, but it's because she asked me to do it with her. 821 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:51,160 And then remember I tried to get out of it and I wrote to everybody and I was like, guys, 822 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:52,160 I'm really not good at this. 823 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:56,320 I'm getting all these emails and they're going over my head and they're like, no, please 824 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:57,320 stay. 825 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:58,320 We'll send you less emails. 826 00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,320 - All right. 827 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,120 So that's my friend. 828 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,120 Her name's Nancy. 829 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:08,160 But anyway, hopefully she'll never listen to this podcast because so I pull out the flowers 830 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:12,800 and I was like, hey, I got, so I got the flowers for our teacher and she's like, oh, those 831 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:13,800 are so pretty. 832 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:17,760 She goes, where'd you get them? 833 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:22,240 And I went straight to a lie. 834 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:27,720 And of course I did a lie that had to make me sound better anyway. 835 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,720 - Right. 836 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,720 - The first thing I thought of I was just like, gelsons. 837 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,720 - That's good. 838 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,240 Good, good, good. 839 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:39,920 What happened that I had to even, I couldn't say trader, here's what my brain did really, 840 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:40,920 really quickly. 841 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:46,120 I was like, I don't remember if trader Joe's flowers say they're from trader Joe's and 842 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:47,720 these didn't say anything. 843 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:48,720 - Right. 844 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,480 - So I could have said ralfs like a normal person. 845 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:52,480 - Yeah. 846 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,720 - But I just went to gelsons because it's expensive. 847 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:55,720 - And they're beautiful flowers. 848 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,720 - And they look. 849 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,720 - Yeah. 850 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,280 - So I made myself sound a lot better than I am. 851 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:03,840 And I was like, why did I immediately lie? 852 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:08,040 Then I had to give myself a little slot because I was like, well, the truth would have required 853 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,040 way too much explanation. 854 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,040 - Right. 855 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,040 - Right. 856 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,040 Well, I quit drinking 16 years ago. 857 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:14,040 - Yeah. 858 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,040 - You don't need to go down that road. 859 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:19,520 - And everybody's, and I'm in a program, releasing you, and somebody gave me flowers and 860 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,560 I thought, yes, you just need all that. 861 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:29,160 But right after I did it, my heart, I just felt so dishonest and I had that moment where 862 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,880 I was like, do I say, I'm sorry, I just lied to you. 863 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:38,680 And then I was like, no, because then I'd have to tell her, it was, yeah, I would have done 864 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:39,680 the same thing. 865 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:40,680 Yes. 866 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:46,840 But it was just such a weird lie to go like, I really expensive, like the most expensive grocery 867 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:47,840 store. 868 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,440 Only the best for our team. 869 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:50,440 - Yes. 870 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:54,440 - No, I regifted flowers. 871 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:55,440 - That's funny. 872 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,640 - What the fuck am I going to do with flowers? 873 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,240 - You're like Adam because there was the mother's day. 874 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:02,240 - Yeah. 875 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:03,240 - Tell her. 876 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:09,280 - There was a mother's day weekend and who, oh, Olga, stop by and dropped off flowers for 877 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:10,280 me. 878 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:11,360 And I was like, thank you, Olga. 879 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,000 That was really pretty. 880 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:18,200 And then she leaves and we're packing up the kids to get ready to have like go over to 881 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:25,040 Adam's mom's for mother's day brunch and Adam's like, oh, I said, are you going to bring 882 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,040 your mom? 883 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:30,200 Usually he would bring like champagne or something, you know, like that for his mom. 884 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,280 And I said, are you going to bring something for your mom? 885 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,720 And he was like, oh, I forgot, champagne. 886 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:39,120 And he's like, hmm, you really want those flowers? 887 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:43,840 And I was like, okay, take them near my mom's. 888 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,240 What am I going to say? 889 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,240 Yeah. 890 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:48,160 Yeah. 891 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,640 Didn't he want another time though and not being funny and ironic like we would be, but 892 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,240 didn't he give you a card where he crossed out? 893 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,280 - We have for like a sympathy card? 894 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:58,280 - Yes. 895 00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:59,280 - Yes. 896 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:00,280 Oh, that was this thing. 897 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,280 Yeah. 898 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,280 I had cards in our closet. 899 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,280 - Uh-huh. 900 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,320 - Just random, you know, happy two-year-old birthday or sympathy. 901 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,840 It was like, yeah, I think it was our anniversary and he like crossed out, you know, my deepest 902 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,800 sympathies and used it as an anniversary card. 903 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:19,560 See, now that would make me laugh if I knew the person was just like a funny person. 904 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:20,560 - Right. 905 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,320 - But even though he is a funny person, I don't think he was doing it. 906 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,320 - Yeah, he wasn't doing it. 907 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,880 - No, he wasn't trying to be ironic. 908 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:31,920 He went into the closet, looked for a card and was like, well, I guess this is good enough. 909 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,040 I can't give her the two-year-old birthday card. 910 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,040 - Right. 911 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:36,040 - That's ridiculous. 912 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,560 That would be two over the top. 913 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:39,560 - Yeah. 914 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,760 - That would actually be funny though. 915 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:41,760 - Yeah. 916 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:42,760 - Yeah. 917 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:47,560 - I taught my kids, we have all these like funny things when it comes to cards. 918 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,880 One of the things we do and they do it to their friends now is just get like super religious 919 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,880 cards, you know? 920 00:33:53,880 --> 00:34:00,920 Like in Jesus' name, I want you to be filled blessed on your birth like the more over the 921 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,000 top, like Bible quotes, like the funny or it is. 922 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,280 - I love that your kids have a sense of humor. 923 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:07,280 It's the best. 924 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,280 - Oh, they're really funny. 925 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:09,280 - Yeah. 926 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:11,080 And that their friends have it, you know? 927 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,080 - Oh, yeah. 928 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:18,920 - I love doing that or they'll do, you know, like a happy 90th to their friends. 929 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,920 - Yeah, that's cute. 930 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,120 - We used to like to do the also the one where you go like it's your like a one-year-old 931 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:28,200 party and then you just add a little zero or their 10 right? 932 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,720 - Hoping they get that it's a joke. 933 00:34:29,720 --> 00:34:30,720 - Right. 934 00:34:30,720 --> 00:34:31,720 - Not like an Adam. 935 00:34:31,720 --> 00:34:32,720 - Right. 936 00:34:32,720 --> 00:34:38,120 - But like, why would you have a one-year-old birthday card playing around? 937 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:39,120 - Yeah, exactly. 938 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,120 - Yeah. 939 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,560 - I always feel a little bit embarrassed like I'll go to the 99 cents store or the dollar 940 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,560 store whenever it's, is there even a 99 cents store? 941 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:48,560 - I don't know, I think it's-- 942 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,640 - The dollar store is a dollar 25. 943 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:51,640 - Uh-huh. 944 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:52,640 - Everything is a dollar 25. 945 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,640 - Right, right. 946 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:57,400 - And also I was at the dollar store the other day and they started sneaking into some 947 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,400 shit that's like 450. 948 00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,400 - That's, I know. 949 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,400 - Oh, okay. 950 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,400 - Like, let's not the dollar. 951 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,880 You can call yourself the dollar. 952 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,680 It's not the 450 store. 953 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:07,680 - Yeah. 954 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:08,680 - And it's not five below. 955 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:09,680 - Right. 956 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:10,680 - Yes. 957 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,560 And 99 cents store was doing that too for a while, weren't they? 958 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:14,560 - Yeah. 959 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,760 - There was little things that were not 99 cents. 960 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:17,760 - Yes. 961 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,400 - So there was the 99 cents store and then there's dollar tree. 962 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,400 - Right. 963 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:25,920 - If you're the 99 cents store and you came first, you got to be a little annoyed that 964 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,480 the dollar tree comes by and they're like, we're just one cents a night. 965 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,480 - Right. 966 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:31,480 (laughs) 967 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:36,320 - Or if the dollar tree was first and then the 99 cents store comes and they're like, 968 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:37,320 well, we're 99 cents a day. 969 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:38,320 - Yes. 970 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,320 - The dollar tree's like, all right. 971 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:40,320 - Right. 972 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,320 (laughs) 973 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,320 - Oh, look at you. 974 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:45,320 - Right. 975 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,560 - Undercutting us by a penny. 976 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,560 - Right. 977 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,440 - Feel good about yourselves. 978 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,280 I've never been to a dollar tree. 979 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,280 You have it. 980 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,280 - Mm-mm. 981 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,480 - There's some stuff that is good to get there. 982 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:02,400 Like, I was actually looking for something to put my gift cards. 983 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,080 That's why I was actually there. 984 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,840 So, because how do you give gift cards? 985 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,840 How do you make it look nice for a rough one? 986 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:11,840 - Right. 987 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:12,840 - Right. 988 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:17,800 - So, what I did was I bought these little baskets that were a dollar 25, the dollar tree. 989 00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:24,560 And then they were little baskets and then I made, I took this, it's like this gummy stuff 990 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:29,280 that you buy and it sticks stuff together but it's really easy to pull it apart. 991 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:30,280 - Oh, yeah. 992 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,280 - Oh, glue. 993 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:32,280 - Yeah. 994 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,000 - It's like little glue strips and you just take a little piece of it and you just stick 995 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,600 the gift cards together and I made them all a little-- 996 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:38,600 - Oh, that's cute. 997 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,680 - And I put it in the, with a little bit of candy. 998 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:42,680 - That's cute. 999 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:43,680 - That's a little like chocolate kisses. 1000 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,840 And I had some shred and I just made these little things with the gift cards. 1001 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:48,840 - Oh. 1002 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:49,840 - Nice. 1003 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,840 - Look at you, Martha Stewart. 1004 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:51,840 - I know. 1005 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:56,880 I've become somebody I'm not like on the day of setting everything up. 1006 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:57,880 - Right. 1007 00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:58,880 - Oh. 1008 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:03,080 - Okay, so here's the other little thing I was going to tell you. 1009 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,400 - But you know what? 1010 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,880 Let's actually hear from our other sponsors first. 1011 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:07,880 - Yes. 1012 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,400 - What's about Skylight? 1013 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:15,880 - Let me tell you about, okay, Skylight, they sent me one of their monitors and I loved it 1014 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:21,880 so much and I set it up on my phone and it gives you, you can do, you can do meal plans, 1015 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:26,560 you can do your grocery list, the kids, husbands, they can add. 1016 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00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:21,200 In our circle. 1067 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:22,200 And then we find out they do. 1068 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:23,200 And we're like, I know. 1069 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:24,200 I know. 1070 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,200 I know. 1071 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:26,200 Can we have anything to ourselves? 1072 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,200 Right. 1073 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,600 It's none of your business. 1074 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,960 Can we have our public free broadcast that broadcast to anybody who wants to listen to 1075 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,960 ourselves? 1076 00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:35,960 Yes. 1077 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:35,960 Yes. 1078 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,840 And you not invade my private life. 1079 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:45,000 The worst is when you get that text that said, hey, I was listening to your podcast. 1080 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:49,560 And then you got to open a text and you're like, let me get a gulp of water before I 1081 00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,560 open this text. 1082 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,560 It could go either way. 1083 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:53,560 Yes. 1084 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:54,560 Oh my God. 1085 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:55,560 You guys are funnier. 1086 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:56,560 Yeah. 1087 00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:57,560 Yeah, I heard you talk some shit. 1088 00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:58,560 Oh my God. 1089 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:01,040 And then your stomach drops and you go, what? 1090 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:02,040 Remember what I say? 1091 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,040 What I say? 1092 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:08,600 Remember what I told you that the, that are, that my old neighbor divorced dad. 1093 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:09,600 Yes. 1094 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,840 Was sent me a text after a long time. 1095 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:15,640 And it was like, hey, I have a strange thing to ask you. 1096 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:16,640 Remember that? 1097 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:17,640 And I was like, oh no. 1098 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:22,480 And he go back in the archives and like, what did I say was right? 1099 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,480 Right. 1100 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:24,480 You know? 1101 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:25,480 Yeah. 1102 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,120 That's our busy anyway, right? 1103 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:28,120 But didn't happen. 1104 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:29,960 But so please don't listen to this. 1105 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:34,720 But this is the thing that, that happened that annoyed me at the kid's show. 1106 00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:35,720 Okay. 1107 00:41:35,720 --> 00:41:43,200 So again, I'm not trying to pat myself on the back, but I worked really, really hard. 1108 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,040 I asked the parents, does it give me gift cards? 1109 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,040 A lot of them stepped up and gave me gift cards. 1110 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:55,360 Now I had a bunch of cards and I'm trying to arrange like, pick out, pick out, pick out, 1111 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:58,800 okay, I'm going to do two prizes that are gift cards. 1112 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:00,840 And then I had three other prizes. 1113 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:04,280 I had like a whole bath and body, hall. 1114 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:09,560 And I used I bought a gift card for bath and body, my donation and that with my bath and 1115 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:10,560 body stuff. 1116 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:11,560 Then I had tamaraz stuff. 1117 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:15,000 Then I had some, a whole makeup thing. 1118 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,680 Anyway. 1119 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:21,640 So most people were pretty appreciative of the fact that I was taking care of it. 1120 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:28,560 Now I also have to do this again in October for our big, we do a big fall school at the 1121 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:29,560 school. 1122 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:30,560 Right. 1123 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,760 There is a humongous pain in the ass. 1124 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:33,760 Yes. 1125 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,800 It's a community building. 1126 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:36,800 Right. 1127 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,760 I'm saying that with some sarcasm and some air quotes because yeah, it's great and people 1128 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,920 have a good time, but it takes so much work to put it together. 1129 00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:50,760 And not for nothing, but like I did this, this event all by myself and it wasn't that 1130 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:51,760 hard. 1131 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:52,760 Why? 1132 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:53,880 Because I wasn't having committees. 1133 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,080 I was in charge of me. 1134 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:57,080 Yes. 1135 00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:01,000 So like I took care of the stuff that needed to get taken care of and I asked people for help 1136 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:05,080 and they helped me and it all went really smartly. 1137 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:10,400 And you know, I had to order like pizza for the event and I was, that was the hardest thing. 1138 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:11,400 Was like, okay, how many pizza? 1139 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:12,400 How many pizza? 1140 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,040 How many pizzas should I order? 1141 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:15,040 And guess what? 1142 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,720 I ordered eight pizzas. 1143 00:43:16,720 --> 00:43:23,200 I had it come not at the beginning of the show, but like a half hour before intermission, 1144 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:24,200 sold all the pizza. 1145 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:25,960 It was a perfect amount. 1146 00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:26,960 Nice. 1147 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,160 It all worked great. 1148 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:32,200 So like, I think I can be trusted to make like decisions, you know? 1149 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,200 Right. 1150 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,440 So one of the moms donated a couple of gift cards. 1151 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:37,800 I'll tell you what they were for. 1152 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,480 So if she listens, she'll know who she is, but whatever. 1153 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:44,120 So her gift cards were to teach, they're like TJ Maxx, Marshalls. 1154 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,000 There's like a couple of stores. 1155 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:47,280 Yeah, good for. 1156 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,680 And I was like, that's cute. 1157 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:49,680 That's fine. 1158 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:50,680 That's great. 1159 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:51,680 But you know what? 1160 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,640 It's not, that's not going to fit in with my emotive. 1161 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,080 What I, the ones that I used, I had a bunch of Starbucks. 1162 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:05,880 I did Starbucks, Amazon, and then each set had a couple of like a random one. 1163 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,400 Like one had a Dave and Busters. 1164 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,680 It was like a little bit kid-oriented. 1165 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:10,680 Yeah, yeah. 1166 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:15,800 And then one had something else that I can't remember, but maybe a makeup or something. 1167 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,200 Okay. 1168 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:21,040 So she, so I made it pretty clear to all the parents. 1169 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:25,880 I was like, hey, you could, if I don't need any more gift cards already, I'm going to use 1170 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,120 a couple of them for the fall festival. 1171 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,120 Right. 1172 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:30,120 Okay. 1173 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:31,120 So this mom comes over. 1174 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,560 So one of the ones that I didn't use for this was the TJ Maxx. 1175 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:35,560 Okay. 1176 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:36,560 It didn't go. 1177 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,560 I already had enough. 1178 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:42,200 I didn't want to give them all out because I don't need the prize to be worth like $200. 1179 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,200 Right. 1180 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:44,200 Yeah. 1181 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,200 Yeah. 1182 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,960 Or just buying tickets for $5 each. 1183 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:47,960 Right. 1184 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:48,960 Yeah. 1185 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:52,320 And five for 20, which is what most people, so it's not even, it's like $4. 1186 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:53,320 Yes. 1187 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:54,320 Yeah. 1188 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,320 Yeah. 1189 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,320 Calm down. 1190 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,320 Yeah. 1191 00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,320 It's not, you know what I mean? 1192 00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,320 This isn't going to change your life. 1193 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:00,320 Right. 1194 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:01,320 Yeah. 1195 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,320 You're going to go to Starbucks for free for, you know, and have a little bit of, it was, 1196 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,160 but it was like worth like 170 in each one. 1197 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,160 Mm-hmm. 1198 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,160 Okay. 1199 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:08,160 So she comes over. 1200 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,160 She looks at it. 1201 00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:13,560 She's like, hey, I don't, I don't see my gift cards in there. 1202 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:14,560 Mm-hmm. 1203 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,280 I was so annoyed, so fat. 1204 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:21,520 Do you know that feeling where he's like, are you serious right now? 1205 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,040 First of all, not there to help. 1206 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,040 Right. 1207 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:25,040 She's standing around. 1208 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,040 Okay. 1209 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,480 I have other moms that are there to help. 1210 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:28,480 Yeah. 1211 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,280 She's a totally nice woman. 1212 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:31,280 Right. 1213 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:32,280 I do, I like her. 1214 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,280 She's, she's really sweet. 1215 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,280 Yes. 1216 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,000 Her kids graduating, so even if she listened to this and got mad, it doesn't really matter 1217 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,000 because her kids leaving. 1218 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,000 Right. 1219 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,000 But anyway, very nice person. 1220 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,000 Yeah. 1221 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,000 But I was just annoyed because of the way. 1222 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:48,520 You're watching me put this together and also I was like, what does that mean? 1223 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:49,720 You don't see your gift cards. 1224 00:45:49,720 --> 00:45:56,320 Like, are you implying I, I went on a shopping spree at TJ Maxx with your $25 to TJ Maxx? 1225 00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:57,320 Right. 1226 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,120 Well, to be fair, there were two of them. 1227 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,120 Mm-hmm. 1228 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,560 So there was a TJ, there was two TJ Maxx. 1229 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:08,520 They were for TJ Maxx marshals and like whatever two other companies that are right. 1230 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,920 That I, and you could save them for the fall. 1231 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:12,720 I'm going to use them for the fall festival. 1232 00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:13,720 Right. 1233 00:46:13,720 --> 00:46:20,880 A couple, I held back a panera bread, a cheesecake factory because I, because what we do is we 1234 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:24,080 do baskets for the fall festival. 1235 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,280 And then I, it gift cards up the value of those baskets. 1236 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:28,280 Yes. 1237 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,840 So like, let's say I do a basket that's got clothing in it or something. 1238 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:31,840 Right. 1239 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,200 Then I do, I add like a TJ Maxx gift card in there, right? 1240 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:35,200 Yeah. 1241 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:40,240 It's just didn't fit with my, you know, so I said, I was like, oh, yeah, oh, you go, which 1242 00:46:40,240 --> 00:46:41,240 ones were they? 1243 00:46:41,240 --> 00:46:43,160 And she, and I said, were they the TJ Maxx ones? 1244 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,080 And she's like, yeah. 1245 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,000 And I was like, yeah, I'm going to use them for the fall festival. 1246 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:53,480 And she goes, oh, well, I mean, my kid's not even going to be there. 1247 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:59,880 And so my brain had, so I was like, is she serious? 1248 00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:00,880 Yeah. 1249 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:01,880 Like what? 1250 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:02,880 I don't care. 1251 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:03,880 Right. 1252 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:04,880 I don't care. 1253 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:05,880 Like, do you want them back? 1254 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,880 Like I could arrange to give them back to you. 1255 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:08,880 Right. 1256 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:09,880 Right. 1257 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:11,880 And then I put the whole thing together. 1258 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:16,880 And then, why do you have to go, bother the person, the poor person that's been working, putting 1259 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:18,880 these things together and blah, blah, blah. 1260 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:19,880 Why do you even have to go, blah, blah, blah? 1261 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:20,880 And then, you know, it's like, you're working, you're not. 1262 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:21,880 You're working. 1263 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:22,880 Right. 1264 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:23,880 She's not. 1265 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:24,880 I put the whole thing together. 1266 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:25,880 Don't bother people that are working. 1267 00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:26,880 It's just, you know, donate. 1268 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:31,880 And then, quietly, leave it at that and let them do their thing. 1269 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:37,200 There's, why do you got to go bother the person, the poor person that's been working, 1270 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,280 putting these things together and blah, blah, blah. 1271 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,280 I don't even got a question, where's my card? 1272 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:42,280 What do you think? 1273 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,600 She thinks you like, you know, went on a shopping spree over the weekend. 1274 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:45,920 I really did all this. 1275 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,720 I did all this so that I could spend, right? 1276 00:47:48,720 --> 00:47:50,320 So I could steal some of your gift cards. 1277 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:51,320 Yeah, exactly. 1278 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:56,800 I mean, if, and if that's the case, if you even possibly think that, then don't, don't 1279 00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:57,800 donate anything. 1280 00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:58,800 Right. 1281 00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:03,160 Like, if you're going to be so locked into like, no, it has to be used for this, you know, 1282 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:04,160 come this show. 1283 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:05,160 Right. 1284 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,680 It's like, listen, the other, the next thing that we need to force literally a few 1285 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,640 months away, we start collecting them like in the summer. 1286 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:12,640 Yeah. 1287 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:13,640 So whatever. 1288 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,160 But I was like, I don't need this right now. 1289 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:20,440 I don't need to like try to figure out, I have a little pile of them, like in my room, 1290 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:24,800 which is a, on my friend and Tamara, like she's so sweet. 1291 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,480 So she gave me the jewelry for the thing. 1292 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,000 Then she gave me another thing. 1293 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:33,920 She was like, in case I forget, yeah, there's something for fall festival too while we're 1294 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:34,920 at it. 1295 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:35,920 That's awesome. 1296 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:42,000 I think gold chain bracelet with a, like, Pave Diamonds Infinity. 1297 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,000 I love that. 1298 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,000 I love that. 1299 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,000 I love that. 1300 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,000 I love that. 1301 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,000 I love that. 1302 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,000 I love that. 1303 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,000 That's awesome. 1304 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,000 I know. 1305 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,000 She's, but like, why can't everybody be like that? 1306 00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:52,000 I know. 1307 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,000 I know. 1308 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,000 Yeah. 1309 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:59,560 Why do you got to like, yes, anyway, anyway, all in all though, the whole show was so great. 1310 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,400 These shows are like four hours long. 1311 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,720 This was the most crowded. 1312 00:49:03,720 --> 00:49:04,720 It's ever been. 1313 00:49:04,720 --> 00:49:06,200 It was packed. 1314 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:10,040 And I felt like I was, I mean, I was working. 1315 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:17,640 I was like sweating because when the crowd hit for the pizza, I mean, there were like, oh, 1316 00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:21,120 probably 100 and I want to say 160 people. 1317 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:22,120 Holy shit. 1318 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:23,120 That's a lot of people. 1319 00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,120 That's a lot of people. 1320 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,120 That's a lot of people. 1321 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,120 Which we have, it's a small auditorium. 1322 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,120 It's like, we don't have a, it's not like an auditorium. 1323 00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,480 We had a normal school because we're a really small school. 1324 00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:33,280 So it was packed to the gills in there. 1325 00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:34,280 Wow. 1326 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,720 Just way standing room only people taking, and so people would come out because it was very 1327 00:49:37,720 --> 00:49:38,720 hot in the room. 1328 00:49:38,720 --> 00:49:39,720 Yeah. 1329 00:49:39,720 --> 00:49:42,600 And they would come out and then they were just lining up. 1330 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:43,600 That's amazing. 1331 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:47,680 It was like, it's deep of people trying to get bake sale stuff, trying to get pizza. 1332 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,520 And they'd be like, two pizza pepperoni. 1333 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:50,520 Yeah. 1334 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:55,320 And I had a woman who stepped up and she was like, I got you like helping serve food, 1335 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,320 the gloves. 1336 00:49:56,320 --> 00:50:00,160 And it was like, holding pizza and then we were taking money and like, yeah, I was like, 1337 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,560 this is what it's like to have a job. 1338 00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:02,560 Yeah. 1339 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,560 But you know what? 1340 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:10,800 You're going to miss that when they, when, when, when, I know, just like going to the sporting 1341 00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,880 events, you're going to miss it and you have one more year left. 1342 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:22,280 I got to tell you, there were parents that were so upset and crying and just like, you know, 1343 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:23,280 because it was their last year. 1344 00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:24,280 Those are last show. 1345 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:30,040 And I was, I was like, I am so grateful that I do have another year of this. 1346 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,040 Yeah. 1347 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:32,040 Yeah. 1348 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:40,040 And I mean, just a moment of gratitude, like for my kids school, because for all the years 1349 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,960 that I complained, yeah, many years as it been. 1350 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:43,960 Yeah. 1351 00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:50,640 We've had many years of our listeners getting mad at me and going, stop what you're doing. 1352 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,280 Pull your kids out, put them in a normal school. 1353 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:54,280 Yeah. 1354 00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:55,280 And then guess what? 1355 00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:56,280 That didn't fucking work. 1356 00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:57,280 Right. 1357 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:58,280 Yeah. 1358 00:50:58,280 --> 00:50:59,280 So it didn't work. 1359 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:00,280 Yeah. 1360 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:04,200 But I was like, okay, with the pressure from the people that are like, you need to have your 1361 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,600 kids in just a normal public school, right? 1362 00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:07,600 Did that? 1363 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,200 It was the worst year for both of them. 1364 00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,200 Yeah. 1365 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:11,200 I remember. 1366 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,440 It was a tough going for a while. 1367 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,000 It was a rough, rough patch. 1368 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:21,200 And you know, it's not easy, you know, when your kids aren't happy, you feel bad. 1369 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:22,880 Like you don't know what to do. 1370 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:26,880 And then your options are limited here in Los Angeles. 1371 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:31,840 So, you know, but then you found this school, how did you find this school? 1372 00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:36,240 Well, it was a, it was founded. 1373 00:51:36,240 --> 00:51:38,040 It was a different school. 1374 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:42,960 It started as a different school, but then they lost their charter. 1375 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:48,280 And it for, it was formed by a woman who wanted to have a school. 1376 00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:51,480 She was a college counselor, like a private college counselor. 1377 00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:55,320 She wanted to have a school that that's that gave you that for free. 1378 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,440 And helped kids get into it the right college for them, but for free. 1379 00:51:58,440 --> 00:51:59,440 That's nice. 1380 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:03,400 And so she started this school and she didn't really know and it started quite a few years 1381 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:05,760 before my kids started going there. 1382 00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:18,640 But it ended up being just a, I'm trying to think just like a nurturing, cool, small, not 1383 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:22,160 I, it's, they, we don't call our teachers by their first names. 1384 00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:23,160 Yeah. 1385 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:26,240 A lot of the teachers are like your friend, right? 1386 00:52:26,240 --> 00:52:28,120 They know all the kids. 1387 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:29,120 Yes. 1388 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:34,560 They have really small class sizes and they have really dynamic programs. 1389 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:39,800 So basically, you know, a friend had her kid going there and was telling me about it and 1390 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:43,200 I went to a meeting for it before Elby went into high school. 1391 00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:44,200 Right. 1392 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:45,200 And I loved it. 1393 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,200 But Elby was like hell, no. 1394 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:48,200 Yeah. 1395 00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:49,200 I want to go to a big school. 1396 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:50,520 I'm done with small schools. 1397 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,720 She knew her own mind. 1398 00:52:52,720 --> 00:52:54,880 And Sadie and Zander wanted a big school too. 1399 00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:56,840 They thought they would go to the taft. 1400 00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:57,840 Yes. 1401 00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:02,440 Well, Elby went, but then when it, so when they had that bad time, right at the public middle 1402 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,760 school, they became a little bit more open to just going to see it. 1403 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:06,760 Yes. 1404 00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,440 And then Sadie was the first one to go like, oh, yeah. 1405 00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:10,440 Yeah. 1406 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:11,440 I want to go to this school. 1407 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:12,440 Right. 1408 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:18,440 It feels, but the thing that I love about it is that it has, the music program is like 1409 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:24,440 very unique in Los Angeles, because the kids play in bands and they don't, it's no marching 1410 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:25,440 band. 1411 00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:26,440 Right. 1412 00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:27,440 It's not your typical music program. 1413 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:28,440 Right. 1414 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:29,440 Yeah. 1415 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,960 But they have jazz and they have guitar classes and they have. 1416 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:32,960 That's amazing. 1417 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,080 It's a big music program that does three shows a year. 1418 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,200 But then they also have the speech and debate. 1419 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,200 Yes. 1420 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:39,680 You may have heard something about that. 1421 00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:40,680 Yeah. 1422 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:48,240 But they have a, like a poetry slam kind of group and they have a film club. 1423 00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:51,280 But they have a, all the stuff that a lot of bigger schools have. 1424 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,280 Yes. 1425 00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:53,560 But in a very small environment. 1426 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:54,560 I love it. 1427 00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,960 And it just made me so happy to see my kids thriving. 1428 00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:58,960 Yes. 1429 00:53:58,960 --> 00:53:59,960 Yeah. 1430 00:53:59,960 --> 00:54:00,960 Nothing like that. 1431 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:01,960 Right. 1432 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:02,960 I know. 1433 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:03,960 They're so happy. 1434 00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:04,960 I'll post some videos. 1435 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:05,960 Yeah. 1436 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:11,840 If you follow John on Facebook, John Taylor from Duran Duran, he has a video up. 1437 00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,560 I was going to make him make it shareable. 1438 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:15,560 Yeah. 1439 00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:17,080 So which I will do. 1440 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:18,080 Yeah. 1441 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:19,080 Okay. 1442 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:23,960 Let's say, um, hi to our, our patrons, our Patreon people. 1443 00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:25,840 Oh, Michael Lerner. 1444 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:26,840 I will give you him. 1445 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:27,840 He's a planner. 1446 00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,320 Adam, Adam Lerner. 1447 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:30,320 Yeah. 1448 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:31,560 I will give him his plug. 1449 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:32,880 He is amazing. 1450 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:35,000 I have been talking with him. 1451 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,720 He's been helping me with Natalia's leases up. 1452 00:54:37,720 --> 00:54:43,680 So I'm getting her another car and he's getting me something cheaper than what we had 1453 00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:44,680 before. 1454 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,360 And he's just been amazing. 1455 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:52,040 And he's coordinating with turning the car in and then getting the new one. 1456 00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,720 I don't have to do anything. 1457 00:54:53,720 --> 00:54:56,080 That's the thing that he's trying to tell people. 1458 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:57,080 Yeah. 1459 00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,440 It's he's been great. 1460 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:00,680 And he's helping me. 1461 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,680 My lease is coming up soon. 1462 00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,760 And he's going to help me looking, you know, I thought I would just make it easy and just 1463 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,080 get another Tesla. 1464 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,920 But I like the power of it. 1465 00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:11,920 And that's about it. 1466 00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,400 That's the only thing I like about that car. 1467 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:17,520 And he's like, and I didn't, you know, I don't do any research. 1468 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:21,920 But anyway, he's like, there's a little plenty of electric cars out there that have that 1469 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:22,920 kind of power. 1470 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:27,120 I think that he's told me that the Mercedes electric car is a good deal right now. 1471 00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:28,720 Yeah, that's his favorite. 1472 00:55:28,720 --> 00:55:32,040 So anyway, he's going to send me to go look at some cars. 1473 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,440 But yes, Adam Lerner's got a car. 1474 00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:35,760 Adam Lerner's got a car. 1475 00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:36,760 Adam's got a car. 1476 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:37,760 Yes. 1477 00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:38,760 Go talk to him. 1478 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:39,760 He will help you. 1479 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:40,760 Yes. 1480 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:41,760 He's amazing. 1481 00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:42,760 Super sweet. 1482 00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:43,760 Yeah. 1483 00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:44,760 That's right. 1484 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:45,760 Right. 1485 00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:51,520 If you live in other parts of the country, he, there's a fee, but it comes off of basically 1486 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,000 what he's saving you. 1487 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,000 Okay. 1488 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:55,960 And he gives our listeners a discount. 1489 00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:56,960 Just text him. 1490 00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:57,960 Yes. 1491 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:04,720 Anyway, also queer youth resource in Vancouver, Washington. 1492 00:56:04,720 --> 00:56:06,120 Listen, assholes. 1493 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,840 It's Pride Month. 1494 00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,240 I was just going to say that. 1495 00:56:11,240 --> 00:56:12,240 Yeah. 1496 00:56:12,240 --> 00:56:13,240 It is June. 1497 00:56:13,240 --> 00:56:16,780 It is June, March, and there's, please help out some of these. 1498 00:56:16,780 --> 00:56:20,200 I'm going to, all the charities we do today are going to be Pride Charities. 1499 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:21,940 Queer youth resource. 1500 00:56:21,940 --> 00:56:27,360 Vancouver, Washington, QYRC, Vancouver, WA, dot org. 1501 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,120 That's our friend, Laura Wingfield's college friend. 1502 00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,880 So let's help them out. 1503 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,080 Also Jacob Crowley. 1504 00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:37,080 You know what? 1505 00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:43,160 Jacob Crowley and Carrie Kibler, I'm going to double down those two Trevor projects. 1506 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,160 TrevorProject.org. 1507 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:53,120 This is, this helps youth in crisis, LGBT kids who, and you know, our pal Trump is cutting 1508 00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,080 funding to a lot of these places. 1509 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,320 We need these, we need these programs. 1510 00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,560 They're lifesavers for our LGBT youth. 1511 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:06,360 So please give generously to them this month if you're looking for something to give to. 1512 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:11,040 Also, the Get Up Show, it's a podcast incorporates yoga, music, jokes, learning. 1513 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,040 It's really fun. 1514 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,520 The Get Up Show, check them out, Fern Candle. 1515 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:17,520 That's our friend Kelsey. 1516 00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:22,080 She runs this business of making soy candles that smell really great. 1517 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:28,240 They have sense like tobacco sage and go to her Instagram @FernCandle or just go to 1518 00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,080 FernCandle.com. 1519 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:35,960 If you want to travel somewhere, waves and wonder travel, that's our friend Christine 1520 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:36,960 Black. 1521 00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,120 Waves and wonder travel, check her out. 1522 00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:43,400 If you're on the island of Kauai in Hawaii, go to Sugar Skull. 1523 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:49,800 And get like they do wedding cakes, they do delicious desserts and they, they're a gift store 1524 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,040 and small bakery. 1525 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,320 And they have an Instagram page at Sugar Skull 808. 1526 00:57:55,320 --> 00:58:02,200 Also, if you want a t-shirt or a mouse pack or a mug, go to justbasicbecky.com and use 1527 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,400 our gal basic Becky. 1528 00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:06,440 She's also on Facebook at Basic Becky. 1529 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:10,320 And if you're in Palm Springs or Palm Desert, go to Wilma and Frida. 1530 00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:11,320 Okay? 1531 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:12,320 Yep. 1532 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:13,320 Get some salmon. 1533 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:14,320 Love it. 1534 00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:20,280 And ask them if you can have a mimosa or a latte and tell them you're from F-C-O-L. 1535 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:21,280 Yeah. 1536 00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:22,280 All right. 1537 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,280 Thanks me. 1538 00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,880 Thanks, Stephanie. 1539 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,480 Thanks everybody, your parent now. 1540 00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:30,720 Don't eff it up. 1541 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:37,720 Woo! 1542 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:47,720 [MUSIC]