Hi there and welcome. I'm Martin, this is calming anxiety. There's a certain softness
to a Sunday isn't there. So let's not rush a single thing today. Just a quick word before
we settle. If you haven't already, the Anchored app is open for testing. It's on iOS,
the whole of this library in your pocket. There's a link at the top of today's show notes
if you'd like to be the first to wander through it. No pressure, but if you do, I'd love
to hear how it feels to use. Now, today, something gentle. We're going to talk about finding happiness,
not the big fireworks kind, but the small kind. The kind that's already here hiding in plain
sight. There's a lovely word for these moments, glimmers. The tiny sparks of calm and delight
we usually walk straight past. Today, we're going to slow down just enough to catch a few.
So let's settle. You don't need to sit upright or breathe in any special way. In fact, today,
I'd like you to do less. Let your breath be completely natural, unforced, easy. Just
let it come and go on its own and keep it quiet company. And if it helps, let one soft
sigh, let it go for the whole week. There, you've arrived. Now, a slow sweep through the
body, not to fix anything, just to say hello. Feel the weight of yourself being held completely,
your feet and legs heavy and supported, your hands resting open, your shoulders softening
down away from your ears, your face unguarded. Nothing to do here, nowhere else to be. Here's
something I learned in an unlikely place. All those years on the front line as a paramedic,
and you'd think you only learned to scan for danger, but the truth is, the nervous system
is always scanning for the opposite too. The signals of safety, a warm hand, a kind voice,
a patch of sunlight, researchers call these glimmers and they're not trivial. Each one
is a tiny message to your body that says, "You're safe now. You can soften." That's real,
and it's happening inside you, as we speak. So let's find one. Cast your mind back over
the last day or two, and look for a small good moment, not a big event, truly something
tiny, that first sip of a wandering, a pet that was pleased to see you, the exact moment
you got into bed, a song that came on at just the right time, let one come to you. Now,
don't just remember it, relive it, put yourself back inside that moment, where were you?
What could you see, what could you hear or feel on your skin? Let your body feel it all
over again, as if it were happening right now. That small warmth spreading through you,
that is the glimmer. That's finding happiness in the little things. It was free, it was small,
and it was always yours. Maybe explore this glimmer further or find another.
But just be aware, most moments of most days, they are there, unseen, unnoticed, until we
awaken to them, and then our lives truly blue. Within this moment of calm now, within the
sanctuary of your consciousness in your mind's eye, see these words, repeat them after me within
the silence, taking note the colour, the size of each letter and word in your thoughts,
let them become part of all that you are. The good is already here, I only have to catch
it. I deserve the smaller lights of this day.
This lives in the tiny moments, and I am learning to save them. I welcome this quiet contentment
exactly as it is. Every glimmer I collect makes the next one easier to find.
Now, with every out-brake, allow the tension to melt away as if evaporating from the very
surface of your skin. Out-brake after out-brake, deeper and deeper and deeper still. And then,
once more, within the beauty of your mind's eye, imagine and repeat. The good is already
here, I only have to catch it. I deserve the smaller lights of this day.
Happiness lives in the tiny moments, and I am learning to save them. I welcome this quiet
contentment exactly as it is. Every glimmer I collect makes the next one easier to find.
This is the perfect moment of time out, a gift from yourself to your soul. Here are your
three daily caring tips to make glimmers part of your life.
One, collect three tonight before you fall asleep, name three glimmers from your day out loud
or in your head. The smaller the better. This isn't just a nice habit, each time you do
it, you are training your mind to spot the good more easily tomorrow.
Two, give the good moment three more seconds. When something small feels lovely, a taste,
a warm bit of sun, a laugh, don't rush past it. Stay with it for three seconds longer
than you normally would. Savoring is a skill and those three seconds are how a fleeting
moment actually lands and stays. Three, leave yourself a trail. Keep a note on your phone
or a jar on the shelf and add one glimmer to it each day. On a grey, heavy day and they
come to us all, you'll have a whole collection to read back in your own words. Proof that
the good was always there. Now gently, bring your awareness back into the world around you.
Wiggle your fingers and toes. Take a soft breath in through your nose, hold and then as you breathe
out, stretch out your arms overhead and when you're ready, open your eye.
If today's session gave you even one small moment to calm, will you pass it on? Share this
to your social media. Someone's scrolling might now could use that reminder that the
good is still there, waiting in the little things. Tag me when you do, I'll see it. So go
gently into your Sunday. Catch a few glimmers for me. This is calming anxiety. Smile often,
positivity whenever you can and then to yourself. Be kind.